I was around eleven years old. My babysitter was roughly seventeen and I thought she was the hottest girl I had ever seen. I was just entering puberty and nothing was on my mind more than getting a girlfriend. My mother owned a bar and worked a day time job too. So for countless nights I would have a babysitter and luckily I was a good boy. Or was I?
I remember having a crush on my sitter even though she was much older than me. It even appeared she liked me a little because we saw each other, or hung out, when she wasn’t getting paid to see me. At least until I got caught. I remember walking up the street with her one night and it was the same street my mom’s bar was on. When I reached the location I ducked behind some parked cars to make sure I wouldn’t be seen. After all it was well past my curfew.
Well, you know that mothers alway have a sixth sense about their children, she saw me and screamed from the doorway,
“Peter! Get your ass in here!!!”
My heart stopped! Snagged. Caught out well past my bedtime hanging out with my, now ex, seventeen year old babysitter.
I know I may not look it, but this year I will be turning forty years old, and to top it all off my last two girlfriends were nineteen and twenty years old. So let me put this in perspective…
In twenty-eight years since the start of puberty I went from have a crush on a Seventeen year old to a Twenty year old women. Three years of difference between my twenty-eight eligible years of [intlink id="no-dating-friend" type="post"]dating[/intlink] and relationships. Some call me sick. Some call me crazy. Some women call me a player, a cradle robber, an immature man. Some guys shake my hand. Some don’t. An old friend of mine says I’m pathetic. My mom just shakes her head, 
because she’s always so supportive.
As you’re reading this I’m sure you have already formed your own opinion. In fact one of my best sponsors, Scot, already too has formed his own opinions . Barely Legal – Older Guys Dating Teenagers? His points are valid. After all I do respect his works but I also respect myself and how I feel. Personally I like the way David has put it in his newsletter, Secrets Of Dating Younger Women.
The fact is, after reading David’s newsletter there does not seem too much any original advice I can give on dating younger women. I know, you sound disappointed.
But don’t click out just yet…
Let me tell you about my personal experiences with dating younger women and how I feel you can date more of them.
(Ten years ago I was constantly told by every woman I wanted between the ages of 18 and 25, that they just don’t date men over thirty, and now that I’m pushing forty, rarely, if at any time, do I hear those same words. So it’s either women are beginning to date even older men, or I have learned to develop a part of me that knows how to attract them. You can make your own mind up on that one.)
NUMBER 1:
They are incredibly fun and exciting. There’s no doubt about that.
Enyoy it and don’t expect too much more. I learned this the hard way. Maybe you should too but I’m just warning you. Don’t expect her to be your future wife. That may never happen. If it happens, great! I’m happy for you. If it doesn’t then make sure you those wonderful moments of being fun and exciting with her stay with your personality.
NUMBER 2:
Some of them are not mature enough and I avoid them. I don’t want extra drama or stupid bullshit to deal with. I choose the ones that feel they have an old soul. They seem to be mature enough to handle dating an older man.
NUMBER 3:
Referring to number 2, I have found the intelligent ones seem to be highly attracted to older men. They love the older man’s maturity. If you have intelligence, humor, a modest cocky style (you can overdo this easily so use it sparingly or else she will assume you have an extreme lack of confidence), and a playful sexy attitude you can attract them easily.
NUMBER 4:
Do things with them and do them often if you’re just not ready to settle down. Trust me on this one. If you manage [intlink id="ten-top-ways-challenge-women-attract" type="post"]to attract[/intlink] a younger woman who enjoys not going out often or doing things exciting there’s a great chance you will be entering a long-term relationship which will lead quickly to a new member in your family. Yes. Children. I have found those types of women go for older men for mainly security reasons. They tend to want a family quickly for whatever reason. If that’s what you want go for it. Otherwise look out for those types and learn to stay away. It’s not fair to lead her in the wrong direction.
NUMBER 5:
How to attract the younger 10′s?
I’m talking about model types or the highly intelligent upwardly mobile types that put up very strong protective barriers. These are other guy’s dream girlfriends and guess what, these women know it and they hate it! Don’t be that guy or you will instantly lose her respect and your status will drop quickly.
