When the anger and frustration of failing with women begins to take over your life. What do you plan on doing about it?
You can treat those women all nice on the outside but go home every night bitching about it, and then calling them every name in the book besides being a girlfriend. That’s what I did for years.
Well the other day I had to take a different path. There were people everywhere and instead of dodging the cars parked in the no-parking zone, I went straight across and then cut quickly to the left. My eyes and head turned to avoid any oncoming traffic and instead of seeing a ton of metal coming my way, I noticed this extremely hot blond with pink sweatpants and a white tank top. She looked incredible. A rare event showing for my supermarket to say the least. She was moving with the typical hot girl pace. You know the pace I’m sure. They tend to move a little quicker than most. Obviously to avoid the constant stares and to ultimately avoid making too much eye contact. After all it’s a time saver. One false move and suddenly every guy will attempt to slow her down.
The nice guy that learns how to attract is far more successful than the typical jerk that does not understand why he gets laid.
Go ahead and ask any woman you see and she will agree with me. If she doesn’t, I want to hear about it and I want to hear the reasons why. If she does not agree and acts stubborn about it then you also have one less woman to concern yourself over building an attraction towards you. So stay away from her. her life probably centers around jealousy and mind games in a childish attempt to control men anyways.
If I am interested in more than friendship, I feel it is my responsibility to tease, flirt, and constantly keep her on her toes. Even when it may take several months for a particular women to become interested enough to casually date. I never give her myself on a platter expecting her to suddenly change her mind. If there is no sexual tension, I won’t waste my time. But if there is I will always increase it and never let it dissipate. That way, over time, a flirty friendship can develop into more.
Next quote…
“Ladies, I am officially removing the privilege you have of talking to a lovestruck “friend” complaining about how you’ll never find someone to care about you.”
Was I cool? Am I cool now? Am I one of those men that some most people just think, he’s such a cool person.
I’m really cracking myself up writing about this now. But who cares. What really matters to me is what I think is cool. Right? Sometimes I will stare at a gorgeous moon on a clear night and say to myself, that is so cool. Sometimes I will watch a friend screw something up and make a fool of herself. She will walk over to me and we both laugh, “That was so cool!”
Put in another context the word cool takes on a different meaning. There are groups of people in every generation that are deemed to not be cool. They can include parents, teachers, retired people, and yes, politicians. (remind me to never mention politicians on this site) We’re all most likely going to find ourselves not cool to another group at one point in our life. It’s inevitable.
“Wow. (slight pause) You are beautiful. (pause) Listen… I don’t want to be your friend. I don’t want to be the guy you call up at three o’clock in the morning, complaining about all the jerks in your life. I don’t want to be the man who listens to you whine about all the creepy guys that hit on you that day. And I definitely don’t want to be the man who you blow off for some great sex with a loser. I just don’t want to be him. (big pause) I want to be the guy who lights up your eyes when I enter a room. I want to be the man who you wake up in the morning thinking about, and the last person on your mind before you go to sleep. I want to be the man who will hold your hand one minute, and wrestle you to the ground the next. I want to be the man who you’ll come up with every excuse to be next to. The man that makes your mind wonder, and your heart beat just a little quicker. That’s the man I want to be and if there is even a slightest doubt in your mind that I might not be that man, tell me now, and I’ll walk away.”
Another evening goes by, The nice guy trudges his ass home, alone, tired, and frustrated. He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had his eyes on. He talked to her for a little while but nothing came from it. He failed to ask her for her number. He failed to make her feel attracted towards him. He thought she must only like jerks. His thoughts centered around why she would put up with this guy’s shit when he could be there for her. He could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would have only give him a chance, but she didn’t!
You might laugh a little at the construction of those 10 steps in dating but only the last part, about the sex is not true. I hear and read so much advice on how guys are to get dates that it makes me shake my head in disbelief. I say that because honestly, and no real man will argue this point. it is just that easy to get a date.
And why is this?
S o you’re a nice guy and you know you have attractive traits, but women still find a way to put you in the friend’s zone. What can you do about it? Is there a simple piece of advice or tip I can give you which will propel you in the right direction with women? [...]
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