Nice Guys escape the Friend's Zone.
Flirt Mastery
How important is flirting for a nice guy, when it comes to keeping himself out of the Friend’s Zone with just about any woman?
Flirting is a form a sexual communication. Without flirting, how is a woman supposed to feel much attraction for you?
Women experience attraction by emotions inside them in which they have no control over, and flirting can be a way to trigger those feelings. A man that attracts lots of girls, knows how to flirt. It’s that non-verbal sexual communication with his body, mixed in with playful and flirty conversations that separates the average nice guy stuck in the friend’s only world, from the cool guy that has his choices with women.
Imagine you lost your sight one day in a horrible accident. How would you know if you were attracted to a woman? Would it be how she felt when you ran your hands down her face? Perhaps it was the taste of her lips when she kissed yours? Yet each one of those would require you to already be sexually involved with her.
But there is one way that she can make you feel attracted to her without your sight, and that is through your ears. Many men get extremely turned on by a woman’s voice. I just had a great conversation with a woman I was involved with and we were talking about our current relationships. I told her to be careful not to scream my name during an orgasm because that may get him a little pissed off. She laughed and said she will try. She also mentioned that during sex with him the previous night, she did scream his name and it was the first time. She was amazed by how much it turned him on and how much better the sex was. He loved it and wanted to return the favor.
Without your sight do you think you would be attracted to a woman who had a manly or twangy voice? Probably not. Let’s assume that she did have a twangy voice though. Very high pitched and slightly annoying. The only way she might invoke attraction in you is by slowing down her words and lowering her voice just a little. She would speak to you with a sensual tone while casually alluding to sexual acts and this alone, would turn on just about any man. So when she can not use a man’s biggest weakness, his sight, she must learn to control her voice and her inflections.
Now put yourself in a woman’s perspective. She does not work by sight alone. Her attraction comes from a different place. Sure she will notice certain things about you physically that she may be attracted to, but rarely will it be the one thing that will cause her to feel a great attraction. It will come down to many traits and one of the most important traits would be, how you flirt with her.
Being a flirty man and doing it right, can invoke sexual feeling towards you regardless of what physical attributes you have. Flirting tells her you are a sexual man. It says to her you may just be more than a good friend. And as a nice guy you will need to know how to flirt effectively. That can take some research and practice but the time is worth it. Having a flirtatious attitude also says to a woman you would be a great lover because you can make her feel good with just verbal play. It is a form of sexual communication that woman get instantly. And you can’t fake flirting.
You can also use flirting to tease a woman. And if you know how to create anticipation by teasing her it drives them crazy. It builds emotions inside them and she will have to assume you will be the same in bed.
Let’s take a look at a typical man who struggles in his interactions with women. He’s a nice guy. Probably average in looks. Lives predominantly in the friend’s zone. He also doesn’t feel like he’s not cool enough to get beautiful women. What would an almost guaranteed method to increase his odds of having his choice with women?
A man that is confident, humorous, and knows how to sexually communicate through flirting and effective body language, is extremely close to the exact definition of the indifferent cool guy that women are magnetically drawn towards.
However each one of those traits listed above are very dependent on each other.
If you’re a funny man with no confidence you won’t attract many women at all.
If you’re a flirty man with little confidence in taking the steps in a relationship, you probably won’t get laid very much.
If you’re a confident man with decent body language but you’re not funny, you will only attract one type of woman.
If you have real confidence, and it can be seen through your body language, a good handle on using humor to attract, but you don’t know how to flirt properly,
…you are limiting your choices with women.
You will find it very difficult to approach women and you will be forced to wait around hoping they will come to you. But even when she approaches, where will the conversation go because….
Flirting plays an integral role in dating and attraction!
Take a look at a few articles below written by Steve Scott. He’s an expert in the field of flirting. Click on the thumbnails below and read through them.
I’m going to give you a preview of a program designed to help you with flirting. It’s called Flirt Mastery and you’re going to love it. Steve has also realized that flirting alone isn’t enough for attraction and having confidence without learning how to flirt, may not open enough opportunities…so he’s included it all. Click on the link below to download or view a large sample of what it contains.
Flirt Mastery How to Flirt and Create Hypnotic Conversations with Women
(sample preview is in a pdf file)
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So take that next step and get your flirting skills under control. If you are a funny confident man and your body language is sexually strong enough, but for some reason you are just not getting your share of dates, check out Flirt Mastery. It could be that piece of the puzzle you are missing.
If you are just taking the first steps on becoming an attractive man, get your flirting skills down early. Little by little flirting can turn a nice guy that has boring and average conversations, which she quickly forgets, to a nice guy that women will remember.
‘Flirt Mastery: How to Flirt and Create Hypnotic Conversations with Women’
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Related articles by Peter White
- Flirting While Using Sexual Communication Increases Attraction and Sparks Chemistry (dialteg.com)
- 4 Negative, 3 Positive, 2 links, and 1 Video on Body Language to Increase Attraction. (dialteg.com)
- Nine Questions A Nice Guy Should Ask Himself about the Friend’s Zone (dialteg.com)
- Nice Guys Guide on How to Attract Women (dialteg.com)
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Hey Kya,
I’d Love to get together some time but I don’t want to be pushy. You’re a pretty cute girl and I would love to get to know you but if you have a boyfriend, or girlfriend, haha, or just not interested, just let me know. Either way I still want to show you around.
If you get the feeling I’m not going to be nice you’re right. Because I see this kind of text and I hear the stories from women all the time. I sometimes wish I could just shake the guy and knock the desperation out of him. But I know I can not do that. I can only give advice, or advise. And after hearing this I feel it’s time for some brutal advice.
I’d love to get together sometime but I don’t want to be pushy.





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