Written by Steve Scott – Flirt Master.
Today I want to quickly cover a SIMPLE, but very effective technique that guys use to create attraction with the women you meet:
Whenever they do one of those polls asking what women want in a man, humor ALWAYS comes up in the top 3.
And if you looked carefully at any ‘attract and seduce’ course, you’ll find that most of the information covers laughter and how it builds attraction.
Whether it’s called cocky-funny, teasing, negging or sarcasm, HUMOR is critical to your success with women.
But many guys get it completely wrong when they try to be funny around women.
In order to get them laughing and attracted at the same time, you have to understand the principles. That’s why it’s important to follow these 4 RULES of humor:
RULE #1: Don’t be a Clown
Being funny NEVER means acting like a clown.
Acting this way will make you seem like you’re doing a “Try Hard”. This is when a guy is obviously trying to make a woman laugh.
This will lowers your social status and makes you seem like you’re desperately seeking her approval. Furthermore, when you do slap-stickey humor, women will be laughing…
But it’ll be AT you, not WITH you.
Sure, comedians can get women laughing, but they almost never get laid!
RULE #2: Tease Her
5th Graders can be pretty smart sometimes. At this age, if a boy likes a girl, he’ll pull her hair and call her names.
Now I don’t recommend pulling her hair (for now), but TEASING women is probably the best way to use humor. This doesn’t mean being a jerk. Instead it’s about treating her in a way that shows you’re NOT afraid to be yourself and tease her.
You can tease her by:
- Giving her a nickname
- Mocking her voice
- Playfully messing with the things she’s saying
Teasing a woman is a great way to assume familiarity. If you just met her, and you’re ALREADY teasing her, this can help you quickly break down that uncomfortable period where you’re getting to know one another.
RULE #3: Use Your Body Language
Look at the great comedians and you’ll see a common pattern…They all know how to use their entire body to tell a joke. They’ll make facial expressions, use props, gesture with their hands and use EVERYTHING they’ve got to make people laugh.
Again, you don’t want to be a clown around women. But remember your BODY LANGUAGE can add congruence to the things you’re saying. So as you’re teasing her, you want to establish physical contact in a way that’s showing that you’re a guy who is not afraid to play around with her.
This can include:
- Playfully swatting her
- Pushing her away, then pulling her back into a hug
- Doing games like ‘thumb war’, and ‘hand slapping’
The point here is to use your humor to break the touch barrier while making her laugh at the same time!
RULE #4: Do Other Things
Humor should be a spice that flavors a conversation. It shouldn’t be the main course.
When you’re ONLY teasing and making women laugh, you’re NOT showing the other parts of your personality. That’s why it’s important to do other things that’ll help you build and maintain attraction.
So while you’re making her laugh, you also want to:
- Establish physical contact
- Build deep rapport
- Tell stories
- Ask her questions
Doing all of these things will help you seem more well-rounded and interesting!
When it comes to creating attraction, humor can be your MOST effective tool when you’re talking to a woman.
So make sure you’re getting it right! By following these 4 rules, you’ll create that fun, flirty vibe that’s always helps you get the girl.
Steve Scott is a flirting expert and humor is a HUGE part of the flirting process.
Alpha Males are extremely good at using the right humor and Steve knows this. He has devised this free Ebook so you can cultivate the Alpha Male AND to develop a strong flirty personality your very own.
It’s free and located here at DiaLteG TM –> 33 Rules for Mastering Your Success with Women
Steve has also developed a product that can turn any man into a fun, right kind humor Flirting Master!
It’s called Flirt Mastery!
Flirt Mastery – Communicate Fun and Humor and Attraction First 90 Pages are free!(.pdf )
*IMPORTANT: Flirt Mastery does NOT appear to be available anymore. I know, it sucks because I absolutely love his free report. If you want to learn more about making women laugh AND feel attracted to you, I would suggest you start with this: The Tease to Please Approach – Challenging Women. It’s located here at DiaLteG TM.
More great advice like this can be found here at DiaLteG TM by going here: Steve Scott understand the Alpha Male has many choices in who he dates.