• A Woman Reveals Her Inability to Explain an Unusual Attraction Towards a Man

    I have found so many nice guys do not truly understand how a woman feels attraction. Therefore when they run into a woman and see her flirting or dating a man who may not be suitable, they shake their heads and often assume he is either rich or a jerk. He could be too old, too short, too young, or not good-looking.

    I can not blame these men for their assumptions. After all, they don’t teach you in school about attraction and to actually learn how a woman feels or experiences Read more...

Carlos Xuma

Why is Carlos Xuma being represented on a site for nice guys, wanting to stay out of the friend’s zone?

Because he offers programs specifically designed to turn you into a man who no longer has to worry about being  told,

“Let’s just be friends.”

Carlos and I also have a few things in common,

1.) He also has made so many of the mistakes nice guys do that caused him to fail with women.

2.) We have decided to get our dating and social skills up to a level that can land us almost any single woman we desire.

3.) We are, well I’m just going to ahead and say it, pretty cool guys.

Let me know if you’ve ever been here before…

You meet a woman you feel attracted to but you’re just not sure how to handle the situation. You think she may be interested but the feeling of rejection is too overwhelming. You don’t ask for a date and you fail to ask for her number. Later on you’re thinking to yourself,

“Why the hell didn’t I do anything about it? Why do I always screw it up with women?”

Surprisingly, out of some weird coincidence designed to test your masculinity, you see her again. Now you’re thinking you can’t possibly ask her out. Asking her out now would only prove to her that you were just acting like a friend, when you rally wanted more. Since you’re a nice guy you think,

“I know. I will get to know her better and maybe our friendship will turn into something more. I do want her but I don’t want to be like every other she has met. She deserves more than that.”

So what happens when we suppress those unavoidable feelings of attraction to someone that is just becoming our friend?

She seems to get more attractive.

Now you are bombarded with emotions and anxiety because in the back of your mind, you always wanted more. And as you two grow closer and develop this wonderful friendship you finally get the balls do it.

You just can not take this secrecy any more!

You have to say something to her. What if she likes you back and you did nothing about it. Your close guy friends know you want her. HEll even your dog knows. It’s just that obvious to everyone, so you think, but to HER!

She calls you up one night to talk about nothing. At least that is what you hear because all you can think about is telling her how you feel. Then, as if it was meant to be, something on the flickering television in the background is a shared private joke between the two of you and your body is suddenly filled with emotions and thoughts of your life together, as boyfriend and girl friend…

And then those words dribble from your mouth,

“You know. I really like you.”

And she responds,

“Awww. That’s so sweet. I really like you too but I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”

Is that short story a small snapshot of your life?

Can you relate to most parts?

Have you beat  yourself up over your failures in dating?

I know I used to and until I got some solid advice that made sense. I did not have a clue what was going on with women. No one told me how attraction worked. No one showed me what my body language was saying and what it should say. Nobody sat down with and said,

“Listen Pete. this is how it all works and this is what you should explore to gain the right experience. This is what women respond to, and it has nothing to do with being nice. I want to let you borrow something. Here are the invisible glasses worn by men that do get it. Try them on. You’ll like what you see.”

That quote may seem a little obscure but that is what Carlos can do for you. That is how you can benefit from him.

He can lend you those amazing glasses and allow you to see what is really going on, and best of all what you should do about it.

Here are some things you will finally see.

  • How Becoming an Alpha Male is not being an abusive jerk.
  • How to cultivate your personality into a man who women will notice.
  • What sexual tension is really all about, and how you can use it to please a woman.
  • Not screwing up those first meetings which means getting more girlfriends, easier and quicker.

I have read hundreds of pages written by him and his advice is always right on. If you like at all what I write on my pages his is just that much better. After all, you are paying him for it.

If you can relate to my story above then he is exactly what you are looking for.

“….you simply need to AVOID saying the wrong things most of the time and you’ll get the girl just as often. You see, even knowing exactly the RIGHT thing to say (the right words) is usually not enough to create attraction. You need a confident attitude, the right body language, correct timing, and solid inner game. However, this IS NOT true in reverse. Saying the WRONG thing CAN and WILL ruin your approach with a woman and blow things up in your face. Most success with women is simply NOT screwing up the easy stuff.”—-The 3.5 Big Mistakes Guys Make When They Like a Woman – And How to Avoid Them by Carlos Xuma

You can tell by writings he is just as passionate about what he does as I am. But he does have a much clearer style of writing than I do. I ‘m a few years away from writing any books and videos for sale. But he’s not. Which is big reason you have to pay for much of his deepest writings and I only offer links and previews.

The Rule of Reciprocity – Understanding Spending Money on Dating Women

The Biggest Mistake Guys Make Reading Body Language

Dating Tips For Men: How to Tell If a Woman is Interested in You

Dating Tips For Men: “How Do I Get Girls to Notice Me?

So, I’ve Been Meeting a Lot of Women, But How Do I Get Them to Like Me?

Dating Tips for Men: Is Social Awkwardness Holding You Back?

