Friends
A toast to many of the experts and friends who have been there for me.
Here is a list of my friends, acquaintances, and affiliated partners. I will do my best to keep this page up to date so please check back often. I personally have learned from everyone on this page and I know you can too.
If you are seriously considering getting more from your dating life, relationships, better sex, or if you just want to experience life a little differently, a little more fuller, please discover for yourself the respect I already have for everyone listed.
(If you know someone, or want to be listed here, please contact me and we’ll talk.)
Carlos Xuma
David DeAngelo
David Wygant
Dean Cortez
Doctor Paul
Rob Brinded
Scot McKay
Christian Carter
Mystery
My Afiiliation with Vin DiCarlo ( My Post)
Flirt Mastery (My Page)
Joseph Matthews ( signup page for video)
Love Systems (My Page)
The Wing Girl Method (My Page)
Vin Dicarlo (sign up for friends zone test)
Carol Allen (signup page)
Christian Carter (signup Page)
Emily McKay (Keys to Bliss)
Rori Raye (signup Page)
Carlos Xuma
Real Game from A Real Guy with Real Answers…
I don’t think I could ever fully explain how much I have learned from Carlos Xuma over the last year and a half. I realize three are learning curves when it comes to education about anything, in this case, attraction. Sometimes you feel like you’re not learning anything.You’re just high up at a uneventful level smooth ride. Sometimes you encounter a huge hill which takes forever to climb.
But once you go over the top and fly down the other side it’s an unforgettable and amazing experience. And it is those rare moments when we are truly living in the present.
I believe Carlos understands this. He also understands how to create attraction and much more in women. He understands what it takes as a man to achieve real success. Real long term success with advice any guy can relate to. He is not into quick fixes and pickup lines. In fact if you listen hard or long enough to his material you’ll slowly start to see his distaste of the get laid quick seduction community.
Here are two big reason why I think you should learn from Carlos and never be afraid to buy any of his material:
If he can’t teach within a reasonable amount of time, he’ll give you your money back. Simple as that.
He gives real practical advice that is not only intuitive and simple he expects long term results from you. But he also can draw you into intelligent theories which are proven by his almost obsessive attitude about real field research.
His theories are backed up by knowledge, experimentation, and results. Proven results from me to the thousands of men who have bought his material. (And the happy women who are lucky enough to meet his “students”)
Read this quote I took from him. Click on the link and watch a 30 minute video about inner game and confidence. This should prove my point above.
“….you simply need to AVOID saying the wrong things most of the time and you’ll get the girl just as often. You see, even knowing exactly the RIGHT thing to say (the right words) is usually not enough to create attraction. You need a confident attitude, the right body language, correct timing, and solid inner game. However, this IS NOT true in reverse. Saying the WRONG thing CAN and WILL ruin your approach with a woman and blow things up in your face. Most success with women is simply NOT screwing up the easy stuff.”— Carlos Xuma
Carlos has given me a 30 minute video to share with you. Don’t miss it. Click here for a thirty minute video of your inner game and confidence. (No signup required.)
If you’re just not sure you can relate to him or if you’re unsure about being ready to make a change in your relationships with women, please, by all means, read through some of the articles he has written, and allowed me to use, to promote his material.
I did an interview with him last year and loved doing it. We exchange emails occasionally and I enjoy
hearing from him. I highly support and promote any of his material. And you know why. Quality. Content. Original writing style. I also consider him a mentor of mine. It took some time but yes, he knocked off David DeAngelo in my mind. Sorry Dave I only have room for one mentor at a time.
Carlos gained that new status in my mind first because of his great advice but also his, “What can I do for you attitude?” in the business world. Coming from retail myself which I believe has the opposite attitude, “Bend over! Now… what can you do for me attitude?” Bet you never heard that before, but yes, working in retail for ten years is a long climb in a Ned Beatty outfit…if you know what I mean.
Enough said…Haha!
Thanks Carlos. And here are his links.
- My page here at Dialteg™. (You can find a list of his products with a small description here.)
