“Women must not think I’m attractive enough to even notice me. They are afraid to approach me for fear I would get the wrong impression. I don’t have what he has. I don’t drive a fancy car or have hot women draped all over me. Yeah that must be it.”
It was around dusk and me and two friends were walking the strip scoping out the chic of course. Nothing seemed to out of the ordinary until this woman screamed over at us,
“Nice Ass!!!”
Was I cool? Am I cool now? Am I one of those men that some most people just think, he’s such a cool person.
I’m really cracking myself up writing about this now. But who cares. What really matters to me is what I think is cool. Right? Sometimes I will stare at a gorgeous moon on a clear night and say to myself, that is so cool. Sometimes I will watch a friend screw something up and make a fool of herself. She will walk over to me and we both laugh, “That was so cool!”
Put in another context the word cool takes on a different meaning. There are groups of people in every generation that are deemed to not be cool. They can include parents, teachers, retired people, and yes, politicians. (remind me to never mention politicians on this site) We’re all most likely going to find ourselves not cool to another group at one point in our life. It’s inevitable.
Let’s face it. We all have friends that we don’t consider to be cool. Underneath their unsociable persona they are good people. They just don’t seem to get, or care, to participate on the cool level of social interaction.
How does this affect your dating life?
Do they get in the way when you’re trying to so called get laid?
Do they hover real close making the women around you think you’re close friends, which you feel ruins your chances with her?
And how do you handle this?
Another evening goes by, The nice guy trudges his ass home, alone, tired, and frustrated. He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had his eyes on. He talked to her for a little while but nothing came from it. He failed to ask her for her number. He failed to make her feel attracted towards him. He thought she must only like jerks. His thoughts centered around why she would put up with this guy’s shit when he could be there for her. He could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would have only give him a chance, but she didn’t!
Is being cool is a side effect of a complete inner game and can it make average looking men and women more attractive?
Being cool is not just a matter of who your friends are or what kind of social life you lead. It’s actually a culmination of everything you are starting with confidence.
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