4 answers to my personality test, “Are you a man or a wussy?” Part Two

Part Two of

You should never apologize for finding this attractive.

“Are You a Man or a Wussy?”

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6.)  You’re kissing a woman and she starts saying quietly, “We should stop.”

A.  You’re in a position where the next level will not be possible so you look at her and say. “Okay.” Then you walk away.
B.  You’re in a position where the next level will be possible so you look in her eyes for a second. Smirk, and then walk away not saying anything.
C.  You push the issue trying to raise the night to a new level.
D   You’re not in a position where the next level will be possible so you look at her and say. “You’re right. It’s late and I’ve got to get going anyways.”

I love this one. I had no clue growing up in the friend’s zone how it important this was. There are many right answers here but which is the best answer to increase her attraction towards you. Which is the best response that will have her wanting more the next time you see her. It seems quite obvious when I put it that way but how strong are you to make this happen.

Selecting A is the right thing to do. It’s not a so called nice guy move. It’s just the outcome of the evening. The problem with this selection is  you say something. You agree with her. You get plenty of points for doing the respectable thing but lose for reason I will explain next. You only get 6 points for this one.

I absolutely agree with B. 10 points. The key here you are in a position to push things to the next level. Meaning “We should stop” is not “Stop IT!” So she’s feeling good and so are you. The moment is right for more to happen and most guys will take it further. But learning how to stay out of the friends zone in any future interactions requires you to be strong enough to walk away and tease her. She most likely will chase you down but don’t give in at first. Tease, tease, tease. Let the anticipation grow so deeply in her that she must have you.

C is just plain wrong. It’s a sign that you must look into how you treat women. I know it’s not the worst you can do because she is not blatantly telling you no. There’s definitely a hint of please don’t stop which is implied in her words. But there’s no reason to push it further. Chances are it will turn her off a little. Chances are you will seen as every other guy she has been with. If you want to separate yourself and give her an ultimate experience do not choose this one. You only get 3 points for getting that far in the first place.

Choosing D is easy and you get extra points for setting up your life to make it easy to tease a woman. Having things to do and being busy makes you hard to get. It makes you a tease without having to try. 8 points for this one. You deserve it. If you struggle with being strong in this situation to tease a woman then not having your life around a single outcome will automatically take care of this for you.

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7.)  Choose one below that fit’s close to how you feel about pickup lines?

A.  They don’t work for me.
B.   It doesn’t matter what I say, body language and tonality are more important.
C.   I would like to find the perfect one.
D.   They only work for men that are good looking.

This is a tough one. I struggled with answering it a little myself and I made the test up.

Selecting A may not be the greatest answer but it tells me you feel pick up lines are over used and don’t come from you and your true personality. It tells me you feel just connecting with a woman is more important than “trying to pick her up”. 7 points.

I believe B is the most correct answer. I have not only experienced the difference but I have also done test situations with guys that proved to them without a doubt your body language and tonality are more important than what you actually say. Within reason. For example I knew this one guy who was a little too cocky but I could tell deep down he was not a confident person when it came to women. He said to me one night at a club something like,

“That chic has incredible tits. I would love to bury my face in them.”

And of course the idiot walked up to her and told her she has amazing tits. She didn’t take it too well. He walked up quickly. Said it very loudly and basically embarrassed her.  He then walks back up to me and said,

“I thought you said I could say anything to a chic if I just walked up confidently to her.”

I laughed at him of course and replied,

“I said you can say what you want if you know how to say it. She saw right through your false confident walk. You practically attacked her and you put her tits in the spotlight of everyone around her. Now if you walked up to her slowly, looked right into her eyes, and not her boobs, and merely hinted with a slow low voice that her breasts were incredible. She might have been flattered.”

B will get you ten points almost every time. Using true confident body language and the proper  tonality will allow you to start some great conversations with women. I wouldn’t advocate commenting on a woman tits when you first meet her but if you must, DO IT RIGHT or you will just come across as a complete ass and she will see right through your false confidence.

If you really want to choose C and you feel a perfect one is suited for you. Go for it. But I guarantee there is not one perfect line that will work in every situation with every type of woman you encounter. 5 for trying.

Obviously choosing D get you no points at all. Believe it or not some good looking guys have a ton a trouble approaching women. Just because they are good looking doesn’t mean they know what they are doing. Sure they may get laid occasionally by their looks alone but it in no way reflects who they are. Also good looking guys can come off as players when using pickup lines. Most women can be hesitant if he is too good looking. She might test him more to prove his sincerity. And for a good looking guy that has not had much real success with women will fail these tests almost every time.

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8.)  You see an attractive woman so you walk up to her to start a conversation. What do you usually do?

A.  Compliment her by telling her how beautiful you think she is.
B.   Shake and tremble, your mouth goes dry, so you just keep walking.
C.   Use your best pickup line on her.
D .  Treat her like an old friend, or bratty little sister and and bust on her in a funny yet confident way.

Selecting A is what most guys want to do. If you want to be seen just like everyone or every other guy that approaches the compliment her right away. The problem is you’ll probably blend into background with her. She won’t trust your sincerity. She will probably shrug you off with a smile. You get 2 points for having the balls to approach but that’s all. Attractive women are approached all the time so you must be a little different than the rest. You must learn how to stand out from them.

