Nice Guys escape the Friend's Zone.
Peter White
Hey everybody,
What’s up?
You know that nice guy you see everyday? The one everyone likes.
He’s well-respected. Has many friends.
People generally trust him as a friend and a nice guy.
He’s intelligent, street smart, and humorous at times.
People go to him for advice because he’s skilled in many areas of music and knows how to do his job.
He just seems to know his shit.
For this he can teach you things and you may have learned something from him in the past.
He also seems to know how to dress because he looks presentable.
He’s not terrible looking but he’s not great looking.
BUT… There’s also another side to him.
He’s angry at times.
Flies off the handle all too often.
Appears a little moody.
He’s very high-strung.
Some have called him borderline genius due to his neurotic behaviors.
You think he’s probably one of those really smart guys whose mind thinks way too much.
And here’s the synopsis of it all…
There’s something missing about him. You may not pinpoint it exactly or even care to formulate an opinion about him.
But there’s still something missing..a lot of those “somethings”…
Women see or feel them clearly.
Those missing “somethings” are:
A wife. A girlfriend.
Past relationships.
Frequent sex. Casual sex. Sex.
A great personality. A great storyteller.
A sexual man. A flirt.
Modest cockiness. Self-confidence. Awareness.
Cooler than just being cool.
Skillful intelligence on how to turn on a woman.
Skillful intelligence on how to turn off a woman.
Knows when to be selfless and when to be selfish.
Understands social dynamics and knows how to interact with them to make things happen.
Have you noticed the picture to the right? I bet that was the first thing you noticed…HAha!
If it’s not obvious by now. That was me. I was the nice guy that finished last.
Nice to meet you!
Please, look at the pictures below and then keep reading, there’s a little more. Have fun with them.
Laugh a little.
I do… all the time. 
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- Vacation in Rehobeth Beach, Delaware.
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- College of St. Rose, New York. Freshman Year.
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- Peter White with out his shirt.
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- Jamie helps to transform my outer game.
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- New Look. Bad Body Language.
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- New body language and extreme work on my inner game.
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- Peter White’s complete transformation.
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- Don’t be afraid if you’re turned on by this…
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- What can I say it’s a living!
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- Sometimes in life the best thing you can do is put yourself in a position in which you will naturally learn to overcome any fear.
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- Peter White July 30, 2009
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- Peter White at Dialteg
As you can now see, from the outside…
I am the nice guy that has learned to finish first with women.
I’m the intelligent man who has overcome fears of rejection, fears of sexual performance, and the fears of NOT being rejected. Yes, that is what I said. My biggest fear was to be NOT rejected; and it took me countless number of limited belief exercises to figure that one out.
I’ve learned to blend myself into an attractive man whose indifference is intriguing, who’s mysterious attitude is alluring. A man who loves to flirt and knows how to flirt. I’m the guy that understands the words,
Self-esteem, does not mean
What others think about me Esteem.
I’m the man who understands becoming a real man requires a fluid blend of,
- Strong Sexual Body Language, and a
(Did I miss anything? Let me know.)
It didn’t happen overnight. It wasn’t painless.
And I still work at it everyday. I am always striving for a new platform.
Please enjoy my posts. Follow my stories and experiences. I honestly do hope you can learn from them. I will always do my best to give advice and to also take criticism. You have your views I have mine.
Thanks for stopping by and I really do hope you leave my site, and come back, just a little closer to achieving success as a nice guy understanding women and how to attract them.
Peter White
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Can a Woman Secretly Love a Man They Put in the Friend Zone?
about 1 month ago - No comments
I used to think that a woman’s mind could be changed. I used to think maybe there’s a chance she likes me. Maybe there’s a chance that if I stay with her as a friend she will finally see me in a sexual role.
But that only made things worse.
I focused so much on her that I failed to see the truth of our relationship. I thought she was my one and only and I felt if I could do just one more thing for her, she would finally be attracted to me enough and feel compelled to kiss me.
38. Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
about 2 months ago - 1 comment
This question is classic. You start thinking to yourself. I’m better than him. Or what does she have that I don’t. He kisses her ass and I can not see why. I don’t get it.
This sort of thinking often leads us down a road of negativity. It is very unhealthy and cause us to shut ourselves off from the rest of the world. It becomes obvious to those around us and will certainly land you in the friend’s zone frequently because no one enjoys dating someone whose confidence is false. True confident people don’t use others to boost themselves up. In fact they often do the opposite. They use their abilities to help others. They use their confidence to offer leadership. And good leaders rarely find it hard to attract someone sexually.
An Interview, transcribed, with Carlos Xuma by Peter White Part 1
about 3 months ago - No comments
An approval seeking man. Haha! That’s not what we’re here for.
We’re here for, we create our own approval.
We go out and forge our own path. We cut our own trail through this life. And that’s what it is to be a man.
And that goes right against the grain of what it is to be a man, by seeking approval of all the other people out there. It’s just not good.
Attraction Wants to Play The Blame Game
about 3 months ago - No comments
Blame is absolutely useless and it doesn’t nothing for our growth as humans. The whole “cause and it’s effect on the outcome” is merely just an event leading up to another event.
You can’t blame yourself for just acting accordingly to who YOU ARE.
A Limited Belief of Men: Being Short
about 3 months ago - No comments
We all make them. Some fewer than others and they are LIMITED BELIEFS
My biggest one was, being short!
Let me tell you a quick story. I was at a bar once that always featured live bands. Being a musician I would always bring myself up close to see what chords they were playing. Check out their equipment and meet the players after.
Friends or Lovers: Do Real Men Cuddle?
about 3 months ago - No comments
I finished my interview with my good friend DeAnna we ended up getting into a discussion about cuddling.
http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/Women_g57-Woman_Asleep_p8787.html
It’s no secret that women love to cuddle and she is no exception.
But what about friends cuddling?
I know me, as a man. I don’t hang out with a guy friend of mine and end up spooning over a More >
Do Women Sexual Test Men with Verbal Foreplay?
about 4 months ago - No comments
Do you feel that when a woman brings up the topic of sex early in the conversations she is telling you she wants sex or is it a sexual test?
The Fear of Attraction, Can You Smell It?
about 4 months ago - No comments
Those fears often stem from our wants or needs to fulfill something in our lives that we are missing. Often I read how it is not good to be needy. Which is true but I rarely hear how our wanting something can be just as bad, or even worse….
Nice Guys Guide on How to Attract Women
about 4 months ago - No comments
It’s unfortunate the nice guy label given to men have them always stuck in the friend’s zone. Trying to escape or get out for good with any future interactions. They don’t typically have many girlfriends and struggle getting the women they really want, to be attracted to them.
This guide is meant for those men.
Are You an Expert in Online Dating?
about 5 months ago - No comments
I woke up today and spent over four hours going through my web search engine. I fed it the words, “online dating advice”. I didn’t even attempt to use the word free in there. Who knows what that would have brought up. The list it spewed back at me was awful, and this is coming from a guy that believes in Google, thinks Bing should take a walk, and poor poor Yahoo, I’m pulling for you man.
about 6 months ago
you must be confident to reveal these photos!!
about 6 months ago
Of course I am. Confident, competent and sexy too. I can tell you’re jealous of my gorgeous hair back then.