Carlos Xuma

by peter white

His Attitude:

He won’t hold back. He won’t sugar coat anything.
He won’t promise you overnight success and quick get laid schemes.
He’s not just another down to earth “cool” guy who was born successful with women. He’s been through more or at least the same experiences all of us guys who have failed with women have been through.
He knows how to teach and convey his message clearly. He uses incredibly creative analogies from how attraction is like driving a car to how keeping a girlfriend can be like chasing a rabbit down a hole.
He understands how to motivate men and his attitude energizes any man with a craving to learn about themselves and women.
If he has a joke, he tells it. His humor relaxes you and makes you feel you’re dealing with a real genuine man who understands teaching guys about women doesn’t have to be boring laid out plans with no room for enjoyment. He believes, as I do, everyone has their own path to take. Sure we may cross often but each road is uniquely our own. And the more we understand this, the more attractive we can become because we won’t be just some stamped out clone of Carlos. (Haha! Just got an image of twenty tiny Carlos’s running around at a pickup artist convention and causing all sorts of problems.)

When I deal personally with men and they’re looking for someone, I never hesitate to recommend Carlos.

Here’s a story from from my life…

You meet a woman you feel attracted to but you’re just not sure how to handle the situation. You think she may be interested in you but the feeling of rejection is too overwhelming. You don’t ask for a date and you fail to ask for her number. Later on that night you begin thinking to yourself,

“Why the hell didn’t I do anything about it?”

“Why do I always screw it up with women?”

Surprisingly, out of some weird coincidence designed to test your masculinity, you see her again.

And now you’re thinking you can’t possibly ask her out. Asking her out now would only prove to her that you were just acting like you wanted to be a friend, when you really wanted more.

Since you’re a nice guy you’re also thinking,

“I know. I will get to know her better and maybe our friendship will turn into something more. I do want her but I don’t want to be like every other she has met. She deserves more than that.”

What happens to us guys when we suppress those uncontrollable feelings of attraction to someone who is just becoming our friend?

She seems to get even more attractive!

There is this small part of you that knows how you feel. It hijacks your thoughts everyday. Somehow this small part of you begins to entangle itself with every other thought. It is doing so because it wants out and it will do anything to get from you what it wants, to tell her how you really feel.

She calls you up one night to talk about nothing. At least that is what you hear because all you can think about is telling her how you feel. Then, as if it was meant to be, something on the flickering television in the background appears, it is a shared private joke between the two of you and your body fills with emotions and thoughts of your life together, as boyfriend and girlfriend…

And then those words dribble from your mouth,

“You know. I really like you.”

And she responds,

“Awww. That’s so sweet. I really like you too. You’re a great friend.”

You utter back,

“No. I really like you, as more than just a friend.”

And then you wait patiently for a response from her. It seems to take forever with painfully stinking silence…

“I’m sorry. I don’t date friends. I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”

(If this seems like a conspiracy to you, click here and Carlos will fill you in on )

You know it’s hard to make that kind of story up unless you’ve been there yourself… and I have. I know how it feels to be constantly rejected. I know how it feels to be only good friends with those women we all want so badly.

I know how it feels to try so hard to get a girl to like that we fear any kind of disapproval from her.

Disapproval is not the same thing as being disliked.

Disapproval is not the same thing as, not being unattractive.

And being upset does not equate to, not liking you.

And when you make that desperate scramble to get her to like you. Well you’re really going off the deep end there…

Carlos Xuma – A Transcribed Interview with Carlos Xuma by Peter White, Part 2

Please feel free to check all of Carlos Xuma’s articles. Find one you can most relate to and take the five minutes to read through it. I will add more as time moves on. This is only about half of what I have to give to you!

Full list of programs by Carlos Xuma:

(All of Carlos’s programs come with a guarantee and most come with easy payment plans)

Get a Girlfriend Fast – Alpha Male Dating Power
This entry level program is the perfect quick-start. With over 5 hours of quality MP3 audio, immense content, and a super-low price, this is the ideal way to begin learning the Art of Attraction.