Dating Tips for Men: How to Write An Online Personal Ad

4 Step Guide to Meeting Women – How to Meet Women on Facebook


BEING SINGLE IS JUST AS GOOD!

There are Only Two Different Kinds of Men
Simple Guide to Understanding Women
How to Get a Girlfriend Fast

Dating Tips for Men: Confidence Despite of Liabilities – We all Have Them

How to Meet Women with No Rejection

Flirting With Women


Take a look below to see what he offers. If something looks interesting click on the link that will take you there. But spend some time going through all of it before you decide to buy. Don’t worry if you make a mistake. I’ll Let him explain his guarantees.


Click here to go to Carlos Xuma’s Homepage

You can also look below to see all of what he offer. I told you he has tons of material. Some of it below is even free.

Alpha Conversation Program

Confidence and how to talk to women. Attract women with confidence and communication. This is includes his Alpha man conversation and persuasion.

 Alpha Immersion Program

How to attract women with confidence. Learn the secrets of what attracts women.
Alpha Masculinity Program

Learn the secrets of Alpha Attraction. He’ll show you the secrets of what attracts women.

 Alpha Masculinity Video 1

Alpha Masculinity Video 2

Alpha Masculinity Video 3

Enter your email and Carlos will send you his free video on masculinity and sexuality. These are a must watch and they’re free.
Approach Women – ADVANCED

This teaches you how to approach women the right way. He dispels three myths of that holds most men back from success. He will teach how to be a confident man approaching women.

Approach Women NOW

In this program Carlos will teach you how to meet women, how to talk to women, how to approach women, and how to get over being shy around them. He’ll teach you how to do things the right and show which pick lines do actually work. Go check it out and let him tell you all about it.

 Approach Women 2 Video 1

Here you can watch a free video on surveys he has done with guys. He asks them  questions about approaching women. Great stuff. Just click and watch. Nothing to Buy.

Approach Women 2 Video 2

The Second free video is about maximizing your success in three easy steps. Here he relates approaching women and creating attraction to business systems. Great ideas and incredible tips. Definitely a free video that pays to watch.

Approach Women 2 Video 3

In his third free video Carlos answers questions from men about their gears of approaching women. Basically it’s part 2 of the approaching women video 2.
Dating Black Book

This link will take you to a page where if you enter your email, he will send you his free ebook on the art of attraction and approaching women. It is filled with dating tips and you can get it free. It is part of concepts of R.E.A.L. Game. Check it out and see what the letters stands for.

 Get a Girlfriend Program

Carlos will teach you here, and inexpensively, how to get a girlfriend. Fast! He will teach you to build your skills in dating and attraction. It’s well worth the money and is a great crash course for anyone looking to increase those skills. Go read his page on it and decide for yourself. I’m sure you won’t be disappointed.
Inner Game Video 1

Inner Game Video 2

Inner Game Video 3

More free videos from Carlos.  I’m still amazed by how much free stuff he does offer. Anyways, if you want some information about the inner game, go check out these videos and see for yourself. You will learn something from them. They deal with confidence, inner game traps, the pua learning curve, and much more.

 Power Social Skills

Here Carlos will teach about overcoming shyness and the power of your own social skills and how they can increase your dates to the point where you just may need a secretary. It’s about becoming a social leader and how to get rid of your shyness around women and men forever. Go check it out because you’re not going to believe how much material is contained within the program.
Ultimate Inner Game

I believe the name says it all. Here he will go into great detail on your own inner game and how developing it can change your whole life. Not just with women. I know from experience that learning about attraction and working on your inner game affects how you deal with life in general. Believe it or not learning how to attract women through being an alpha male will also help you in career and your overall social life. So go check out.

 Secrets of the Alpha Man

Carlos goes into complete confidence and how women react to a confident man. He realizes as I do you can never attract the highest quality women or succeed in dating without real confidence. I recommend this if you feel your esteem is low and you just don’t know what to do about it. Confidence is definitely key to your success with attraction and gaining those skills will reward you the rest of you life.
Seduction Method

The name says it all. This will teach you all about seduction and how important it is when dating women. It’s about teasing, flirting, using sexual communication and self confidence to enhance how a woman feels around you. He includes NLP, conversational advice,  and everything you need to know about seducing women. The nice guy way.

 The Alpha Rules

This is basically a link where if you give your email he will give you his free e course on attraction. It’s about the Alpha Man life style. So go sign up for it. It’s free.

Let me know if Carlos has helped you in any way. Let my readers know how you feel about his material by commenting and reviewing it. Any valid opinions will be posted.

Later,

Peter White

Peter White Interviews Carlos Xuma

Keep You eyes out for the transcription I’m going to post as soon as a finish it.

Listen to me Peter White Interview Carlos Xuma

[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iwh-1okgfAo]


Oh shit, I forgot, check this out. He offer two quizzes. And both are free.

7 Question Pickup Quiz to find out where you are when it comes to dating and attracting beautiful women.

and

A profiling survey on how you can meet women.


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