David DeAngelo
Giving wussies new hope in understanding women and attraction since…
Hard man to reach. Yes. Definitely. But he is still the one that got me headed in the right direction. I have never actually talked
with him directly in voice or email. I did write to him a few years ago to get featured on his newsletter but it went left unanswered. I know poor me. Haha! Trust me… I got over it.
I can not tell you where I would be in my life if I had not dsicovered his double your dating products but I’m sure I wouldn’t be writing this blog. That’s for sure. I would still be a clueless wussy in need a hard slap in the face.
Thanks David D., and here are his links.
- My page here at Dialteg™ (I talk about my story of how I came into reading his material and links to articles)
- Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo©
David Wygant
Open your ears, then open your eyes to realistic advice on Dating, Relationships, and Sex…
Have you ever met someone in your life that seems to know a shitload about a subject and is always willing to share their opinions, views, and their advice? They have a ton of words to speak and are so good at communicating them you just can’t help but to get caught up in a great conversation with them. You always walk away feeling excited about it,. When it comes to dating and relationships for men AND women, David is the first person that comes to mind that perfectly fits that role.
Sure, just like the rest of the people I promote on this site, he won’t bullshit you. He isn’t afraid to tell you the truth even though it may cost him money. That’s a common trait among these friends listed but there is something more to his advice that gives him his own unique spin on the world. Which rarely ever lets me down.
And even though it seems he produces about 10 words written or spoken a minute, every hour every day, he stills has found the time or the staff, to offer me interviews, special promotions, and great links with content to promote his products. Someday I will have the time to create these for those of you reading my pages but for now, what he offers will keep you busy enough. That’s for sure.
Thanks David W. and here are the link:
- My Page here at Dialteg™
- Join Podcast Wednesdays
- #1 Dating Blog On The Internet – David Wygant
- Main product page for men.
- The Art of Attracting Men – product page for women
Dean Cortez
Your Wingman…

When I started this blog almost a year ago I found his page looking through a list or products to promote. I couldn’t find the people I already experienced but managed to find them through his sites. So Dean, for me, was just another product to promote. But as I read through more of his blog, his articles given to me to use, sales pages, and videos, I began to get a good sense that he’s an honest guy, with solid advisement.
For that reason I felt he would fit on my Nice Guys pages.
You see, what he teaches and his techniques he suggests are sometimes what a nice guy could certainly use to break out of those nice guy ways. From what I can tell if you’re marriage minded and just looking for one long-lasting relationship in your life right now, he might not be for you.
He teaches you how to get younger girlfriends, pickup strippers, and date incredibly hot girlfriends. I suppose they are tactics. Since his main site is M.A.C.K™ Tactics. But think of it this way..
learning skills and tactics to honestly get what you want out of life is not that bad of a plan at all. That’s for sure.
Thanks Wingman and now, here are his links:
- Dean Cortez category link -from Attraction Transformation. I don’t have a page for him here just yet, but you’ll find about five articles written by him here.
- THE S.W.A.T. GUIDE - SEDUCTION WEAPONS & ATTRACTION TACTICS The Swat Guide is a .PDF file free for downloading. Enjoy. I believe the name of what is is says it all.
- Secrets Of Strip Club_Seduction Also a Free .PDf file to download. Have fun with it guys.
- Bad Boy Seduction -Great for Nice Guys!
- Dating Younger Women
- M.A.C.K. ™ Tactics
- Strip Club Seduction
Thanks again Wingman.
Doctor Paul Dobransky M.D.
Offering a new way of looking at your life and your masculinity…
The worst thing I could say about Dr. Paul is that he is not an affiliate of mine.
Okay so you feel you’re a highly intelligent man who loves learning, logic, and breaking down everything and anything. You also feel that this over thinking gets in your way when it comes to attracting women.
If that is you, you must check out his material. He’s not going to advertise what I just said to you but I feel those who are reading my pages and feel that way will use his programs with the best results.
I just know way too many who hate reading. They hate thinking and they hate self analyzing themselves. I think if that is you, you probably won’t use his material to the fullest. I believe it can help you. I believe it can help any man. But like every other material mentioned here, you have to be willing to follow the advisement you are paying for.
Rob Brinded
“Are you checking out my package?”
