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Nice Guys Finish First

A Nice Guy can Finish First…

Because the skills needed to attract, can be learned.

Will you begin to understand her?

When a man decides to explore how attraction works and then blends the right skills to create a charming masculine man, he will attract. He can become:

  • The Nice Guy with high self-esteem and strong confidence.
  • The Mature Masculine Man who knows how to flirt sexually with any woman he desires.
  • The Cool Dude that knows how to handle a woman’s tests. And de does it with poise, control, humor, and an understanding of what really turns them.
  • The rare sought out man who understands a woman’s attraction is never a conscious decision in which she can arbitrarily decide.
  • He knows what to say when approaching a woman, regardless of the situation, because he enters all circumstance without fear of rejection. His confident self and magnetic body language drives his outer game to the point where it no controlled and becomes part of who he is.

Nice guys Finish First when women begin to notice every detail of his appearance and life are within his control. He meticulously refines who he is with persistence regardless of his style, occupation, or social following of the latest trends.

And lastly,
He understand how social dynamics and status are an integral part of what women find attractive and not looks or money.


And Nice Guys will Finish Last when…


  • He  does not have the skills, and/or the drive to acquire them or understand attraction.
  • He makes no effort to change his situation.
  • He applies the wrong effort countless times and then attempts to explain his failures with complaint,
  • He constantly blames a woman’s choices as his reason for finishing last.

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This man feels it is his destiny or curse of being nice, that causes him only develop friendship to those women in which he feels the most attracted to. He will also then settle with any girlfriend because he feels, it is all he can get.

He effectively turns that once feared hunter human animal, into an unfortunate prey to the results of his actions. That nice guy victim mentality he carries around with him only guarantees he will finish last.


Inner Game:

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Outer Game:

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Body Language Women Respond to Positively:

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Understanding Women:

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This site is for nice guys who want to finish first with women…

Attracting single, beautiful women is within your grasp as a man. Think about it.

You are a man, right? Well then inside you, exists the ability to attract single women.

And single women are everywhere.

They are in supermarkets, bars, clubs, coffee shops, libraries, your school, malls, they walk down the streets you walk, they live in houses like you, and apartment too. They struggle with life occasionally. Experience bad times, good times, great times, sadness and sometimes despair, just like you.

And guess what?

Most of them are waiting for that one nice guy just who understands them. And I don’t mean understanding in the same sense you are accustomed to.

They want you to understand how to attract them and make them feel that spark that ignites their passions.

And if you don’t know how to do that, they want you to learn how. They have literally told me!

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Yes, they also come to this site. And do you want to know how they find my site so easily?

Because they constantly are typing NICE, GUY, FRIEND, LIKE ME, into their hopeful search bar!


Is it fair that they will not teach you what you need to attract?

Who cares and why should they.

As a boy maturing into a functional adult man it is your responsibility to learn it yourself.

This is more attractive anyways.

A man who wants women to lead him by the hand is not attractive. They are not your mothers. They are strong emotional sexual people with minds all their own.

And they have their problems too.

If you discover these skills and learn how to attract women, study them, and practice them continually you will find women are drawn towards you. They can’t resist.


{ 2 comments… read them below or Attractive Comments Welcome }

Carlos Xuma November 3, 2009 at 12:59 pm

Great stuff, man! I like the list. I may even include some of these rules in my upcoming project: The Bad Boy Formula.

I’m also grateful to know I had an influence.

Remember, guys, the nice guy isn’t so nice, and the bad boy isn’t so bad…

Pete March 1, 2010 at 8:59 am

Thanks Carlos!
I appreciate the comment.
I also wanted to let everyone know the bad boy formula is out now!
You’ll find it here:
Bad Boy Formula Video
Or you can visit the written sales page:
Bad Boy Formula Homepage

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