Failing a Woman’s Test Can Leave The Nice Guy Alone

I had a brief but informative conversation with a good friend of mine last night. I began by asking her to do an interview with me for my page. I told her what the site was all about and because she is a very attractive woman and a bartender. She has tons of experience being approached by guys. Right away she connected with the subject and immediately answered yes with a recent story about  a guy that she met recently. They talked for a while and it went well.  He was  nice. Seemed like as good person. And by the end of the interaction he asked her for her number. She agreed. She then looked at me with that “however” face , the raised eyebrows and all. She tells me how he called the next day at ten in the morning. She didn’t answer of course, claiming he called too soon. She later listened to the message and it went something like this. I ‘m doing (whatever he as going to do) this afternoon but call me back if you’re interested in going to the movies tonight.”

Big Mistake in her eyes.

She never called back of course saying he called too quickly. After all… it was the next morning. She waited a week to call him back and had to leave a message because he never answered. Then guess what?  He waited another week to get back to her. Now she will never call him back or go out with him. He failed her first test apparently. Her conscious reason being, he called too quickly.

I then explained to her that it wasn’t that he called the next day. He made several mistakes and whether she believed it or not, her subconscious testing by just being a woman actually steered the upcoming denial a lot more than her conscious decision of  him calling too soon. A perplexed look on her face was bubbling up so I explained to her. It wasn’t he called quickly. She mentioned a few words that stuck in my mind about the first conversation and I instantly saw the mistakes he made. It’s a nice guy radar detection I managed to acquire some time ago which women posses rather naturally.

“He was nice. They conversation went well. He seemed like a good guy.”

Not really the way a woman describes someone she might be interested in sexually, even though he was a good-looking guy.

The next morning something inside him probably steered his nice brain into thinking I must call her , or she will end up with someone else. She’s hot. Somebody is  going to snatch up this girl quickly and I don’t want to waste anytime.  Her subconscious detected a deep feeling of need. He needs to go out with her. He played it out and attempted to put it back on her but by that time, it was too late.

I  explained to her what if he wasn’t “nice”. What if he was exciting to her and she was totally into his charming personality. He could have then called her the next day with,

“Great meeting you yesterday. I’m going to be busy for a while bit I wanted to make sure you weren’t lost without my great conversation skills so I’ll call you back soon. Maybe we’ll do something. ”

Her eyes widens a little as she chimes out,

“Yes!”

But then she begins to mention about a couple games that guys can play to make a woman, you know, want them more. So I stated firmly,

“Whoa! You see that ’s not what this site is about. My advice comes from a different angle. There’s no need for game playing because who you are, will take of the emotions she will feel for you. ”

On these pages you will hear me mention setting up your life to have certain things happen naturally because less mistakes are made this way. The man I mentioned above only made a few from the story. But it’s my bet he made a lot more. Probably eight out of ten of David De Angelos,

The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women, And What To Do About It…

He has a great ability to analyze and logically breakdown so many circumstances with women. After all I think he has  tried everything himself. The short article is also a great  tool to track your progress. If you feel you’ve failed with a particular woman, go through it, and find those mistakes you made, and learn from it.

Through the limited view of her story we only get to see a few of them first hand. We’ve already established if he made the first move without making some nice guy mistakes, and only calling back the next morning with a confident and funny style, she would’ve had more interesting in seeing him again. You’re going to hear me say, “I’m a little busy”, Because it works.

Sitting at home doing nothing, does not.

If you’re not that passionate at your job, find a passion, and dedicate some time to it. I will warn though if your passion revolves around airplane model building you may want to search a little deeper. Look for a passion that women will enjoy listening to you talk about.

I am passionate about this site and believe me, when done the right way, woman love to listen to me talk on these subjects. They sense my passion and drive for it. And passion is a huge part of a great sexual experience. There is no need to play a game, or lie about being busy, because you are.

You will fit her in on your time. After all she is someone you just met. Why would you give anyone, man or woman, you just met, your full dedication anyways?

Maybe she’s not right for you to begin with. So go out and meet someone else. You’ve got two potential dates and you have to plan ahead. Where to fit them in?

One last item here. Be careful to avoid confusion in your head about the subconscious and conscious tests women make. They are mostly tests and they do play an important role in keeping our species alive, they are not games. If you find a woman actually playing games with you, I’m going to suggest you stay far away from her. It usually not worth it.

Talk to you soon,

Pete

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