Attracting Men Goes Beyond Your Looks – But How You Make Him Feel and His Freedom To Choose You
I become “just friends” with women because I enjoy their company but I’m not physically attracted to them. I may become more attracted to her after spending time together. I may even find some physical features of her more appealing over time.
But If I don’t feel attraction, I will only be her friend.
What men feel physically attracted varies from man to and most of the time it’s not what our social life depicts.
Yes. Some guys will feel uncontrollable attraction to the physical qualities in a woman but we do have the ultimate choice on whether we’re willing to date her or not.
The choice to date a woman and then seek a relationship will always come down to her personality, self-esteem, confidence, and how she make us feel inside.
If you’re tired of reading the same advice on attracting men you have come to the right place.
And why is that?
Well it’s simple. I’m a real guy. I’m not an analyst or a therapist who’s interested in turning back the clock to your childhood dreams of finding the man of your dreams.
I’ll be honest with you. The man of your dreams is just that…A figment of your imagination. It is my belief too many women are always looking for the perfect guy but they always seem to settle for the guy that comes the closest.
(Not to lead you astray but I do feel knowing who your perfect guy is important but when you project that image onto another it often leads you in a direction which is far from making you happy.)
And settling for second best to a figment of your imagination is not fair to you, or the guy you settle with.
Sounds reasonable. You would think. But I have a more reasonable answer for you.
When you learn to stop projecting the image of your perfect man on every guy you meet, you’ll actually discover finding your true love is within you and it has little to do with the typical guys you meet.
The reason behind this is:
- Your projections
- Your over thinking when you experience a failed relationship
- Your beliefs to find the truth behind how a man ultimately feels about you…
Will only cloud your ability to create intense attraction with men and impair your judgement on making solid choices which will affect your love life positively.
One of the best tips I give you is to stop trying to figure men out. Honestly we’re not that difficult to figure out.
That is why to fully attract the men in your life who will affect your emotions and subsequently make you happy, you must look for the answers from within you.
The answer lies within your self-esteem and the confidence you have and inspire in others.
The truth about attracting men is contained below in a few of my posts. Read through each one of them and I know you’ll understand what attracting men is all about.
I cover the friends zone fully, what really attracts men physically and emotionally, what us guys are looking for in our perfect woman, why dating many men is essential, and a little more based on questions I hear from women just like you everyday.
How Does A Nice Woman in the Friend’s Zone, Get Out?
One of my most popular posts on women getting stuck in the friends zone. First I show you how all too often women have barriers which stop or disqualify too many men. I have found women who find themselves with more guy friends than boyfriends don’t allow the real men in their lives.
Included is a great exercise you can do to stop the friendship patterns in your life.
If you’re a nice woman and you find yourself not attracting the right men in your life I urge you to read this not tomorrow but now.
The Top 10 Things That Make Men Attracted To A Woman – The Real Truth About Guys
Some of my most intuitive ideas designed to teach women exactly what attracts men. If you’re not attracting enough men to keep a steady flow of opportunities and dates you’ll find my Top Ways to Attract Men can be a great resource.
They were in part taken from my perfect man survey and my many years of having very high standards in dating women.
This is not just another top ten list and I believe you’ll understand exactly what really attracts men by the time you’re done reading it.
Nice Guy Tips For Women on Attracting Men
One of my very first posts giving advice to women. You’ll find lots of great tips straight from a nice guy like me. That means if you’re not looking for one of the good guys, you will not find it useful.
I came up with the post based on questions you were typing in the search bar that brought you here. You’re bound to learn something new about men from my short quick answers.
If you’re looking for answers on playing the indifferent game, why a guy might avoid you, why you can’t find a nice guy, guys avoiding looking at you, why your man flirts with other women, and even getting goosebumps around a certain men, you’ll find it all there and just a little more to help you out.
Are You Happy? Questions About Attraction and The Disappearing Friend Zone
If you’re stuck in the friends zone with a guy and you’re NOT looking to get out this inspiring post intends to give you every reason to move on.
I coached a wonderful woman who wanted to start a relationship with a guy friend and she came to me looking for advice on how to do it. I of course motioned against it but she insisted on following through.
The Good News – She got what she wanted. A relationship with a close friend.
The Bad News – She got more than expected.
More Good News – She learned so much from her experience I decided to write a post about it so other women in the same position can benefit from her story.
Please. Before you go looking to turn that friend of yours into a lover – Read this – You won’t regret it.
(Warning – this post gets right to the point.)
How Many Men Can You Date At Once?
You want more men in your life because more men, means more choices. More choices allows you to make better decisions. Better decisions can lead to longer lasting relationships.
It’s a balance you have to learn based on your lifestyle and your social life but I feel that balance is important if you really want to start attracting better men into your life.
This is a short inspirational post designed to show and teach you exactly why dating more men is important and how I believe every woman should never commit easily. It’s the same advice I give to men and it works.
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