I’m sorry to hear it if you chose B. I hate to hear how tough it is for some men that can get so nervous in a situation in which there is no reason to be. She’s a person just like you. Her looks mean nothing. Her insecurities are still there just like everybody else. I can’t give you any points for this but i can tell you there are many ways to get over this fear you have. You can spend a little money and get some help or you can continue to put yourself down for those feelings you have. Here are some great resources for you. It’s no secret I will make money if you purchase from them but I look at it this way. You get a chance to learn from the best like I have and your support of my pages will allow me to keep this site moving along.

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Alright back to the answers…

Try C if it works for you. If you’re good enough and come up with something different it just might work. Hell here is the link again for tons and tons of pickup lines.

The Most Complete and Most Useless Collection of Pick-Up Lines

I personally don’t recommend it as an approach for an extremely attractive woman. She’s been hit on so many times in her life you will make it really hard on yourself. If you can make her laugh with some cheesy line then lead into something with more substance you’re doing pretty good. Just remember to lead into the substance as quickly as possible before she runs away. Remember she has a life and her time is as valuable as yours. So if you must. Use the pickup line as a laugh, lead into some substance quickly, and then get her phone number. After that get away as soon as possible. Don’t linger around because chances are you might screw it things up. The Three Minute Phone Number Technique works great. So use it. I’ll give you 5 points for choosing C.

D is without a doubt the best approach you can learn. It works like magic when done properly. 10  points for staying well away from the land of the wussies. I will warn however treating an exceptional woman that you just met like an old friend might cause her to back of a little. I hear women say all the time, mostly on social sites, say things like,

“I don’t even know you.”

But remember it’s how the interaction is going and how you make her feel is more important than her words. Just because she is saying one thing it doesn’t mean she is feeling that. If she is still talking to you and you’re making her laugh you are on the right track so keep it up. I’m sure by now you have heard all about the cocky/funny approach and this is exactly what it is all about. It’s popular because it works. I’ve seen it work like magic and I’ve done it myself. Before I actually learned all this shit I would see it but didn’t understand it. Once the lights were turned on inside my head it was one of the best A-Ha moments I have ever had in my life.

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9.)  You meet a woman and for some reason you find yourself staring at her breasts. She responds angrily and asks you to stop. How do you handle the situation?

A.  Continue to stare, ignoring her words.
B.   Continue to start and say, “I think your breasts are amazing and I can’t keep my eyes off of them.”
C.   Stop staring and apologize.
D.   Stop staring and then feel bad about it so you attempt to make it up to her.

If you want to be a pig, then A is the way to go. Just remember this. There is a fine line being being a pig and being a sexual man. If you are all about staring and you don’t give two shits about her knowing it, then that is who you must be at all times. Most likely you will turn her off to you but again if it is what you are all about then don’t worry about it. Throw in some true confidence and don’t laugh and she just might be curious enough to wonder what the hell you are all about. I don’t condone this attitude approach for anyone but I’m also not into telling people to be something they are not. So you get a couple, okay, 3 fucking points for having the balls to keep it up.

B is exactly what I was talking about above when I mentioned having the confidence to allow yourself to be who you are. If you find her tits amazing then it’s alright. There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to a female. It’s all how you handle the situation and how consistent you are with yourself. If you are a strong confident man and you don’t back down she just might give you a chance. If you lead into to some skeezy dirty talk and make her FEEL like she is a piece of meat then you will fail miserably. You will not be a wussy. You will be a scumbag. If through how you act says to her you are just admiring her beauty and can lead into some great conversation after that makes her laugh you’re going to get pretty fay. Personally this choice won’t work for me. I’m an ass man. This answer does get you 10 points though.

Selecting C isn’t entire wrong but apologizing for something that is not causing harm or willfully demeaning another person is kind of a cop out. You can admit to her that you were caught but why bother apologizing.  You’re not really sorry for checking her out. You sorry you got caught! 5 points.

D is the classic wussy response. A wussy response is pretending to be something you are not. Why should you feel bad about admiring beauty. Granted if you act like a pig and point at her with your friends you are acting like pig. But feeling bad about it tells her you don’t own up to your own masculinity. We’re men. We are attracted visually all the time. If she can’t understand that than that is her problem. Not yours. So move on. If you attempt to make it up to her she will instantly put you below her in status. Go ahead and admit what you did but I see no reason for kissing her ass. Trust me, she will get over it. No points for this selection.

I have only included a maximum of 40 points and if you hit it. Congratulations. You might not need to read my pages anymore.

If you didn’t manage to get above 10 points then you have some work in front of you. But it’s okay. I’ve been there myself and have learned to overcome the wussy infliction.

If your points fall somewhere in the middle you’re well on your way to acting like a man in many different testing situations. Now you know the areas in which you didn’t perform as well it will be easier for you to work on those specific examples. It’s all a part of the learning process. This is why I gave you the answers. It so hard to learn from a test when you don’t know the right answers.

We’ve covered teasing, pick up lines, approaching, and owning up to your masculinity in just four questions. All four can create a real man when done properly.  All four are closely related and one when fails the others don’t work as well. That is why it is important for you to look at all aspects of attraction if you want to stay out the the friend’s zone forever.

Related articles by Peter White

• Do Men Know How to Talk To Women When They Feel Attraction? (dialteg.com)
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• Using Pickup Lines Should not be a Dead End (dialteg.com)

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