When the constant bombardment of our confidence and self-esteem are tied into each failure we endure, we can find ourselves relating these failures to our height. After all if a woman turns us down and the next man we find her kissing, is five inches taller, it becomes way too easy to blame it on our height. It satisfies the logic of what we see or believe our minds finds it to be true. We in turn train our minds to only notice what satisfies our logical reasoning. For example. If you are logically deducing women only want men who are slightly taller than them, you will only seem to take notice of those couples. And when you do see couple that goes against your beliefs, your brain tries to explain it another way. He must be rich. Or it’s his huge muscles. Or he must be a jerk.
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All of a sudden it hit me how I was able to do that when it came to attracting women. I did allow myself to see that sexy guy, how I would act around women, how they would be drawn to me how I would flirt with them, how I could get and have better sex, how I could be with the women my high standards set so long ago.
This is why I believe that self-affirmations may not make you more attractive. Sure they can drive you along and anytime you are having a positive conversation with yourself you are doing good. And anytime you speak negatively about yourself you are doing bad for yourself.
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Women, even the strongest women like myself, LOVES a take charge type of guy. Oh sure alot of us are capable of taking care of ourselves, but the one thing every women needs, wants, and desires is to feel secure. Yes we love you to fight for our honor and protect us from harms way and all that bullshit. But what’s more important and really makes our thighs moist, is when we know we have a take the bull by the horns type of man.
A man who can speak for himself.
A man who is always 10 steps ahead of the game.
A man who shouldn’t have to ask you shit, cause he already knows.
A man who knows when shit is about to hit the fan, he is an act first ask questions later type of guy.
A man who will do it with or with out you, it don’t matter to him. He just gets the job done.
A man who will always tell us the truth about ourselves, not what they think we want to hear.
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Here is a quote I stole from an anonymous woman’s profile.
I always wondered how pretty girls end up with ugly boys
and pretty boys with ugly girls.
(Like how my cute boyfriend wants some fugly chick like me)
I think love is stupid. But im crazy about him.
What does she really mean or what do I think she means?
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by peter white on February 24, 2010
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If I am interested in more than friendship, I feel it is my responsibility to tease, flirt, and constantly keep her on her toes. Even when it may take several months for a particular women to become interested enough to casually date. I never give her myself on a platter expecting her to suddenly change her mind. If there is no sexual tension, I won’t waste my time. But if there is I will always increase it and never let it dissipate. That way, over time, a flirty friendship can develop into more.
Next quote…
“Ladies, I am officially removing the privilege you have of talking to a lovestruck “friend” complaining about how you’ll never find someone to care about you.”
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Women want taller men because all shorter men are weak. They can not physically protect her. They have short genes and will always produce shorter off spring. And shorter off spring will find it difficult themselves to succeed in business. Taller men are more likely to be a boss. Women will reject, if those past reasons were not enough, shorter men because we are all stubborn, harder to change, and just being seen with us will make her feel out-of-place or lower her status among her girlfriends.
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Okay so here’s the deal. You’re this nice guy who feels you don’t have many choices with women in your life. Then by chance you meet this girl you are heavily attracted to and she is into you. You can’t explain why but you go with it. Mainly she’s in control. She calls you. You follow her everywhere and she shows you a life you’ve never seen before. Thensuddenly it hits you. You begin to realize some things about her you just don’t care for. She drinks way too much. She always causes drama where ever you two go. She uses you to do things for even a simple as getting her a drink in the middle of the night.
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In the often unpredictable world of dating nice guys that find themselves slowly climbing out of being dateless and run into situations where you felt attraction, there was a definitive spark and chemistry, but for some reason she is just not interested enough to bother.
You feel you do everything right but still get nothing more than that cold feeling of rejection.
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For those that have found yourself reading my pages consistently you may have noticed that I have been on a break for the last week and a half. Honestly, part has been due to a small writers block. I have also wanted to spend time with my family and friends during the holidays. Some strange busy scheduling at my other job, and in the middle of that I just got out of a relationship with a wonderful woman. So my mind has been a little full lately and I hate producing any writings which does not give you my full attention.
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There is nothing wrong with just wanting to have sex. Getting laid, so to speak and our sexual desires play an important role in our being single lives and sometimes a relationship won’t work.
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We all make them. Some fewer than others and they are LIMITED BELIEFS
My biggest one was, being short!
Let me tell you a quick story. I was at a bar once that always featured live bands. Being a musician I would always bring myself up close to see what chords they were playing. Check out their equipment and meet the players after.
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by peter white on August 17, 2009
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S o you’re a nice guy and you know you have attractive traits, but women still find a way to put you in the friend’s zone. What can you do about it? Is there a simple piece of advice or tip I can give you which will propel you in the right direction with women? [...]
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