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David DeAngelo

It was a typical day in my nice guy life…

I didn’t have to work so I went online hoping to find the woman of my dreams.  A few years before that day I had my first real slap in the face in understanding women. My resentment I harbored towards women had just about dissipated from my last relationship. My mind was finally freeing itself from the tangled mess of my last friend’s zone love of my life.

I was searching through Myspace profiles looking for hot  girls to meet. I had minimal success through other online dating sites but MySpace looked like a great free alternative. I was wrong and my nice guy attitude transcended itself into the digital world. Looking back at it I can now see how my profile screamed this to women:

“I’m a Nice Guy and I need to get laid!”

“I’m a great guy and women should like me for who I am.”

“If she does not like me for who I am, then she’s not good enough for me.”

“This is who I am, a good guy. I don’t have secrets and I don’t cheat.”

“I’m romantic and you will enjoy me in bed. I believe the woman comes first.”

“That’s a picture of me smiling. I took it just for this site. I hope you find me attractive.”

“I’m a musician, a golfer, a poet, and a deep passionate man.”

I sat in from of my computer browsing through profile after profile. I wasn’t searching for help. I was searching for women to love me.  I was hoping if I could just tell them what a wonderful man I really was, and how I was always a good friend, I would finally meet an attractive women that would throw herself at me.

I even went so far as creating these magical experiences in my head of how it would happen. It was the same drawn out story each night before bed. We would meet. We would laugh. She would kiss me. Then we would enjoy a great sexual evening and I would finally get the girl.

I can think back on my life and see the pattern so clearly. I see the tactics I used were typical of every nice guy that struggles in getting a girlfriend. Sure, how I went about it varied as I matured through adulthood but the underlying theme was always the same. I just did not see it myself. I didn’t even realize that what I was doing was not different from nice guys everywhere. I actually thought I was unique in my problems But I wasn’t!

So there I was, reading through blogs diligently. Learning all about the girl so I could think of the perfect words to say to her when I stumbled upon another man, and no I didn’t realize I was gay, who found himself in the same situations I was in. But he decided one day to get his dating life under control. And unlike most men when they sit around their couch vowing to do something, he went out and did it.  He changed himself for the better. That man was David DeAngelo. If you don’t know who he is, keep reading.

I thought it was a blog of nice guy mistakes and I immediately connected with it, but it was really just an advertisement, a selling page similar to this one, enticing me into signing up for a free newsletter. But I thought, what the hell, it’s free. And I really did like the way David put things bluntly to me. Up until that day I had some notions about what women wanted but I never considered studying it, or for that matter, buying an ebook that would be shipped in a plain brown packaging to hide my intentions. And to hide from my neighbors that I was a loser with women. Even though I was without a doubt, a loser with women. The complete details of my dating life until that day only few know. I kept it a secret. So I thought.

I now know women could smell my lack of confidence and experience with them far away. As David would put it, I wreaked of needniess and was a complete wussy. Not a real man at all.

Suddenly I found myself drawn towards his newsletters. They were eye-opening experiences I will never forget. David seemed highly ethical and his advice was never about, just getting laid. After all I was a nice guy and I could never trick a woman or lie to get in her pants. I assumed that guys like him were teaching bullshit lies to wannabe players to get more pussy. But he wasn’t teaching that at all.

His dating advice was never “do this or else” and it never really centered around picking up women. He was teaching men how a real men act and how my nice guy tactics were not less manipulative than the wannabe player. The difference being the play was getting laid. And I certainly wasn’t.

Honestly I think it only took about three weeks of subscribing to his newsletter before I needed to get his material and study it. I wanted to change my dating life once and for all. I had a birthday coming up so I decided things were going to change for me. It was about time I did what needed to be done, no matter what! I bought his ebook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice” and eagerly awaited as it downloaded. I spent the whole Sunday reading it entirely. I was in love with it. I went to work the next day and began immediately putting his advice into practice.

