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What To Do After The First Time You Have Sex With Her

Don’t get too emotional and understand what happens with women after the first time you have sex.

Written by Nick Savoy of Love Systems – Meet and Attract Beautiful Women

After you sleep together the Right after you first sleep with her is a key time.

Solidify the connection if you can.

Stay over or invite her to stay over.

Have breakfast together.

Call her the next day.

Communicate to her by your actions (without saying it) that she’s not a one-night stand to you. That’s easy enough.

Now do all of that without being clingy.

There’s no formula here.

You’re just going to have to use your intuition.

Also remember that women can be very unpredictable right after sex, so she may display emotions that actually have nothing to do with you.

Don’t react to these.

Society (both the media and her peer group) bombards her with messages that her worth is tied up in her sex appeal but also makes women feel guilty or cheap for enjoying their sexuality.

If she’s got some odd emotions to deal with, the last thing she needs is some guy being needy.

She may well act very distant from you, but still like you a great deal.

Call the next day. Handling this call correctly is crucially important. It must not be awkward.

Don’t refer to having had sex with her.

Don’t call to “check in” with her.

Call because something funny happened that you want to tell her about.

Be the same natural, fun, and interesting person you were before you slept with her.

Don’t let any awkward silence develop, but don’t sound nervous or talk too much or too quickly.

If you’re worried about awkward silences, cue up enough topical things to talk about for at least an eight to ten minute conversation.

Don’t rush into making plans unless she seems very warm and comfortable to you on this call.

End the call first.

On one of your next calls, invite her to do something.

If she sees you again after you’ve slept together, you’re well on your way. Use each time you see each other to discuss mutual interests and upcoming events.

Further dates will follow naturally out of these conversations.

For example, say you are both talking about your love for classical music. You mention that you have tickets to the symphony for next Friday. Presto. You have another date.

At some point, she should give off some indications that she’s committing to you.

For example, she might reserve part of her weekend for you, or want to know what you’re doing on the weekend so she can make her plans.

She might suggest a weekend getaway.

Introducing you to her friends more than once is a very good sign.

Listen to how she introduces you, and make sure to invite her along when you are doing some activities with your friends, especially exciting high-status activities.

Remember, women lose social value if their friends perceive them as easy, so if she’s introducing you to them more than once, she is probably not introducing other men at the same time.

If she hasn’t given any of these signals, be patient.

Use the telephone to your advantage.

A couple of phone calls during the week, each ideally ten minutes or so, to tell her about something interesting that happened or to check in on something specific in her life (if she was sick before, to find out if she’s feeling better, if she just started a new job, to find out how that went) works wonders.

It shows that you care and that you listen. Most of the usual telephone rules still apply.

At some point, she will bring up the idea of you as her boyfriend or ask you if you’re seeing other women.

This is not a time for a jealousy plotline.

Just be genuine here.

Your goal is very close.

Be emotionally neutral – and not nervous – when you say this.

One way or another, this will resolve the issue.


All these tips and more are covered in Magic Bullets, often regarded as the bible of seduction.Magic Bullets – Meet, Attract, and Date the women You Want

Nick Savoy - Love Systems

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