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Let’s be honest here. Bangme.net is not a site where you are going to meet tons of local singles unless you live in a very large city.

Yet the site does have it’s upsides:

• Free to sign up.
• Free to send and receive messages.
• Free to comment on photos and the profiles publicly.
• There is no great overhead.
• The pages are simple and it’s quick to browse.
• You can get your picture rated or just talk to people.
• No emails sent to you to upsell or hook you deeper
• Group discussion.
• Video Chat.
• Suggestions you can add. (How many other sites allow this?)
• Real time chat.
• Easy searching.
• Featured members by referral.

The premium membership is $5 a month and will get you:

• See all pictures and they can see all of yours.
• Choose to see 50 comments. (Non-members are limited to five always.)
• See who voted you no.
• See the last 9 men or women who read your profile.
• No ads at all viewing.
• Your vote matters more if you are a premium member. (For top lists only)
• And more…go check it out!

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Do You Want to Know How to Be a Better Flirt?

You will  hear me talk about and using online social sites to practice flirting. Whether you are a man or woman this site is perfect for it. Just come up with a unique name and start flirting right away. No strings attached. Sure you might not find your next girlfriend or boyfriend here but why not have some fun along the way. I’ve been on the site long enough to know there are some incredible flirts who frequent the site. Seek them out and start learning.

If you pay attention you can learn so much from them.

If you want to know where to begin flirting online or anywhere, nice guys, check out my full page on flirting or visit Flirt Mastery for a great course.

For all you nice nice women  Please read this for a little more info on flirting with men or go right to The Secrets of Flirting With Men. This could be the best $30 investment you can make as a woman to learn how to flirt. Mimi Tanner knows know her material all too well. Plus you get complete access to her site which means you can keep learning an learning.

Do You Want A Simple Online Social Site to Hang Out Which Is Unique and Simple to use?

You going to run into a lot of the same faces once you’ve been on it for a while but that also gives it a more personal touch. It’s more like a community and like most communities has it’s share of good people, and bad people too. You’ll run into both on this site. But mostly the men and women on the site are decent people looking to pass their time and entertain each other.

I have personally met some incredible women on the site myself online and in person. Some of which I have become long term friends with.

And yes I failed on many interactions and even managed to burn a few bridges but it really didn’t matter too much to me. The good outweighed the bad consistently because of my unique approach on starting conversations. I’m not going to lie to you. My profile rarely gets visited and my voting goes up when I put up half naked pictures of me but unlike in life, my strong body language and my voice don’t have much effect when written. And yes I’m a little past the average age on the site. It runs from about 18 to 29 years old.  My optimistic attitude on life, my fun personality, and knowing how to flirt with my words have been a great asset to me.

Since it is a rather small community there are certain guidelines the owners have put in place along with the great benefit of allowing anyone to prove they are who they say they are. Visit the site for more detailed information on that.

However the internal policing of the site through it’s existing members offers a great way to almost guarantee you don’t get stuck in a porn bot conversation with a spammer. Sure you might fall for a few but if you’re careful about who you talk to and know what questions to ask them, you can usually figure it out on your own.

As a man if you are constantly stuck in the friend’s zone in your everyday life there are ways to improve your chances and Bangme is just one opportunity.

You can start some wonderful flirty conversations from your home without the hassle of being shot down in public for some great practice. I will list some pointers on how to get women on the site to talk to you, and possibly feel slightly attracted to you.

• First of all don’t spend days and days writing your profile but make sure it makes a statement about who you are and do it in a way that tells a story. Do not just blatantly list what you think makes you a great man or all that special.  It’s boring and women will usually glaze over it anyways.
• Don’t be afraid to experiment with your approaches just make sure you are coming from a place where you’re not being a sleeze. Women on that site get that shit all the time and they don’t need to hear from you too.
• Think about who the person is before you comment on her picture or profile.
• When you are commenting on a picture or profile try and think about who you are commenting on. Highly attractive women will rarely respond with interest if you compliment them. Average looking women will respond with interest with those same compliments. Just make sure they are genuine if your are going to do it at all. Personally I don’t like to compliment any of them. It’s a waste of my time and it makes me uncomfortable to compliment someone I don’t even know. It feels fake and most likely it is. Think about how many hot girls you are going to see on that site. Do you honestly feel like you can come up with an original compliment to each and every one. I highly doubt it and they will sense you’re being an ass about it.