This program covers the entire dating process, from start to finish with techniques and secret tips.

Please read my personal review by going here.

(now with a one dollar promotion)

The Girlfriend Training Program

Finally, you can know all the secret strategies that the guys with beautiful, desirable wives know about. These guys know that their women are hot properties and if they drop the ball for one second, she’s got options lined up around the block. These guys have a skill for keeping their women trained to feel attraction for him – 24 hours a day/7 days a week. This program was also shaped by the questions and suggestions from over 10,000 guys just like you.

Girlfriend Training – Facts About Women - “Most guys don’t know this, but it’s a fact: Women cheat as much as men do.”

Ultimate Inner Game
For the first time, Carlos Xuma reveals his complete strategy for building inner confidence, destroying nervousness and social anxiety, obliterating worry and fear, increase your masculinity, control and manage your emotions… and finally win your Inner Game once and for all…

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The Alpha Lifestyle Program – Triple Threat

This is the finishing touch you need to complete your Alpha Lifestyle and become a powerful Alpha Man. If you’ve been through all the other “pickup programs,” maybe even a bootcamp, and you want to know how to make every area of your life a success with these principles, then this is the program you need.

The Alpha Lifestyle: Triple-Threat contains 6 DVDs packed with information and inspiration, featuring Carlos Xuma and some of his special guests. Go beyond “pickup” lines and strategies… Make a life-changing transformation -NOW!

Learn the Triple-Threat Skills:
Motivation: The fuel for your life – The passion and purpose you need to excel
Inner Game: Reprogram your mindset and focus on success and fulfillment in all areas
Outer Game: Specific techniques and tactics – essential social success skills

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Alpha Immersion – Secrets Of The Alpha Man

The Secrets of the Alpha Man: Immersion DVD program is the most complete self-improvement, women-attraction program you’ll find — anywhere. It consists of 4 jam-packed DVDs (over 13 HOURS) of Carlos live in his groundbreaking seminar. Including exclusive exercises and on-screen tutorials on developing the mindset of the attractive Alpha Man. This is the unique material men need, covering everything you to know to succeed with women.

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Alpha Masculinity

The Alpha Masculinity program will get you past your “Mr. Nice Guy” problems with women, and get you on the path to discovering your true power as an Alpha Man. With over 8 main modules and 14 bonus modules of content, this is the most complete package to transform you into the man you want to be…

(Risk Free Trial Offered)

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The Alpha Rules Signup Page

The Alpha Rules program is the first to bring together the success principles with pickup and attracting women and the skills that make a man ALPHA. These are the bedrock principles of the Alpha Man, and how he can shape his life into the success that he desires.

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Approach Women Now

The “Approach Women – NOW!” program is the essential start to your attraction skills. With 4 CDs, it features more than 4 hours of instruction that give you clear and concise directions for creating attraction and interest in every woman you talk to. No hype. Just RESULTS. This is the most UNIQUE and easy to use program on the market – there is no other single product that deals with this subject with this clarity and quality.

The Bear and The Sneakers - “You ever have one of those moments where a person is telling you a joke, and you realize you’ve heard it before, but you don’t want to spoil it for them?”

The Bad Boy Formula

Somewhere, there’s a BAD Bad Boy waiting to steal the girl you want – or the girl you’ve already got. Are you going to let him get away with this…? The Bad Boy Formula shows you how to take the “edge” of the Bad Boy and use it for good – to attract women and treat women the way they want. Learn how to turn women into addicted & obsessed ‘Love Junkies’ – Beat Them At Their Own Game, Without EVER Being A Deceptive Or Manipulative Jerk…

Nice Guys Need Edge To Attract Women - “The fact is that women want to get banged by bad boys.”

