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Being cool
My Thoughts on How Being Cool Makes you More Attractive
Feb 14th
Was I cool? Am I cool now? Am I one of those men that some most people just think, he’s such a cool person.
I’m really cracking myself up writing about this now. But who cares. What really matters to me is what I think is cool. Right? Sometimes I will stare at a gorgeous moon on a clear night and say to myself, that is so cool. Sometimes I will watch a friend screw something up and make a fool of herself. She will walk over to me and we both laugh, “That was so cool!”
Put in another context the word cool takes on a different meaning. There are groups of people in every generation that are deemed to not be cool. They can include parents, teachers, retired people, and yes, politicians. (remind me to never mention politicians on this site) We’re all most likely going to find ourselves not cool to another group at one point in our life. It’s inevitable.
How to Handle Those Not so Cool Friends
Feb 6th
Let’s face it. We all have friends that we don’t consider to be cool. Underneath their unsociable persona they are good people. They just don’t seem to get, or care, to participate on the cool level of social interaction.
How does this affect your dating life?
Do they get in the way when you’re trying to so called get laid?
Do they hover real close making the women around you think you’re close friends, which you feel ruins your chances with her?
And how do you handle this?
Nice Guy: I’m Tired of Being a Loser With Women
Feb 2nd
Another evening goes by, The nice guy trudges his ass home, alone, tired, and frustrated. He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had his eyes on. He talked to her for a little while but nothing came from it. He failed to ask her for her number. He failed to make her feel attracted towards him. He thought she must only like jerks. His thoughts centered around why she would put up with this guy’s shit when he could be there for her. He could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would have only give him a chance, but she didn’t!
He goes home alone again. feeling like a loser with women, feeling helpless, and clueless. He went out again feeling strong that this would be the night. This would be the night he would meet that special women that actually liked nice guys. He stood tall when he left but lost two inches and hunched over as he walked up the steps alone. Staring at the floor where he hoped a woman would soon walk. But the steps felt nothing but the weight of his despair. The steps heard nothing but his two feet and the echo rang through the hallway due to the silence. No laughter from a woman. No sweet conversation about what a good time she had. No smacking of the lips as he had hoped.
His imagination before he left had the evening finishing just the way he planned. He imagined rushing to get the keys in the door and have that magical evening of sex with a woman that finally fell for a nice guy. The beautiful girl locked in his eyes as they begin to kiss….
10 Questions About Being Cool Ending With Are You Cool?
Aug 31st
Is being cool is a side effect of a complete inner game and can it make average looking men and women more attractive?
Four Steps To Being Cool Starting with Confidence
Aug 6th
Being cool is not just a matter of who your friends are or what kind of social life you lead. It’s actually a culmination of everything you are starting with confidence.