Now we all can agree the right man for you is obviously a guy you want to keep around. In other words he’s extremely good and ready in a long-term relationship. These means in order to gain his attraction and keep his attention long enough, you must be able to keep your life in order…he will not settle for anything less than someone who at least makes an attempt to fulfill themselves first.
January 2012
Show me a funny smart ass woman and I’m literally “up” to the challenge of some great sex, I mean joking around. We can tease her humor without worrying about what she thinks, because we both know it’s all in good fun. The sex part. Well think about it. Tension. An intelligent smart ass woman who can bring that attitude to the bedroom – she doesn’t run and hide and beg to be chased.
But what wasn’t clear was how I managed to be so overly opinionated towards the “out” crowd, the yuppies, the country music loving people. I was literally disgusted and almost hateful to those who saw things differently. Yes. I realize in my high-school you’re likely to get beat up if you carried a now popular backpack let alone give John Denver a chance. I realize the pressure to appear better than you “feel” is a huge motivator for a teenager.
I have said this before and I’ll say it again – Women are not looking for a perfect guy. They are not looking for money, fame, fortune, or even the perfect looking man. They are just looking for a man. A real man. But they also want a guy who is sexual confident and aware of this and he’s not afraid to use this when the time is right. In very short terms for this discussion a real man “gets” women and to her, it literally feels like he is almost always one step ahead of her. Now that can be escalating to the bedroom or progressing through to an intimate relationship.
You have a need to put everything in its place. You want the structure. The clearer thought. A deep almost physical need to understand something which is outside your self. As if with knowledge comes skill. But that’s not the case. Just as I won’t change by mere knowledge, nor will she be at “your” place by learning a truth that may not even be there. Meaning she could tell you one thing one day, another thing the next day, and even another reason next year.
