Advice For A Woman That Every Man Should Read About Attraction

Every now and then while I’m sifting through tons of articles for women I come across one that I feel every man should read. This is a really good one because it can help women on how to create intense attraction with a man, and it can also help a guy understand how to make a woman feel something for him.

...but the more she got to know him, the more she began to feel attracted to him… and the more time she spent with him, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for him.

Alright guys you know what that means. This guy is teaching women and he’s giving an example of what a woman feels. It can show us the steps needed to really turn her on.

1.) Let her feel more attracted to you.

2.) Raise the attraction each time you see her just a little and she will develop a deep emotional attachment.

(If you don’t know a thing about the basics of attraction read this article The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women and if you want to know more it’s up to you for now.)

As her emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, she also grew more and more insecure.

3.) When you first begin to notice a woman is attaching to you more emotionally look for signs of insecurity. This will tell you how strong she is, or “high quality”. It should also let you know how much into her she really is.

Sometimes he would talk to her and say things that led her to believe that they shared a special connection, but nothing ever progressed past the “friendship” stage.

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4.) Sit back a little. Don’t push it. Form a connection and most importantly allow her to form an opinion about the two of you. This is mystery. This is the part where you must learn not to give away all your secrets or she will begin to lose some interest.

(incidentally what I’ve just explain above is better known as the “one step forward two steps back” taught to me by Carlos Xuma’s Get a Girlfriend Fast and David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating.)

There was an occasional glance, an occasional email or call from him… and a few times, he even opened up about something personal or emotional, and invited her “inside” for a little while.

5.) Let her in a little but stay busy with your life. Think of her once in a while and let her know with some imagination.

Let’s say you remember her saying something about a cute commercial on tv and you have not spoken for a few days. Text her that you just saw this commercial and was reminded of her and it made you laugh. That’s it. Don’t continue to text. Just send a reminder that you occasionally think abou

t her and you have an incredible memory. This by the way works better when you’re out and actually can not start a conversation with her.

Next comes the part in which she develops more insecure feelings. Careful with this. Again the more insecure she acts there is a good chance she may not be for you. You may want to cut it off. Very insecure women I have found have a ton of issues and they will include you when you get very close. Break it off quickly and spare both of you the drama. She will work on her own stuff in her time. Right now you’re working on your stuff.

Keep in mind these quotes were taken from an article to for women about intense attraction so please use this information positively or else you just won’t be cool as far as I’m concerned.

He just wasn’t acting like a man who was “falling in love”. He was acting like a friend, but at times, even more distant than a friend would be.

And things seemed to be hot and cold. Sometimes he would look at her and talk to her, and sometimes he would ignore her and close himself off.

6.) This is a way of giving her space. If you don’t do exactly what this man is doing and instead give her space it will amplify her attraction for you. You don’t want to ignore so to speak just let her live her life. Again allow her to feel more attraction for her. If you push push push she will run run run.

Now the next part of this journey is what to avoid for men and women that will literally scare any potential girlfriend.

That secret comes down to the reality that if a man isn’t ATTRACTED to a woman, all of her attempts to confess her love, convince him to like her and court her, BACKFIRE.

In other words, they not only DON’T WORK; they actually make things WORSE.

In other words, the very things that a woman does to try to make a man LIKE HER, make him NOT like her.

They make him run.

All of those great intentions and emotional dedication actually cause the woman feeling them, to do things that make the man go away.

Go ahead and change those words from man to woman or him and her and it won’t change. They are interchangeable. Doing those steps above create more attraction and you’re going to ruin it all if you let a woman know too early how deeply you think you feel. And yes I said think. I don’t believe in love at first sight when it comes to the dating world. A relationship forms and follows a deep connection. Once you begin to feel that connection continually it grows into love. An emotion I’m not going to get into here. Ask below and I’ll tell you my opinion.

They make this mistake over and over again in life, because they’re doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They’re doing it, because they don’t have an understanding of ATTRACTION.

I mean, if you have a friend and you like them, and you want to make them like you more… and you do some nice things for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand…

If you have a man that you “like” in a romantic way, and he doesn’t “feel it” for you, and you do something nice for him, because you want HIM to like you more, it will BACKFIRE… and he will not only NOT like you more, but he will most likely distance himself from you.

Again we can see clearly how this attraction works both ways. Men and women experience the same feelings of attraction, need, and the mistake of doing things that are nice to try to win someone over. And it just doesn’t work.

Don’t stop being nice guys. Just understand and learn that being nice won’t change a woman’s mind if she feels nothing for you. Being a jerk won’t change it either. If she doesn’t feel it, she jut doesn’t feel it. The one true way to alter her feelings is to step back, change yourself, and re-introduce her to you. This can work. Not always but it’s possible.

Take the time to read the entire article if you’re a man or a woman. I feel both sexes can benefit from it. You ‘ll find it here, Creating “Intense Attraction” With A Man. by Christian Carter. Any woman reading this you can click here for a very brief description what Christian has to offer single women.

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