“Women must not think I’m attractive enough to even notice me. They are afraid to approach me for fear I would get the wrong impression. I don’t have what he has. I don’t drive a fancy car or have hot women draped all over me. Yeah that must be it.”
It was around dusk and me and two friends were walking the strip scoping out the chic of course. Nothing seemed to out of the ordinary until this woman screamed over at us,
“Nice Ass!!!”
You hear everyone talk about approaching women. How to do it. What you should say. How you should say it. But really guys, wouldn’t it be easier just to get women to notice you first, and allow them to approach you? Wouldn’t it be simpler to have them open up eager to make your conversation start with a spark? Wouldn’t it just be smarter to have those women feel your energy from across the room so when you walk by you can catch them checking you out?
Of course!
Without fail every time I was given the opportunity to see her again and manged to speak with her I would gather to courage to ask her out. Granted sometimes this would take months of seeing her constantly. She of course would turn me down with those dreadful phrases,
“I’m sorry I’m just not interested.”
“I have a boyfriend.”
“You’re cute but just not my type.”
“I’m sorry. I only date taller guys.”
“You’re nice but I just don’t see you that way.”
“I’m sorry. I’m taking a break from dating for while.”
“I’m sorry. I don’t give out y number to strangers.”
In the often unpredictable world of dating nice guys that find themselves slowly climbing out of being dateless and run into situations where you felt attraction, there was a definitive spark and chemistry, but for some reason she is just not interested enough to bother.
You feel you do everything right but still get nothing more than that cold feeling of rejection.
Understanding a woman’s body language is important in how to know if someone likes you, but to attract women understanding your own body language will help you become more sexually attractive.
Women notice details of the presentation of your looks, not your overall attractiveness to decide whether or not you will be in the friend zone, or a great lover, provider, or father.
Flirting is a part of the broader topic of sexual communication between men and women. You can flirt without any sexual result or intention, and you can sexually communicate without having to flirt. Flirting is also just one way to begin the human mating process which will can begin with these steps:
1.) A physical attraction
2.) Close Proximity.
3.) Approaching or engaging with a flirty chat.
4.) Building sexual tension and increasing attraction
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