David DeAngelo
It was a typical day in my nice guy life. I didn’t have to work so I went online hoping to find the woman of my dreams. This was a few years before I had my first real slap in the face on understanding women and my resentment towards them had just about dissipated from my last relationship. My mind was finally freeing itself up from the tangled mess of my last friend’s zone love of my life.
I was searching through Myspace profiles looking for hot girls to meet. I had minimal success through other online dating sites but MySpace looked like a great free alternative.
I could not have been more wrong and my nice guy attitude transcended itself into the digital world. Looking back at it I can now see how my profile screamed this to women:
“I’m a Nice Guy and I need to get laid!”
“I’m a great guy and women should like me for who I am.”
“If she does not like me for who I am, then she’s not good enough for me.”
“This is who I am, a good guy. I don’t have secrets and I don’t cheat.”
“I’m romantic and you will enjoy me in bed. I believe the woman comes first.”
“That’s a picture of me smiling. I took it just for this site. I hope you find me attractive.”
“I’m a musician, a golfer, a poet, and a deep passionate man.”
I sat in from of my computer browsing through profile after profile. I wasn’t searching for help. I was searching for a woman to love me. I was hoping if I could just tell them what a wonderful man I really was, and how I was always a good friend, I would finally meet an attractive women that would throw herself at me.
I even went so far as creating these magical experiences in my head of how it would happen. It was the same drawn out story each night while lying in bed:
- We would meet.
- We would laugh.
- She would kiss me.
- We would enjoy a great sexual evening.
- I would finally get the girl.
I can think back on my life and see the pattern so clearly. I see the tactics I used were no different than any other nice guy struggling to get a girlfriend. Sure, how I went about it varied as I matured through adulthood but the underlying theme was always the same. I just did not see it myself. I didn’t even realize what I was doing was no different from guys everywhere. I actually thought I was unique in my problems.
So there I was, reading through blogs diligently. Learning all about the girl so I could think of the perfect words to say to her when I stumbled upon another man, and no I didn’t realize I was gay, who found himself in the same situations I was in…
But he decided one day to get his dating life under control.
And unlike most men when they sit around their couch vowing to do something, he went out and did it.
He changed himself for the better. He was David DeAngelo. If you don’t know who he is, keep reading.
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I thought it was a blog of nice guy mistakes and I immediately connected with it, but it was really just an advertisement, enticing me into signing up for a free newsletter. But I thought, what the hell, it’s free. And I really did like the way David put things bluntly to me. Up until that day I had some notions about what women wanted but I never considered studying it, or for that matter, buying an ebook that would be shipped in plain brown packaging to hide my intentions. And to hide from my neighbors that I was a loser with women. Even though I was without a doubt, a loser with women.
The complete details of my dating life I kept it a secret.
So I thought.
I now know women could smell my lack of confidence and experience with them far away. As David would put it, I wreaked of needniess and was a complete wussy. Not a real man at all.
Suddenly I found myself drawn towards his newsletters. They were eye-opening experiences I will never forget.
David seemed highly ethical and his advice was never about, just getting laid.
After all I was a nice guy and I could never trick a woman or lie to get in her pants. I assumed that guys like him were teaching bullshit lies to wannabe players to get more pussy. But he wasn’t teaching that at all.
His dating advice was never “do this or else” and it never really centered around picking up women. He was teaching men how real men act and how my nice guy tactics were just as manipulative as the wannabe player. Except the player or jerk was getting laid. And I certainly wasn’t.
Honestly I think it only took about three weeks of subscribing to his newsletter before I needed to get his material and study it.
I wanted to change my dating life once and for all.
I had a birthday coming up so I decided things were going to change for me. It was about time I did what needed to be done, no matter what! I bought his ebook “Attraction Isn’t A Choice” and eagerly waited as it downloaded. I spent the whole Sunday reading it entirely. I was in love with it. I went to work the next day and began immediately putting his advice into practice.
Within two weeks of putting his advice into practice I had this sweet nineteen year old falling for me. And that was a feat I couldn’t do since I was in college. Ten years earlier.
Within four weeks I was flirting with check out girls and walking away not caring at all about whether she liked me or not. All I cared about was practicing the skills he was teaching me because they were working.
Over time I purchased his interview series which is where I learned about the experts you find on this site. I bought his DVD of his 77 laws. A friend I had met while I was going out practicing my gave me his copy of The Advanced Dating Techniques because he was about to marry a great woman. I ordered his Meeting Women Online program and then lastly bought his Approaching Women and Starting Conversations programs.
And yes, 
those were the ones that showed up quickly in my mailbox wrapped in plain brown paper. The money I spent cost me on the average about 20.00 a month. I always opted for his easy payment plan. I don’t know exactly how much it was altogether but if I had to guess it was no more 75 cents a day. 20.00 dollars a month or $240 in a year’s time. And that’s counting me buying a great book on body language, his interview subscription, and a few other books he had recommended that you can find at The DiaLteG ™ Store at Amazon.
It was worth every penny.
It literally changed my life.