• Be creative and don’t try to be original or different.
• Be creative. It is a must for you to separate yourself from the rest. If you don’t think of anything creative, remember I didn’t say original, there is a difference. Creative implies a hint of unpredictability mixed with spontaneity. Original implies you’re are trying too hard and will end up most likely sounding like everyone else.
• Own your words and say them confidently.
• Don’t message a woman telling her you couldn’t think of anything that could possibly be good enough to match her beauty or anything along those lines. Live by your words. Say it and be confident about it, then let it go. If she gets back to you. That’s great. If she don’t, who cares. Maybe you can run a follow message up to her later or click next. (One little note about the follow up message it’s important that it stay in line with your message and doesn’t get rude or annoying. Don’t complain to her for her not answering. Assume. She did not get back to you because your mail got lost or she hasn’t had the time yet.)
• Speak through your own words.
• Write full complete sentences if she does. But don’t talk like her if you actually don’t in the “outter” world. In other words I don’t talk with much slang and it comes across in my writing. But I do swear like a pig occasionally and again this shows in my writing. I’m imagining having a real conversation with someone and then I try to write it down. If she uses a lot of text speaking or funny faces I won’t, because it is not me.
• The comments you leave should be similar to text flirting.
• Treat the profile and photo comments as if you were text flirting with a woman. Create unique circumstances and assume she wants you in a funny way, and keep it short. The shorter the better.
• Don’t rush it.
• Don’t rush responding back if she answers you email. Take your time. Especially if you don’t remember what you said to her. I often had to click back on their profile to see why I said why I did at that time. Works better that way to create better connections.
• Look for women that are currently online so you don’t waste your time sending messages to people that are only on once a month or so.
• If you have the money invest in a quality program.
• If you have the money, invest in some step by step detailed instructions on the  ‘how to of’ online dating. I did and it was worth every penny. I learned things it would’ve taken me years to figure out by trial and error. Assuming that I would have figured it out on my own anyways.  If you don’t have the money keep checking back here and I’ll will give you some tips every now and then. Better yet leave a comment and I will do my best to respond to any question. Keep in mind though if you do write me and want to keep it private. Just let me know and I will.

If you’re a woman I will warn you…men will bug the shit out of you on this site. If you’re looking for attention, you will get it. Trust me on that. You will also get mailed tons of messages which may be a little dirty. You must have a great sense of humor and realize most men are generally good. Don’t let the jerks ruin it for you. Keep hitting ignore and don’t get sucked into all the drama they create for you. It’s just not worth it.

I can not imagine you will find the man of your dreams there but as a cure for boredom you never know. I would suggest if you’re looking for real dates online to use a more professional dating site and pick this up first. Evan can really help you with it. Find Him Online is the link. Go check it out first and then you can decide for yourself.

David DeAngelo offers a great program. I went through the CD version myself and preferred to take the easy payment plan. It seems like a lot but I spread it out over several months and paid it off well before I stopped using it. A great binder to hold everything and 10 CD’s full of great quality information. You can tell he put a lot of effort in presenting it an easy to read format.

David Wygant’s The Secrets Of Online Dating. If you’re not interested in bullshit or cheap tactics I would suggest you give this a serious look. It called secrets because David goes through and actually shows you with real people in real situations with video and all, the inner workings behind online dating. He shows you responses, what works, and what doesn’t work, and how to create a profile that does work. And he does it with whatever you have to offer in your life.

Scot McKay’s 80-page e-book on how to meet women on Twitter. Discover how to set up your Twitter account for maximum success with women,  leverage third-party Twitter apps,  initiate conversations with women and actually arrange offline meetings.  You’ll be amazed by how easy it can be if you have all the right knowledge. Make Twitter your next-generation dating site of choice! Just sign up for his newsletter, and it’s yours,for free!

Scot also offers Online Dating Domination. The link provided is a trial link for a very low price. For more information you can go to this link, X&Y Communications.