David Wygant
“By creating an amazing lifestyle and being passionate about the things you do, you will start attracting men instead of spending your life chasing them and hoping you’ll connect with them.”
David Wygant
In case you haven’t figured it out that by now…I’m a nice guy.
Years ago I thought this was holding me back from getting the girlfriend I wanted. I would project my nice guy ways on the world and hoped women would like for me it. And I was right. Women loved me, but only liked me as a friend. My dates were nice. The conversation was boring, and I always payed in more ways than just my money.
Bear with me a minute because I’m about to revel something to you I don’t like admitting…Women did like me and yes some, wanted me sexually even though I was small. I had long hair that forced me to carry a brush around with me, and my glasses covered half my face. But you know what, and this is the admitted part, I was considered to be a cool guy. I got along with everyone. Men and women both respected me, and I met some incredibly reliable friends just being myself. Like my mother taught me. She taught me respect. Demanded I always have great manners. Insisted that I just be myself and live my life.
This is not meant to be a page on what cool is or why I felt that way. And it’s not meant for me to describe my relationship with my mother. It’s about still being nice and “getting laid”, man or woman. It’s about experiencing more fun dates and having better relationships. Because I do believe it is possible and the first step for me was to finally realize…
Why being nice, was not the reason I never succeeded with the women I was most attracted to!
My greatest obstacle was fear. Too many times I walked away from a good thing for one of two reasons:
(Our false fears, as I call them, you know the ones which are in no way justified, are merely projections of a future event playing in our heads.)
1) I wanted better and I refused to settle.
2) I was scared to make a move. Fearful that I would fail sexually or not be a very good kisser.
“In fact, if you ask women what THEY want in bed – what turns them on the most, and what inspires them to want to turn guys on in unbelievable and amazing ways — you wouldn’t BELIEVE some of what they have to say (and after coaching women for more than eleven years, I have heard EVERYTHING from women about what really turns them on the most).”
David Wygant
I felt that way because I did not understand attraction and I typically thought it was something out of a romantic movie. I assumed women liked to be treated like shit by jerks, and the ones that did hook up with a great guy was because he had money, looks, or a higher status than me.
The only part of those excuses I was right on with, was the higher status.
As a nice guy, or even a nice woman, as soon as we give away our status to someone we are attracted to, we give up a good part of that attraction.
The status I am talking about is quoted at the start of this page and now includes,
If you walk around in life having fun, having casual conversations and enjoying every step of the journey – even if you’re just running an errand to the market – you are going to attract great people into your life.
People are attracted to people having a good time and who are enjoying their life. No one wants to hang out with a person who is pouting, folding their arms and looking miserable.
David Wygant
I just see the pointing, folding their arms, and looking miserable in a much broader sense. I feel it encapsulates everything from putting men and women you are attracted to above yourself, to his acting immature and blaming others.
Let’s recap a little…
- Living your life with passion, instills positive emotions in others, towards you.
- Often it is our fears which stop us from living passionately, and sharing that passion with others.
- Giving away our status to the people we are attracted towards actually causes them to not feel attracted towards us…
And why is that?
People who live amazing lifestyles and do things that they are passionate about, don’t give their status away. They project positive feelings towards others. Whether or not they attracted to them.
This is how I feel. This is what I firmly believe. It wasn’t my nice guy ways that held me back from creating attraction. It was a combination of things which always included me giving up something. It was my fears and my insecurities that held me back with women. It was because I did not fully understand how men and women experience attraction.
The reason I am telling you all this is because I wanted to relay to you a part of my beliefs and at the same time, let you understand that David and I share these beliefs.
Read my pages if this is your first one. I don’t rarely offer easy solutions or quick ways out. I offer suggestions to help you look inside yourself. I ask you to work hard on changing who you are to become more attractive.
Yet I can only give you so much. The pages that I have written are from me but a part of me has developed with the help of David Wygant. That is why he is listed here.
So I’m going to ask you this,
Is it worth it to you to do the work, and become the person you want to be?
I think it is. If you feel the same way you should go check out his material and I will let him take it from there. Subscribe to his newsletter or check out the articles below that you can relate to the best.
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Women’s Audio Mastery Series
The Art Of Attracting Men: The Inside Truth To The Way A Man’s Mind Works
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David Wygant Products For Men
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Girls Tell All
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20 Ways to Meet Hotter Women without Pickup Lines
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What’s Your Excuse?
Date To Win
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Men’s Mastery Audio Series
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Secrets of Online Dating
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I sincerely hope he guide in the right direction. I will let his pages speak for themselves. I am more than happy to be affiliated with him and all that he stands for.
And again if what I write is how you want to approach getting your dating life under control and become a more attractive man or woman, like I have, his products are for you.
Below are a few more links you should check out by him:
Thanks for stopping by and feel free to review or discuss anything on this page by leaving a comment below or writing to me personally,
Pete
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