Keep that in mind when you read through my blog posts because it was him that got me to get off my ass and my dating life under my control. I can not thank him enough.
- If you feel you are that nice guy I described above.
- If you’re tired of being turned down by women.
- If you just don’t seem to understand why women act the way they do.
- If you subscribe to the misconception women only date jerks.
- If you think you understand how attraction works but you’re not getting laid.
- If you believe you are a nice guy but you don’t want to become a pickup artist.
- If you feel you just want to find a woman to love you, for who you are.
Do yourself a huge favor by clicking here and signing up for his newsletter. If you take his advice and integrate into who you are, it can change your dating life forever.
David DeAngelo Newsletter Archives :
DATING TIPS MAILBAG: What Women Want In A Man
“I DON’T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU, BUT I DON’T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU WITHOUT HURTING YOUR LITTLE WUSSY BOY GIRLIE FEELINGS.” Any of the following:
“I need time alone right now.”
“I need to find me first.”
“Let’s just be friends for now.”
…etc. mean:
“I DON’T FEEL ATTRACTION.”
DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Approaching Women And Starting Conversations
Hi, Dave. I’ve recently separated after 13 years of marriage and was pretty nervous about the dating scene. I was immediately thinking of all the wussy stuff you’re “supposed” to.
Dating Advice: How Guys Screw Up First Dates
I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me for dating advice on how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date. I thought I’d devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understand if you’re wondering how to behave around a woman you’ve just met.
Dating Tips Q&A: How To Act When A Woman Likes You
I’m a recovering wuss. I took a few months off of women and worked on my inner game, with great results. I’ve started talking to new women again, along with old girlfriends. I find that when the c/f (Cocky & Funny) starts rolling, or even just my newfound confidence, I often get a lot of compliments. What’s the best way to deal with a girl coming out and saying “oh, you’re so cute/funny/etc…”? Should I ignore it and keep the c/f going? Should I address it in a cocky way? I’m assuming that graciously accepting the compliment is never the right answer…
Initial Conversations With Women, Not Being A Wussy, And Other Gems…
1) Buy your wife some new pants and yourself a new skirt, because it’s obvious that this is what she’s expecting.
2) Remove your high-heels, your apron, and your WUSSY ATTITUDE, and HE-BITCH-MAN-SLAP yourself IMMEDIATELY!
Man, WAKE UP.
Here are a few other good ideas for conversation:
1) History. Women love to hear stories about the history of places. If
you’re in an interesting part of town, tell her the story of how the
area came to be named, or why the city was built where it is. And if
the story involves a tale of love and/or scandal, all the better.
What Women HATE Most About Single Guys
If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN. And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date…Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general and wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are ANNOYING AS HELL.
Secrets Of Dating Younger Women
I recently read somewhere that when men get married for the SECOND time, they marry women an AVERAGE of 10 years younger. Something like 20% of men who marry for a second time wind up marrying a woman that is over 20 YEARS YOUNGER. I also recall reading somewhere that women are universally attracted to men who are older than them, and that the “average” relationship contains a man that is four years older than the woman.
How To Call A Woman To Ask Her Out
When you get a woman’s number and you’re picking up the phone to call and “ask her out”, does it bother you? Do you get freaked out? Do you start thinking about exactly what you’re going to say, how you’re going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you… etc.? Do you ever get NERVOUS when you’re dialing the phone? You know that feeling when you just start getting anxious for no logical reason, and you just CAN’T control it? Have you ever had to actually HANG UP because you were so damn freaked out… and you just couldn’t follow through with it?
How To Tell If She’s Interested
OK, I have a quick trick question for you. That’s right, I said a quick TRICK question. How can you tell if a woman is interested in you? Answer quickly. So what gives? Why am I asking you a trick question? Simple. Because I’m trying to make you…
The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women
“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women— And What To Do About It…” Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…
A Secret Women Know But Men Don’t
I’d like to tell you a story… It’s a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don’t be alarmed. Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman. At first, she was just another attractive woman… but the more he got to know her, the more he began to…
How To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her
Let me start off by telling you something interesting: I’ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I’ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).
Being ‘Too Nice’ To Women, Not Understanding Attraction,And Feeling That Frustration That Drives Us Guys Crazy… This time I’m going to “mix it up” a little… I get a lot of questions like the three that you’re about to read. A LOT of them. In fact, I get so many HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of them emailed to…
Meeting Women In Stores, Online, In Malls…
***QUESTION*** Hey D, I’ve been subscribing to the newsletters and just got your book. Super stuff dude. I’ve naturally been C&F to the girls I don’t really like but they stick to me. I’ve been a super wuss to the ones I like and it’s like trying to stick the same polar…
I hate to say he doubled my dating because it is such an overused phrase but I believe his material is so much more than just a dating how to series. It’s centers around strong morals in which he never advocates trickery or demeaning women in any way. He always suggests that the inner game is much more important. He also advocates that you should use his advice to create a new you by integrating his secrets of attraction and how to handle any woman’s tests. and not just make yourself into a clone of him. Which I feel is also very important.
Again…
Thanks David for all your help.
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