Carlos Xuma

Why is Carlos Xuma being represented on a site for nice guys, wanting to stay out of the friend’s zone?

First of all, let me know if you can relate to this…

You meet a woman you feel attracted to but you’re just not sure how to handle the situation. You think she may be interested but the feeling of rejection is too overwhelming. You don’t ask for a date and you fail to ask for her number. Later on that night you begin thinking to yourself,

“Why the hell didn’t I do anything about it?”

“Why do I always screw it up with women?”

Surprisingly, out of some weird coincidence designed to test your masculinity, you see her again.

And now you’re thinking you can’t possibly ask her out. Asking her out now would only prove to her that you were just acting like you wanted to be a friend, when you rally wanted more.

Since you’re a nice guy you’re also thinking,

“I know. I will get to know her better and maybe our friendship will turn into something more. I do want her but I don’t want to be like every other she has met. She deserves more than that.”

So what happens when we suppress those uncontrollable feelings of attraction to someone who is just becoming our friend?

She seems to get even more attractive!

So what do you do about it?

Nothing. Nothing at all. You and her grow closer and develop this wonderful friendship.

All the while there is a small part of you that knows how you feel. It’s a small part that continues to hijack your thoughts everyday. Somehow this small part of you begins to entangle itself with every other thought. It is doing so because it wants out. And it will do anything to get from you what it wants, to tell her how you really feel. It just won’t allow you to have any secrets.

You have to say something to her. What if she likes you back and you do nothing about it, again Your close guy friends know you want her. Hell even your dog knows. It’s just that obvious to everyone, so you think, but is it to her!

She calls you up one night to talk about nothing. At least that is what you hear because all you can think about is telling her how you feel. Then, as if it was meant to be, something on the flickering television in the background appears, it is a shared private joke between the two of you and your body fills with emotions and thoughts of your life together, as boyfriend and girlfriend…

And then those words dribble from your mouth,

“You know. I really like you.”

And she responds,

“Awww. That’s so sweet. I really like you too. You’re a great friend.”

You say back,

“No. I really like you, as more than just a friend.”

And then you wait patiently for a response from her. It seems to take forever……………………….

“I’m sorry. I don’t date friends. I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”

You still with me here? Good.

You know it’s hard to make that kind of story up unless you’ve been there yourself. And I have. Many,many times and I know how bad it can hurt. I know how it feels to be constantly rejected. I know how it feels to be only good friends with those women we all want so badly.

And for that reason, of knowing how it feels…

Is why Carlos Xuma is being represented on Dialteg™.

Disapproval is not the same thing as being disliked.

Disapproval is not the same thing as, not being unattractive.

And being upset does not equate to, not liking you.

And when you make that desperate scramble to get her to like you. Well you’re really going off the deep end there…

Carlos Xuma – A Transcribed Interview with Carlos Xuma by Peter White, Part 2

No one told me how attraction worked.

No one showed me what my body language was saying and what it should say.

Not one person ever sat down with me and said,

“Listen Pete. this is how it all works and this is what you should explore to gain the right experience and her are the skills you will need. This is what women respond to and it has nothing to do with being nice. I want to let you borrow something. Here are the glasses worn by men that do get it. With them on you will understand women and see what is really going on. Try them on. You’ll like what you see.”

But that is what Carlos can do for you.

He can give you those amazing glasses and allow you to see what is really going on, and best of all what you should do and how you should go about learning it.

Here are some things you will finally see.

• How Becoming an Alpha Male is not being an abusive jerk.

• How Understanding Women can help you avoid so many nice guy mistakes.

• How to cultivate your personality into a man, who women will notice.

• What sexual tension is really all about, and how you can use it to please a woman.

• How to not screw up those first meetings which means getting more girlfriends, easier and quicker.
• And so much more, depending on which program you decide to check out and buy.

“….you simply need to AVOID saying the wrong things most of the time and you’ll get the girl just as often. You see, even knowing exactly the RIGHT thing to say (the right words) is usually not enough to create attraction. You need a confident attitude, the right body language, correct timing, and solid inner game. However, this IS NOT true in reverse. Saying the WRONG thing CAN and WILL ruin your approach with a woman and blow things up in your face. Most success with women is simply NOT screwing up the easy stuff.”— Carlos Xuma

Here is the biggest reason I believe you should at least check his material out,

His attitude:

• He won’t hold back. He won’t sugar coat anything.