No lie, remember I’m a nice guy, within two weeks of putting his advice into practice I had this sweet nineteen year old falling for me. And that was a feat I couldn’t do since I was in college. Ten years earlier.

Within four weeks I was flirting with check out girls and walking away not caring at all about whether she liked me or not. All I cared about was practicing the skills he teaches. Because they were working.

Over time I purchased his interview series which is where I learned about the experts you find on this site. I bought his DVD of his 77 laws. A friend I had met while I was going out practicing my dating skills gave me his copy of The Advanced Dating Techniques. I ordered his Meeting Women Online program and then lastly bought his Approaching Women and Starting Conversations programs. And yes, :D those were the ones that showed up quickly in my mailbox wrapped in plain brown paper. The money I spent cost me on the average about 20.00 a month. I always opted for his easy payment plan. I don’t know exactly how much it was altogether but if I had to guess it was no more 75 cents a day. 20.00 dollars a month or $240 in a year’s time. And that’s counting me buying a great book on body language, his interview subscription, and a few other books he had recommended that you can find on The Dialteg Store at Amazon.

And it was worth every penny! It literally changed my life. And keep that in mind when you read through my blog posts because it was him that got me to get off my ass and get my dating life under my control. I can not thank him enough.

I hate to have prove myself to anyone reading this that is not just meant to be an advertisement, even though it is in a way. I do earn a commission for my referral if you buy something of Davids. (As long as you go right to his newsletter after leaving here and within a short time, buy some of his material.) HINT HINT!

But below I’ve included of few of my journal pages I wrote during the time I was heavily into his advice.

Peter White Jounal Note Page 1

Attraction Notes

Attraction Notes 3

Attraction Notes 4

Luckily, since I am an affiliate of his, the company that runs his marketing allows me to use those same articles, and a few new ones, that originally got me started. I won’t include them here since they are duplicate content but they fit perfect at my resource site for dating and relationships. Attraction Transformation. Please read through them before you make any decision. I’m positive that if you are finally ready to make those changes I did, you will find his material more than just adequate to set you on the right path.

David DeAngelo Archives


How To Tell If She’s Interested

OK, I have a quick trick question for you. That’s right, I said a quick TRICK question. How can you tell if a woman is interested in you? Answer quickly. So what gives? Why am I asking you a trick question? Simple. Because I’m trying to make you…

How To Call A Woman To Ask Her Out

How To Call A Woman To Ask Her Out,. I have a question for you… When you get a woman’s number and you’re picking up the phone to call and “ask her out”, does it bother you? Do you get freaked out? Do you start thinking about exactly what you’re going to say, how you’re going to say

The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women
“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women— And What To Do About It…” Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

A Secret Women Know But Men Don’t

I’d like to tell you a story… It’s a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don’t be alarmed. Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman. At first, she was just another attractive woman… but the more he got to know her, the more he began to…

How To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her

Let me start off by telling you something interesting: I’ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I’ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).

Being ‘Too Nice’ To Women

Being ‘Too Nice’ To Women, Not Understanding Attraction,And Feeling That Frustration That Drives Us Guys Crazy… This time I’m going to “mix it up” a little… I get a lot of questions like the three that you’re about to read. A LOT of them. In fact, I get so many HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of them emailed to…

Meeting Women In Stores, Online, In Malls…

***QUESTION*** Hey D, I’ve been subscribing to the newsletters and just got your book. Super stuff dude. I’ve naturally been C&F to the girls I don’t really like but they stick to me. I’ve been a super wuss to the ones I like and it’s like trying to stick the same polar…

There’s a few more I’ll be posting soon but that’s it.

I hate to say he doubled my dating because it is such an overused phrase but I believe his material is so much more than just a dating how to series. It’s centers around strong morals in which he never advocates trickery or demeaning women in any way. He always suggests that the inner game is much more important. He also advocates that you should use his advice to create a new you, not a clone of him. Which I feel is very important.

Again thanks David for all your help.

You can visit his Newsletter subscription page here,

Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo©


Later guys,

Pete

 

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