Do you Feel Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Women?

I’ll bet right now that if you clicked on this question you don’t feel like you are a gorgeous man. But guess what, it does not matter as much as you might think. I’m sure there are plenty of women out there that will base her relationship with you mainly on your looks, but they are in a rare minority and should not matter to you. There are plenty of good women that are not only nice, but attractive also. My girlfriend is the nicest person you could ever meet, and guess what guys, she’s beautiful and sexy too. They are out there and believe me, they are everywhere you look…

…because I believe women are genuinely nice people.

What if you’re average or below average looking?

There are certain things you can do about it. The common advice out there is:

• Get a decent haircut that fits your style.

• Keep your body hair, nose hair, ear hair and all nails including your feet trimmed at all times.

• I hear so often from women that a t-shirt and jeans is a great way to dress, but since it does not work for everyone, and in all circumstances, you may want to experiment with some different styles.

• You can’t control your height, but you can control your weight.

• Get some decent shoes and take care of them. Make sure they match with what you’re wearing.
• A woman will generally notice your eyes or face first. So learn to control any strange eye movements by watching yourself in the mirror. Learn to be comfortable looking into your eyes. Look for any strange ticks or nervous habits you might have and try get rid of them.
• Next a woman will notice your smile. This is very hard to practice but you can make sure you take care of your teeth. Whiten them. Maintain them. They play a very important role in how healthy you are and in turn how good of a potential mate you will be in her eyes.

• Details, details, details….women notice them so learn to yourself.

Body language, presence, composure, how you walk or talk I feel is much more important than your over all looks. How many times have you heard a women say, “He’s sexy!” about some guy you thought was  just average looking? What is it that separated him from the rest? It was his confidence,  his mannerisms, his facial expressions, his meticulous attention to the details in his life. These are little things that make any average looking guy into a very sexy man. These are also simple things that any men can learn to take care of. Any nice guy that wants to finish first with a woman should begin to take care of those small seemingly inconsequential items in their life because it can make a difference.

In the book How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed (Signet)
, written by Graham Masterton, he came up with a “Top Ten list of those assets women believe to be most important in men” (p.41 How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed) with regards to him being an outstanding lover. Which I believe is directly related to what she will search for in a particular mate. And guess what, your physical attributes are at the bottom of the list.

1. Attractive and interesting looking eyes.
2. A clean, good looking appearance (unwashed hair and scuffed shoes were two major no-nos
3. A warm and affectionate personality
4. Tenderness and Courtesy
5. The ability to be able to kiss excitedly
6. The ability to make arousing foreplay
7. A good looking rounded backside
8. Plenty of sexual stamina
9. Good afterplay technique
10. Muscles

(p.41 How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed by Graham Masterton)

If you are thinking to yourself right now, “But I want a woman to like me for who I am, not how I look!”  I am going to put it blatantly to you, because I’ve been there myself. It’s not how you look or how attractive you are. It is how you represent your best and worst qualities to her. The details she sees means more to her because it shows her that you can maintain your life and manage even the smallest details. Mix that with confidence and a charming personality and it screams to a woman, “I’m a  sexy fucking man!” So in essence by taking notice to those listed above and understanding how a woman’s sexual desires are not deeply dependent on how gorgeous you are, she is not liking you, for how you look. But more of how your looks represents what kind of man you are.

Are you a man that can eventually play the role of a good providing husband and father?

Are you a man that can perform the role of a good lover?

Whichever the case is you will be missing out on some incredible woman if you continue to think the anything different.

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