Failing a Woman’s Test Can Leave The Nice Guy Alone

I had a brief but informative conversation with a good friend of mine last night. It began by me asking her to do an interview for my page. I told her what the site was all about and how her being a very attractive bartender, guys will want to know what she has to say; since she has tons of experience being approached by guys.

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Right away she connected with the subject and immediately answered YES! She told me  a story about  a guy she met recently. They talked for a while and it went well.  He was  nice.  Seemed like as good person and eventually asked for her number. She agreed.

She then looked at me with that “however” face , the raised eyebrows and all. She tells me how he called her the next day at ten in the morning. She didn’t answer of course, claiming he called too soon. She later listened to the message and it went something like this,

“I ‘m doing (whatever he was going to do) this afternoon but call me back if you’re interested in going to the movies tonight.”

Big mistake in her eyes.

She never called back of course claiming he called too quickly. After all… it was the next morning.

She waited a week to call him back and had to leave a message because he never answered.

He waited another week to get back to her in which she never answered herself.

After that she said she will never call him back or even go out with him. He apparently failed her first test. Her conscious reason being, he called too quickly.

I then explained to her that it wasn’t that he called the next day. He made several mistakes and whether she believed it or not, her subconscious testing  brought on the upcoming denial.  A perplexed look on her face was bubbling up so I explained to her.

It wasn’t that he called quickly. She mentioned a few words that stuck in my mind about the first conversation and I instantly saw the mistakes he made. It’s a nice guy radar detection I have acquired which women posses naturally.

“He was nice. The conversation went well. He seemed like a good guy.”

Not really the way a woman describes someone she might be interested in sexually, even though he was a good-looking guy.

The next morning something inside him probably steered his nice brain into thinking,

“I must call her or she will end up with someone else. She’s hot. Somebody is  going to snatch up this girl quickly.  I don’t want to waste anytime.”

Her subconscious detected a deep feeling of need. He needs to go out with her. He played it out and attempted to put it back on her but by that time, it was too late.

I  explained to her what if he wasn’t “nice”. What if he was exciting to her and she was totally into his charming personality. He could have then called her the next day with,

“Great meeting you yesterday. I’m going to be busy for a while bit I wanted to make sure you weren’t lost without my great conversation skills. I’ll call you back soon. Maybe we’ll do something. ”

Her eyes widens a little as she chimes out,

“Yes!”

Then she begins to mention about a couple games that guys can play to make a woman, you know, want them more. So I stated firmly,

“Whoa! You see that ‘s not what this site is about. There’s no need for game playing . ”

On these pages you will hear me mention setting up your life to have certain things happen naturally because less mistakes are made this way. The man I mentioned above only made a few from the story. But it’s my bet he made a lot more. Probably eight out of ten of David De Angelos,

The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women, And What To Do About It…

He has a great ability to analyze and logically breakdown so many circumstances with women. After all, I think he has  tried everything himself. The article is also a great  tool to track your progress. If you feel you’ve failed with a particular woman, go through it, and find those mistakes you made, and learn from it.

The limited view of her story only allows us to see a few of them. Calling back the next morning without those mistakes and doing so with a confident and funny style, she would’ve had more interesting in seeing him again.

You’re going to hear me say,

“I’m a little busy”,

Because it works.

Sitting at home doing nothing, does not. You’re never sitting home doing nothing. You’re relaxing. You’re taking care of some household chores. But you are busy. Get where I’m coming from.

Okay. So if you’re not that passionate at your job, find a passion, and dedicate some time to it. However I will warn you if your passion revolves around model airplane building you may want to search a little deeper. Look for a passion that women will enjoy listening to you talk about.

I am passionate about this site and women love to listen to me talk about these subjects. They sense my passion and drive for it. Passion is a huge part of a great sexual experience.

There is no need to play a game, or lie about being busy, because you are.

You will fit her in on your time. After all, she is someone you just met. Why would you give anyone, man or woman, you just met, your full dedication anyways?

One last item here. Be careful to avoid confusion in your head about the subconscious and conscious tests women make. They are mostly tests and they do play an important role in attraction, they are not games. If you find a woman actually playing games with you, I’m going to suggest you stay far away from her. It usually not worth it.

Talk to you soon,

Pete

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