• He won’t promise you overnight success and quick get laid schemes.

• He’s not just another down to earth “cool” guy because he knows how to teach and convey his message clearly. A sure sign of an alpha man and a leader.

If you’re just not sure you can relate to him or if you’re unsure about being ready to make a change in your relationships with women, please, by all means, read through some of the articles he has written, and allowed me to use, to promote his material.

You will instantly see how passionate he is at what he does. I know from teaching music and dating to others, when my passion shows through, it created a much deeper impact on my students. It made them want to learn and to “Do their homework”.

Of course you can always just keep coming back here and learn a little at a time from me but he does have a much clearer style of writing than I do, for now.

I feel you can learn much more from him. I ‘m a few years away from writing any books and making my own videos to sell. But he’s not. Which is big reason you have to pay for much of his deepest writings and I only offer links and previews.

Please feel free to check all of Carlos Xuma’s articles. Find one you can most relate to and take the five minutes to read through it. I will add more as time moves on. This is only about half of what I have to give to you!

How to Ask a Woman on a Date

Three Winning Attitudes That Impress Women

Energy

Personality and the Biggest Male Mistake with Women

The Biggest Mistake Guys Make Reading Body Language

Dating Tips For Men: How to Tell If a Woman is Interested in You

What Kind of Gifts Do You Give Women?

4 Step Guide to Meeting Women – How to Use Facebook to Meet Women

How to Approach Women – Part Five of Five: Introducing Yourself – Subjects to Discuss and Avoid

How to Get a Girl to Like You – The 3 Laws of Attracting Women

The Point System – Attitude and Posture Count!

Being Single is Just as Good!

How Do You Find the Dating Advice For Men That Works?

How to Win Over Any Woman – The Essence of Alpha Attitude

Learn the Secrets of Why Women Break Up With Men!

Rant about bad boys

Dating Tips For Men: Confidence In Spite of Liabilities – We All Have Them!

How to Approach Women – Part Four of Five: Situations – Retail Stores and Gyms

Tease Her to Please Her 2

Tease-To-Please In ACTION!

How to Get Over an Ex Girlfriend – Recovering From a Break-up

How Do I Get Girls to Notice Me?

When Do You Call a Woman?

How to Meet Single Women – The 3 Best Ways to Meet Women

How to Get a Girlfriend – The 4 Core “Seduction” Skills

A Simple Guide to Understanding Women

Dating Tips For Men: THERE ARE ONLY TWO DIFFERENT KINDS OF GUYS

Take a look below to see what he offers. If something looks interesting click on the link.  Spend some time going through all of them before you decide to buy anything. Don’t worry if you make a mistake. I’ll Let him explain his guarantees, they are incredible.

Click here to go to Carlos Xuma’s Homepage

Below are two links to a quiz and a profile survey. If you’re into that kind of interaction give them a try.

7 Question Pickup Quiz to find out where you are when it comes to dating and attracting beautiful women.

A profiling survey on how you can meet women.

Below here you can find my links to the programs you can buy from him. Please go check them out. I’m sure there’s at least one you can fully relate to.

And last but not least…..

The Bad Boy Formula – This is the sales page link.

If guys don’t get back to a more, less watered down version of themselves. A little more concentrated, a little more edgy. Maybe with a little more bite to them. A little like doing a  slice of lemon, that little bit of wow. Kind of a zing. Which is not necessarily uncomfortable in a lot of ways. A little bit of a wake up.

That’s what guys got to do. They got to put on their personalities. A little bit of edge. Maybe a little bit of sugar on the side to make it palatable.

Think about guys, The Bad Boy Formula (and this is the video sales page) is really about reclaiming that sense of masculinity we’ve lost over the years, and we have lost it, big time.

Please don’t be afraid to let me know if Carlos has helped you in any way. Let my readers know how you feel about his material and how it has helped or has not helped you, Comment or review it below. Any valid opinions will be posted.

I have interviewed Carlos and you can either listen to it or download below. Enjoy!

Peter White Interviews Carlos Xuma

• A Transcribed Interview with Carlos Xuma by Peter White, Part 1

• An Interview, transcribed, with Carlos Xuma by Peter White Part 2

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Thanks for stopping,

Pete

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