If you have never heard of this guy and you’ve worked out in a little in your life, you just don’t what you’re missing. I first heard about Rob through David DeAngelo, and it literally only took me a few hours to buy his material. I eagerly sucked in every bit of information Rob threw at me.
I never had heard anything like it at all and within minutes of the download there I was on my floor looking at Rob’s mug on my computer screen. In some videos you can hear sirens, traffic, and even a few birds.
But you know what…it would not have made a difference even if I was be forced hearing it through a tin can with a string attached…
His Code of The Natural is still a part of my daily life and I’m proud to say I was one of the first to buy it.
I’ve been working out my whole life to keep my body in shape. Yet until Rob I never felt all too secure with my movements or my ability to relax and just be.
Let me tell you what kind of guy I’ve found Rob to be.
He contacted me personally while running several businesses and traveling constantly to personally thank me for my support of his pages. (I mentioned him a few times in earlier posts.) You know, only the truly cool dudes will do shit like that. He also told me he was sorry I could not make any money promoting his product, but he would get back to me when all the details were in place.
We kept in touch for a while and then recently he sent be a happy email about becoming a promoter or affiliate of his products instantly. We discussed another issue and here we are.
I want to thank him for all the knowledge he has passed on to me.
(and for some of the sexual conversations I’ve had with women when I tell them about his methods of working out. Haha!)
They love to hear about it.
(I was in a crowded bar one evening in particular and trying to help a girlfriend with her neck problem. I began to show her these hamstrings exercises and suddenly as I was thrusting my hips back and forth, side to side, and turning them, I had a crowd of hot girls around me, going, “OMG Pete!”)
Please by all means if you’re into all this attraction material you read around here, it’s never complete without getting to know Rob Brinded.
Scot McKay
“Never Ever Settle…”
I don’t think there ever could be too much I can say about Scot, his advice, or the business he runs. Solid all the way. I first learned about Scot through David DeAngelo of course (like many of the people listed on my site). I deal with many affiliates in this business and there a few of them that just stand out above everyone else. This is because when I look into their products, when I get their emails or promotions, or read through tons of their free articles, they make me feel I am dealing with a family owned business where they care just as much as I do, about what we do.
Scot is not just some guy that decided to throw a quick ebook out and earn some cash. His X&Y Communications is the complete deal. Offering personal coaching on dating and relationship management, pod casts, a huge membership, and that’s just the beginning. You could literally go to his main site and find everything you need on dating, attraction, and relationships.
I wanted to take this time to thank Scot and everyone that works with him, or for him, for all his efforts, advice, and for especially giving my readers a real solid choice that’s respectable. Your efforts on being a real man and a sound business partner have truly paid off. You’re a great example of how anyone can get “What they deserve!” with patience and an insatiable appetite for learning.
Take the time to look through a few small reviews I’ve written about what he offers. You may find something that interests you. As I write more I will update the links.
- How To Understand Women–Featuring Marie Forleo
- Real Seduction – An Interview With Joseph Matthews
- The Engineer’s Guide to Being Cooler Than the Sales Guy
- Attraction Makeover – for Women
- Telecom Game–Attract And Seduce Using Phone, Text And Voice Mail
- Virtuosity – Never Ever Settle
- Deserve What You Want – For Women
- Scot McKay Deserve What You Want X & Y Communications Main Page.
- The Man’s Approach
Thanks again Scot.
Mystery
The true modern day Casanova…
I first learned about Mystery of course through David DeAngelo. His first words out of the box about what to expect when dealing with beautiful women instantly got me hooked. I listened intently and integrated his knowledge into my life as quickly as I could.
I didn’t get a chance to purchase his first book, The Mystery Method – How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed until much earlier this year. Based upon reading that book, the interviews I’ve read, the words he has written, his influence around the world of pickup artists, and his overall somewhat quiet demeanor displayed in his utube videos, this man is no mystery and can be considered the modern day Casanova.
His speaks of the Venusian arts as if it’s his lifestyle, career and overall place in the world to fill the role of Seduction and Pickup Guru. And he does this with good reason. Because it is.
