10. Always give in to her demands because of how she looks on the outside.
This is what used to go on inside my mind. Rotting it with the disease of needy thinking or approval seeking.
“Holy shit this chic is hot. I would love to fuck her. I would do anything for her. If I could just prove to her I’m not like any other guy she has met.”
Alright guys you know what that means. This guy is teaching women and he’s giving an example of what a woman feels. It can show us the steps needed to really turn her on.
1.) Let her feel more attracted to you.
2.) Raise the attraction each time you see her just a little and she will develop a deep emotional attachment.
Here is a quote I stole from an anonymous woman’s profile.
I always wondered how pretty girls end up with ugly boys
and pretty boys with ugly girls.
(Like how my cute boyfriend wants some fugly chick like me)
I think love is stupid. But im crazy about him.
What does she really mean or what do I think she means?
When the anger and frustration of failing with women begins to take over your life. What do you plan on doing about it?
You can treat those women all nice on the outside but go home every night bitching about it, and then calling them every name in the book besides being a girlfriend. That’s what I did for years.
A friend of mine just texted me telling me she had been baking in the sun all day. Stuck in the middle of nowhere in a broken down truck. She also didn’t fail to mention how great of a person she is, yeah she’s a bit cocky, but this time it was because she hasn’t bitched at all. All day!
She explains to me it was because she really likes this guy and doesn’t care whether the truck gets fixed or not. It’s allowing them to spend all this time together and she can’t get enough of him.
Quick jump to a decade later…
I saw her profile thrown up online. She was looking for dates online. She was still single with no kids and still looked incredible!
So I wrote her with a funny story and updated her on the status of our mutual friend. She never wrote me back. I wasn’t surprised at all.
Flashback to our meeting ten years earlier…
As you might have guessed it during part one of this. The woman I spoke of called me to fill me in on the details and I’m going to share them with you as we go along and my opinions, of course. Then I will tell you what actually happened between them. Onto to the question I left off with in part one:
Will she see him again?
The nice guy that learns how to attract is far more successful than the typical jerk that does not understand why he gets laid.
Go ahead and ask any woman you see and she will agree with me. If she doesn’t, I want to hear about it and I want to hear the reasons why. If she does not agree and acts stubborn about it then you also have one less woman to concern yourself over building an attraction towards you. So stay away from her. her life probably centers around jealousy and mind games in a childish attempt to control men anyways.
If I am interested in more than friendship, I feel it is my responsibility to tease, flirt, and constantly keep her on her toes. Even when it may take several months for a particular women to become interested enough to casually date. I never give her myself on a platter expecting her to suddenly change her mind. If there is no sexual tension, I won’t waste my time. But if there is I will always increase it and never let it dissipate. That way, over time, a flirty friendship can develop into more.
Next quote…
“Ladies, I am officially removing the privilege you have of talking to a lovestruck “friend” complaining about how you’ll never find someone to care about you.”
Oh that dry feeling between my legs seeped into every part of my life. It made me angry. It made me short tempered. It made me put so much emphasis on just getting some, I found it difficult just looking at a woman without undressing her and imagining doing it with her.
I couldn’t rationalize away my sexual desires. No matter how times we masturbate it just can never feel as good as it is when you are with a partner who’s wants to share that experience with you,
And the huge mistake on my part was exactly this,
She may not be ready for a relationship. Women who put their career ahead of everything else in their life often put men in the friend’s zone because they don’t have time for a relationship. She puts men in the friend’s zone that are strictly relationship type while enjoying casual sex with partners who may not be relationship material.
Without fail every time I was given the opportunity to see her again and manged to speak with her I would gather to courage to ask her out. Granted sometimes this would take months of seeing her constantly. She of course would turn me down with those dreadful phrases,
“I’m sorry I’m just not interested.”
“I have a boyfriend.”
“You’re cute but just not my type.”
“I’m sorry. I only date taller guys.”
“You’re nice but I just don’t see you that way.”
“I’m sorry. I’m taking a break from dating for while.”
“I’m sorry. I don’t give out y number to strangers.”
Think about this guys… You start talking or seeing this hot woman. You both share great conversations. You hit it off from the beginning. And there’s no doubt in your mind there is great sexual chemistry and a spark between you. But then out of nowhere it happens… She rarely returns your phone calls. She [...]
Okay so here’s the deal. You’re this nice guy who feels you don’t have many choices with women in your life. Then by chance you meet this girl you are heavily attracted to and she is into you. You can’t explain why but you go with it. Mainly she’s in control. She calls you. You follow her everywhere and she shows you a life you’ve never seen before. Thensuddenly it hits you. You begin to realize some things about her you just don’t care for. She drinks way too much. She always causes drama where ever you two go. She uses you to do things for even a simple as getting her a drink in the middle of the night.
For those that have found yourself reading my pages consistently you may have noticed that I have been on a break for the last week and a half. Honestly, part has been due to a small writers block. I have also wanted to spend time with my family and friends during the holidays. Some strange busy scheduling at my other job, and in the middle of that I just got out of a relationship with a wonderful woman. So my mind has been a little full lately and I hate producing any writings which does not give you my full attention.
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