Is It Bad to Just Want to Get Laid?

Casual sex does play it’s role in the dating lives of many people. Man or woman we all experience those times where only having a sexual encounter or getting laid is on the agenda. I like believing it is okay being selfish about yourself and what you want out of life. I also like to make it known that as long as there is no deception, lying, cheating, or unethical practices, I firmly believe,

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There is nothing wrong with just wanting to get laid!

That goes for men and women. Sex is a very important drive in our lives but sometimes a relationship will just not work, or the timing is not right, or there is no time in our lives to fully dedicate to a commitment.

How do I convince someone to just have sex with me without having to deal with all the relationship bullshit?

And the answer is, YOU DON”T!

Convincing to me is a word that does not work. It implies trickery and deception. If you want to just get laid there are many factors that will come into play, here are a few:

Where sexually she is at that time…

• Is she horny and will she act on it, or just go home and masturbate?

• How much can you tease her before she can’t help herself anymore?

Where sexually he is at that time…

• Can he handle just sex or will he become needy after?

• Will you, as a woman, be just a prize to tell his friends about?

Maturity…

• Knowing how to use protection

• Knowing exactly when both agree.

• Knowing that sex not just about getting in and getting out.

I feel as long those factors above are understood competently, just getting laid, or having causal sex should not be a problem. In fact learning how to just get laid while following the guidelines above can have some great benefits.

You must date MANY women to give you the experience, successes, and understanding that put you on the upward spiral of success. There is no more security in having a girlfriend than there is in being a single, dynamic man with the ability to create the dating life HE wants.

If you feel intimidated or scared by the thought of giving up the girl you’ve got, even if the situation you’re in with her is painful, you’re not truly free. You’re not truly secure. You’re at HER mercy.

Develop a full and complete life without a woman. If you aren’t happy being single, you won’t be happy being a couple.

Carlos Xuma,

Being Single is Just as Good!

That quote also applies to women. I have met way too many women that put so much emphasis on being with a man or always being in a relationship they don’t see themselves as whole person. They are the ones you constantly hear talking about their boyfriends. Every sentence out of their mouth begins with, “My boyfriend…” Really guys I know you find that annoying just like I do. But aside from that the deeper issue is, take away her boyfriend and she is left with an emptiness inside. She finds it hard to function unless she is a relationship.

If you take away anything from this short post tell yourself this everyday:

The better you are, at being who you are, the more you will have to give to others.

And that includes sex, relationships, dating, family,

friends, careers. Sometimes being single and just wanting to get laid will give you the time to better yourself and put focus where it belongs, YOU!

Have a great day today everyone and I hope, fulfilling the guidelines above, you get laid tonight!

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