Alpha Man Conversation and Persuasion

The Alpha Man Conversation & Persuasion Program is your high-octane training for communication POWER. Carlos guides the listener through 14 CDs (and over 4.5 hours of bonus material) covering ALL aspects of communication and conversation strategies. Intense focus is given to making your communication as persuasive as possible, using such techniques as NLP, rapport building, curiosity and attraction, argumentative logic, humor, verbal self-defense, and more. Considerable weight is put on communication with women, but this program will also highlight how to converse more effectively with EVERYONE in your sphere of influence. Once you’ve completed this program, you’ll never say “I didn’t have anything else to talk about!” EVER again… This is True Alpha Conversation POWER.

Writing An Online Personal Ad - “Here’s a rule I want you guys out there to remember: Don’t be afraid to scare away the women you don’t want.”

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The Dating Black Book

This program is THE manual for guys who want to break open the Matrix and understand how to attract women, from the approach all the way to the long-term relationship.

Hundred pages of rock-solid strategies, tips – how to be successful with women and dating. Attract women – Learn what women want, how to flirt, how to get a girlfriend, and other dating advice for men…

dating black book

The audio version of the popular Dating Black Book program. This program is THE manual for guys who want to break open the Matrix and understand how to attract women, from the approach all the way to the long-term relationship.

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Get Your Man

The “Get Your Man” program is Carlos Xuma’s first product for women. This 4-CD audio program covers the basics for women looking to find the right man. Nearly 5 hours of explosive content that covers everything, including how men think, what qualities to look for, myths about dating, how to keep a man happy, and much more. This program teaches women the essential skills to make quality relationships for them – and their man.

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How To Talk To Women

If you’ve ever found yourself struggling to start or keep a conversation going with a woman, you know how frustrating it can be. You want to say the right things at the right time to keep her interested, and get her number – or a kiss – or more… In this program, Carlos Xuma explains all the core elements of conversation, how they work, along with examples of cocky humor, texting, and his complete bag of tricks to keep her talking to you for as long as you want…

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The Power of Social Skills

Ever had someone play the guilt card, or play with your emotions to manipulate you?

Have you ever felt like people were “gaming” you?

By now you’ve realized that one of the core skills you need for women is good social intuition. It’s the keystone of your own ability to attract women – as well as the foundation for just about all your successes in life – financial, career, friends, family … the list goes on and on. My latest program is a massive self-study kit to address this area.

Learn how to handle the game players and build REAL connections with people.

Is Social Awkwardness Holing You Back? - “I was always a shy kid. I was embarrassed easily, and I always wanted to avoid those situations where I was put at the center of attention.”

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The Approach Women 2 – Real Alpha Daygame

The Approach Women 2 – Real Alpha Daygame program unlocks the secrets of the “naturals” who approach women anywhere – and anytime. In this program, Carlos demonstrates his approach technique, as well as gets you past any anxiety or fear you may have about approaching women outside of bars and clubs. He also pulls in 8 of the best approachers in the world to explain their strategies, their thinking, and their techniques. This is the missing piece of the puzzle for guys who are ready to learn the secrets of how to approach women anywhere – with no fear and no rejection.

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Secrets Of The Alpha Man

The “Secrets of the Alpha Man” is our flagship home-study program. The kit consists of two e-books with over 400 pages of top-quality secrets for how to develop the kind of attitude and self-confidence that only “players” have had to ATTRACT the most-beautiful women. Also, 6 audio CDs with 7 HOURS of additional coaching, dating advice and strategies to get you confident and successful.

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The Seduction Method

The Seduction Method e-book is the most complete and useful seduction information you can get. It is all the experience I’ve compiled from over twenty years of dating, as well as the latest understanding of male and female psychology and physiology. You’ll learn the reality behind a woman’s eyes and how to read her like a book – to give her what she wants. With this book, you’ll have all the resources at your fingertips for seduction success.

Because it’s not about deceit or manipulation… it’s about ATTRACTION…

Master Attraction Blueprints
This is not a book of routines for you to memorize and get all stuck in your head when it comes time to talk to a woman. I fully believe that if you give a man a fish, you feed him for today. If you teach a man how to fish, you feed him for a LIFETIME. That’s what I’m giving you here – a set of tools you need to be self-sufficient when you talk to women.