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Can Nice Guys Be Sexually Attractive to Women?

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What a nice guy! Will this affect how sexy he is?

Being a sexually attractive guy is a “complete package” but his overall sexiness doesn’t appear to have anything to do with how nice he is.

You got how he moves his body effortlessly. The manner in which he touches or interacts with the opposite sex is equally important.

The smooth way in which he speaks is typically slow and determined. Often his words are chosen very specifically and there’s never an overabundance of them.

His looks can vary from the dirty rugged man to the well manicured pretty boy. This appears to be more specific to a woman’s view of sexiness. Some like them dirty. Some like them borderline feminine.

His appearance can vary.

For example, take a nerdy looking dude with a book close to his heart and give him leering sensual lost boy eyes. A firm well constructed athletic body hidden underneath the nerd outfit, have him speak slowly but confidently, and then add an almost primal raw walk. Suddenly this “nerd” starts turning some heads.

The “character” combined with primal strength and the manner in which he touches or interacts with the opposite sex make up the sexy guy…

Which apparently has little to do with his “niceness.”

We can assume a nice guy in any social area is someone who just plays fair. He doesn’t take things which are not his. His respect is not contained to those around him. He does his best to not physically or mentally harm the people he disagrees with.

That is the makeup or at least a big part of his overall character and on top of that character we can add the sexual traits listed above.

Nice guys CAN be sexually attractive to women!

I suppose the bigger questions here would be… Do we grow into being sexy and if not, what turns us into sexy guys and the most important one of all…

Can we turn ourselves into sexy men by applying or developed the right traits despite how nice we are?

My answer is yes. It is possible and it can be achieved in so many ways.

But there’s more to it than just learning and the application. Just because we copy a sexy walk doesn’t mean we’ll have a sexy gait. Just as learning to speak slowly and use our words sparingly doesn’t translate to better acting.

Part of it is that our sexiness, in most cases, is already inside of us. It can be unlocked.

Part of it is that what we apply must become second nature. It can NOT be forced and any woman with a small amount of intuition won’t regard it as looking of feeling natural enough to be sexy.

Therefore our training must not be just applied and it must not be handled with a narrow focus from one direction.

Being more relaxed and unaffected mentally or becoming overly emotional to what is happening around us can be considered sexy and that is something which can be achieved by handling our problems calmly and efficiently.

Something which may have little to do with “being sexy” directly but can have a huge effect on it.

Becoming physically healthier and perhaps stronger can make it easier for us to stay more relaxed, in control of ourselves, and even happier. From there we’re not working on becoming sexier. The goal is mental happiness and physical endurance which in turn has a remarkable effect on how sexy we are.

Since we have so many slightly different ways to turn us into sexually attractive men it kind of makes it more than than just a plausible idea but something so achievable I wonder why way too many of us “nice” guys don’t even bother trying.

Maybe it’s because our Ego tells us as men we shouldn’t have to work at being a man… isn’t that something we’re born into. Like the old saying, “Why can’t she just like me for who I am?”

Maybe it’s because the advice given is often surrounded and directed towards “get laid quick schemes” when nice guys are not typically into that sort of thing.

Whatever our reasons are it’s clear our niceness is not ever going to stop us from being sexually attractive to women.

It’s possible.


And definitely worth the long or short journey to achieve our sexiness.

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2 comments… add one
  • JC

    Doesn’t good looks mould into the mood lol. Never
    looked into like that but yeah niceness has to be
    overshadowed. The article adds more approach to
    the nice guy, which is refreshing. Good Article.

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