- Be [intlink id="the-balls-blow-hot-woman-off" type="post"]ballsy[/intlink].
- Be upfront but don’t give out too much information about yourself. Be that mystery. These women crave figuring things out and if you can get her to want to figure you out, you’re on the right track.
- Don’t ever brag about anything. Be as modest as possible and have confidence doing it.
- Never interfere with her life. When she wants your opinion she will ask and remember to just give it.
- Be decisive.
- Never put up with her bullshit and never be afraid to walk away from her.
If none of that seems to working for you than you need to look closer into who you are and ask yourself some serious questions about where you are in life and where you are going. Remember these women can date movie stars, rock stars, CEOs, and athletic stars, oh and yes, dating gurus.
- They don’t want bums. They don’t want cowards. They don’t want jealousy.
- They want a strong masculine man.
Hahaha, I feel like I’m promoting Carlos’s Bad Boy Formula. I wondered if he realized his methods of the bad boy could be used to date those incredible seemingly allusive women. Yeah right, I’m sure he didn’t. 
I have an interview on this site where I ask him about it before the publication. You might want to read it. It’s right here.
One of the biggest reasons I am mentioning this right now is for several reasons. After listening to his video selling page, interviewing Carlos personally, and really paying attention to his regular sales page, I was amazed to find how many things I was doing so right that I didn’t even know I was doing. I was thinking, Oh that’s what I was doing! And then I began to notice certain things I was doing even through my dateless years that would have worked if they were just tweaked a little. I was so close and I didn’t even realize it. If you don’t want to go to the selling pages but are interested in learning more about the Bad Boy Formula. I have a review of it. Just click here for a better explanation of what the Bad Boy Formula is and how it can help you succeed with women.
Back to the tens from that long interruption…
- They do want to be seen and treated as more than just a hot body.
- They want you to be into them and they want to eventually prove to you they can turn you on.
The bad news is about these tens?
- If all you do is sit around and hope, she won’t want you.
- If you’re afraid she will hurt your ego during those not so pleasant turn downs, she won’t want you.
- If you’re not “somebody” she won’t want you.
- Status is so important to these women and I’m even going to suggest you must always maintain higher status and never let it equalize for long periods of time. Having higher status doesn’t always mean a high paying job or a in the spotlight career either. There’s so much more to the dynamics of social status. Read The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
by Mystery and if you don’t understand social dynamics by the time you’re done donate the book to a library and let someone else have a try. It’s really just that good.
NUMBER 6:
Get hard-hitting down to earth advice and be ready to change your whole lifestyle.
I’ve included the article links below to give a well-rounded complete perspective on dating younger women. Enjoy! I’m sure you are going to find some similar advice written above but the advice written here is from my own personal experience and not necessarily directly related to the advice below:
Your success with dating younger women is not dependent on how old you are, or how large the gap is. The approach you use for a woman your age will also work for someone younger-with a few minor tweaks. It really comes down to three things: 1. The image you present to the world. 2. The thoughts and beliefs that are stuck in your head your…
I have a friend named John who frequently comes to me for dating advice. He’s in his early 40s, recently divorced, and trying to jump back into the dating scene. Like a lot of guys who study my material on how to get more dates, John is interested in younger women. Not TOO young, mind you. I’m talking about fun, sexy women in their 20s…
I have given you options, advice, and a much clearer understanding about dating younger women and what is you must do to date them. Again my perspective is probably not in the norm. If you wish to know why I believe I still have not begun to be attracted to women my own age go ahead and ask in my comment box. Otherwise I may do so in a later post.
Have a great weekend guys and good luck on all your dates. Whether you are Sixty looking for that hot Fifty year old or you’re just turning Thirty and that cute Twenty Year Old is looking exciting to you, I believe you can make it your choice, regardless of what others believe.
Related Articles:
“Old Guys Dig Young Women” & Other Creepy Facts from OKCupid (readwriteweb.com)
Nice Guys Guide on How to Attract Women (dialteg.com)
How To Make Younger Women Chase You
Why I Started Dating Younger Women
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