He was one of the first people I had ever encountered to actually construct a logical order to the pickup better known to me as the A1-A3, C1…etc… methods. The world knows it as the M3 Model. – The Easiest way to pickup. He explains it fully in his first book if you’re interested. The link below will take you my short review of it. Check it out.
I honestly wish I could write more about him here but I just don’t know him personally. My honest opinion of him tells me this…
Imagine you are one of those guys that has absolutely no luck with women and you decide to find a way, no matter what, to get a girlfriend or better understand women. Your life will go through stages of success and failure. I use the term stages because this is what I’ve seen from guys just getting into this stuff. Each stage you experience fully and begin to master opens up another stage. The next level with women. Each level also offers you the choice which way you want to take. Here is a simple chart to better explain:
Learn what attraction really is.
Become more Attractive. A quick diagram of the levels and choices you will encounter.
1.) Changing your lifestyle:
a. Giving yourself rock star status. (Such as Mystery)
a1. This path will extend to mastery of the pickup.
b. Engaging more into your passions.
b1. This path will extend to finding high quality women for relationships.
c. Finding a new career.
c1. This path will open new opportunities you may be missing in your current career.
c1a. Car salesman to selling products around the country for free traveling.
c1b. Retail associate to personal trainer. Meet hotter women that pay fro your advice.
2.) Change your style:
a. Fine tuning your appearance.
a1. Keeps women from ruling you out because you’re wearing dirty sneaker all the time. This path will extend to less mistakes with women and hence some more opportunities.
b. Peacocking yourself. (Outlandish dress such as Mystery)
b1. This path will often lead to a complete physical and personality enhancement. Used primarily to truly brand yourself as a ladies man. They often will approach you.
c. Small makeover letting women know you do like taking care of yourself.
3.) Inner Game Reworking:
a. Handling and changing your limited beliefs of the world.
b. Discovering and reworking your personalty to have women respond to you differently socially.
c. Learning the dynamics of social interactions and how and why women are attracted to certain tupes.
4.) Outer Game:
a. Total over haul of your body language.
b. Studying and practicing how to approach women in all situations.
c. Becoming the guy that can pickup women and seduce them in the same night.
You see each of those sections in the diagram above will have certain levels to it. As you go through each one you decide where to work on something else. You decide more clearly which direction you want to go and how far you want to take it. If you are just looking for a relationship and finding a great girlfriend, chance are you will not look into becoming an overnight seduction artist. Chances are you will focus more on relationships, keeping them, and finding rewarding ones.
Each section you will notice has it’s extremes. And this is where Mystery has come in. He decided to take every extreme path to its fullest. He then set out to accomplish it and he has. That is what makes him the modern day Casanova. That is what makes him the top pickup guru in the world today. That is why Mystery is included in my pages. He deserves it for all his efforts. He deserves my respect for his unwavering approach at picking up and attraction. He deserves my respect for taking control of his life, learning the skills to a master status, and then giving back to the world what he learned.
Thanks Mystery. I’m not into picking up chics or taking the same path you have chosen, but I have learned so much from the path you have chosen in your life. Thanks for sharing man.
Now the links.
- My review of The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed.
- My amazon page for purchasing - The Mystery Method – How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed. You can also read other people’s reviews here and get a glimpse into the book.
- Game Analysis Form – LIMITED SPACES
- Signup intro form to his Revelation Book
- The Ultimate Revelation Companion Set – CD or DVD
- Venusian Arts Homepage
Thanks again Mystery.
Christian Carter
Men have David DeAngelo, Women have Christian Carter…
(I have yet to write something for Christian. The excerpt wast taken below from him.)
As the “must-have” resource for all women looking for love, the Catch Him And Keep Him eBook (downloadable for $29.97) is specifically designed to help them find and keep their 100%-perfect man.
Catch Him And Keep Him readers are primarily single women looking to meet and attract “Mr. Right”, or women in the early phases of an established relationship looking for a deeper commitment. Through his famously frank and powerful advice, author Christian Carter has helped over 3 million of them pull back the curtain on the most deeply guarded secrets of how a man thinks and behaves–then literally go “inside his mind” to learn how to keep him forever.
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