Do You Often Wonder Why Women Seem to be Attracted to Jerks?

It’s a well-known fact that women are often attracted to the bad boy type or the classic jerk. If you look at the results from the survey below you can get a glimpse into why women feel they are attracted to men “being bad.” The socially unaccepted bad boy attitude is without a doubt irresistible to many women and often you will hear them say,

“I don’t know why I always end up with a jerk.  I just want a nice guy“

“I don’t know why I love him like I do.”

“I don’t feel anything for him.  He’s just too nice.”“I know he treat s me like shit, but I love him.”

So what does this mean and how can you use this information to become a more sexually attractive man, without having to become a jerk?

I wish the answer was simple but I’m not going to lie to you, it’s not. I can however reassure you that there are ways to take many of those bad boy qualities and integrate them into your personality. And by doing so, women will not be able to stay away from you and they will go well out of their way just to be with you because….

• A nice guy that knows how to blend in the jerk’s or bad boy attractive qualities is so much more enjoyable and rewarding to her than the typical bad boy who usually just ends up breaking her heart.

• It is what women want!

• A man to make her feel the same way a bad boy does, but without treating her badly.

I am going to give you just one example today. Comment below if you want more, I would be happy to tell you.
You will hear a woman explain why she is attracted to the bad boy with,

“Their mysterious attitude is intriguing.”

Yet the jerk’s actions are unjustified. They don’t make sense. They belittle women. And yes they treat them, well…badly.

But…
You don’t have to be jerk to create a mysterious attitude!

Try this the next time you find yourself first meeting a woman. Any woman, it really does not matter if you are attracted to her or not. In fact, if you are not up to the level of easily approaching women, it will be much easier if you don’t think she’s hot. When she begins to ask questions similar to,
“What’s you name?”,

“What do you do for a living?”

“Do you live around here?”

Don’t just blatantly state your answers. It’s boring and unattractive!

Even the cliche response to “What’s you name?” as in,

“What’s in a name anyways?”

is that much more enjoyable to her. Of course it works better if you spin some real humor into your responses, but one step at a time.

Do not go taking this information and start lying to her or you will be that jerk you don’t want to be. The idea here is create mystery and intrigue in her mind.

I remember once hanging out at my local pub and running into a woman. We flirted a little, it was fun, but we never exchanged names. So after a couple times of seeing each other I decided to get her name. I usually ask something like,

“You do have a name , don’t you?”

She then responds by giving me her name and asks,
“Well, what’s yours?”

I give her a sly smile back and then turned to walk away;  but as I do I keep my eyes on hers and slowly say,
“Wouldn’t you like to know?”

And then I laughed a little as she chased me down to demand my name.

Trust me  I’ve known women for months that did not know a thing about me, but still wanted me. Just remember to have fun with it or you will just come off as sketchy. Learning when to give her a little and leaving her wanting more requires a good balance. If you give her nothing, she will want nothing more. If you give her a little and let her mind wonder, she will want more.

I know that bad boy in you is just itching to get out. Learn to use those qualities in a good way, and you’ll have that bad boy beat.

He can not compete with it. It beats him at his own game.

Check Out the Results From My Why Are Women Attracted To Jerks Survey

(If you’re a woman reading please feel free to participate and take the survey, you’ll discover a little about yourself and help every man to understand what you are really looking for in a nice guy)

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