I learned how to text message through instant messaging. It happened accidentally. I took what I was doing online and shortened the messages to fit in my phone.
It’s not perfect and it sounds like a simple solution but it worked great for me. I think it can for you too – provided what you’e doing online is working for you.
If not, then I suppose bringing it to your phone probably won’t help…
Which is why I put together this series for you and I went to the best “text messaging” man out there to show us all how to do it right – without fail – Bobby Rio
You’ll find some valuable secrets and sound advice which works best in the digital world of your phone.
And please remember to keep it lighthearted and fun.
Never make the mistake of thinking your phone gives you “free reign” to do something strange and creepy.
If you believe pulling out your “little man” on the first date just to show her is definite NO then doing it over the phone will not make it any different just because it’s in a picture.
If at anytime you want the complete deal or you’re struggling putting all these tips together- definitely get yourself the ultimate Text Messaging Guide by going here – Magnetic Messaging.
You’ll be taken to a free presentation to show you and Bobby will give you 3 simple texts to turn her on AND get her to go out with you.
These tips are incredible for increasing your “phone game” and they DO get her attention the right way…
If you really want your phone to become literally a “seduction tool” get yourself Magnetic Messaging because within the hour you can start sending the right text messages.
NOTE: It’s better to text her less with the right messages and get a positive emotional response.
Here is what that presentation reveals:
- A shocking myth about attraction.
- The good and bad news of how her opinion of you can change even by the hour.
- How if you’re not sending her the right text messages your window of opportunity will close quickly.
- What the “Key Lock Sequence” is and why it works.
- How much time you have with a woman before she goes cold.
You’l have plenty of time to go through all this material so before you go on…
And now I’ll let Bobby talk a little below…
There are some pretty basic rules to follow when you’re trying to flirt and get a girl to like you over text message.
Let’s go over some of these rules.
Rule 1: Be Inconsistent with Your Messages.
Women chase after men that they can’t figure out. If you always text a girl back right after she messages you then you become boring and predictable.
However, if you are sporadic, and she is never quite certain when your next message is going to come she will find herself waiting for them.
When I first started dating my girlfriend she told me that she used to constantly check her phone to see if I texted her.
She couldn’t concentrate at work because she was always wondering if I had sent her a text message.
That is how to text a girl in a way that captures her attention and gets her mind glued on you.
Rule 2: Always appear to be having a good time.
It is important that whenever she gets a text message from you it comes as a welcome message. This means that you should always seem happy, fun, and upbeat in your messages to her.
Avoid complaining, seeming bored, tired, or uninteresting.
Instead, act as if whatever you are currently doing is the most possible fun you could be having.
This will make her associate you with good times.
Rule 3: Keep your messages short and flirtatious.
Don’t make the mistake of trying to write her your life story over text message. Instead keep the messages short and to the point. But make them fun.
Make them something she will enjoy getting from you.
You can do this by teasing her, saying funny things, or just keeping an overall flirtatious humor.
If you aren’t sure what sort of lines count as flirting, then check out the Teasing and Banter Line Cheat Sheet.
THAT is how to text a girl in a way that keeps the vibe fun.
Rule 4: Use SMS simply to get you in her mind.
Let’s face it, the more a girl thinks about you the more likely she will be to convince herself that she likes you. This is why it is great to use messages as a way to get her into your mind.
This means that you can send random text messages throughout the week. Each message should bring positive association with you in her mind.
However, don’t feel the need to respond back when she writes you back.
Remember, you need to be sporadic with your texts.
This means that you should always be the last one to text.
What to Message Girls.
Because SMS messaging is a fairly new concept, many of us have never been shown the secrets to texting a girl.
So naturally, most guys surely blow it when it comes time to craft the perfect message.
Most guys misjudge the reason that a woman seems to quickly lose interest in them.
One of the biggest reasons a man will lose a woman’s interest is over the “phone game.”
Texting girls is something that any guy can learn.
But it takes practice, knowledge, and the ability to recognize what kind of messaging women respond to.
In order to figure out what kind of SMS attract a woman and keep her liking you, you must first realize what proper messaging should be used for.
3 Reasons for To Use Your Phone.
Usually, a man will be using his phone for one of three purposes:
- He is trying to make an initial contact after meeting her out somewhere.
- He just wants to keep himself in the girl’s mind until the next time he sees her.
- He is using texting to escalate his relationship with the woman to a more playful or sexual level.
Biggest Mistakes You Might Be Making
In a minute, I’m going to talk about how to text girls the right way… but first, I want to talk about some of the big mistakes you might be making with your cell phone.
Once you overcome these errors, it will be a lot easier for you to reach your “phone game” goals.
Blunder #1: Sending a boring message serves no point. These sort of messages include:
“How you doing?” or
“What”s going on?”
Texts like these DO NOT distinguish you from the hundreds of other guys that are also messaging the woman you’re talking to.
Blunder #2: The second big blunder is messaging a girl too much and too often.
SMS messages should be used in limited doses in order to create mystery, suspense, and intrigue.
If you are texting women all the time, they will stop looking forward to your messages.
Blunder#3: The final blunder guys make is they try to have a conversation over SMS.
Messaging shouldn’t be used as a way to get to know a girl.
Some other big blunders are:
- Always messaging her back too quickly and appearing needy.
- Trying too hard to get her to like you.
- Letting the woman control the flow of messaging (ie. Is she always the one to end it??)
- Not getting playful,”flirtatious,” or sexual in your messages.
Flirting Over the Phone.
Every message you send should have some type of playfulness and flirtation.
You should always aim to demonstrate a fun side of your personality every time you are texting her.
During the first few messages you are just trying to show her that you can be fun and social around girls.
Your texts should always present the impression that you live a fun and adventurous life.
Stay light and playful, then jump into serious topics, and then back to being playful and flirtatious.
The technique is to banter with the girl back and forth and leave the interaction on a high note, by either stop texting her back, or by finishing it with a message like “talk later…”
It is also important to display small chunks of your personality in these messages, and avoid being boring like the plague.
This means you never make statements like “I’m bored,” or if she ask what you’re up to texting “Nothing special.”
Instead answer by being interesting, playful, and intriguing when SMS with a woman.
These three downloads will help you round out your education on texting: (.pdf so make sure you right click and save them to your computer.)
- Teasing and Banter Lines Teasing and Banter Lines
- Small Talk Tactics How to Make Small Talk Sexy and Use it to Create Attraction in a Woman You’re Interacting With…
- 7 Texting Mistakes 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes
More great tips and advice from Bobby Rio here at DiaLteG TM:
- 5 Great Tips – Cute Texts to Send a Girl Which Will Grab Her Attention
- Try These Romantic Text Messages To Send Your Girlfriend
- 4 Proven Steps To Get Her Interested – Even Desperate To Text You Back
- Creating Fun Flirty Messages – The Three Guidelines to Text Flirting
- Showing Your Silly Side to Her – Funny Text Messages to Send Girls
- What to Text a Girl After You Got Her Number
- A Simple Guide Any Amateur Texting Can Do – How To Text Girls
- When You Really Like Her – How To Send Great Good Night Text Messages
- Women Love A Sense Of Humor – Show Her With These Text Message Jokes
- You Like Each Other – Here Are 6 Perfectly Sweet Text Messages to Send
- Bobby Rio Interview – Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy
- Conversation Topics That Keep Her Attention, Charm Her and Attract Her
- How to Avoid Awkward Silences with Women – Conversation Techniques
- How to Have Better Conversations with Women
- The Six Deadliest Conversation Mistakes You Make With Women