“I just don’t date shorter guys. They creep me out!”

Now what serious personality issues would a woman have to say that? If shorter men creep her out or make her uncomfortable then her insecurities might suggest she feels weak. Unable to defend herself from physical attacks. Yet the woman who said that is strong and fights back playfully. Or so it would seem. When I meet a woman like this I try to imagine what her persona is portraying and what her persona is trying to hide. Through this I am able to cold read her personality and break through those barriers she puts up. You see the fact the she does go out of her way to prove her physical strength tells me it’s strictly her persona and deep down she has fears of being physically attacked and needs to be protected.

Okay so big deal, I feel I figured her out within a short time. It was a cold read so to speak.

And How important is it to cold read, or figure a woman out quickly, for creating attraction?

You know the answer may not be the ultimate solution of attraction, there’s just so much more going on in humans. But a piece of attraction certainly lies within the rules of status. We are generally not attracted to those with lower status than us bearing in mind that it is a healthy attraction between two emotionally stable individuals., I found that if you can figure a woman out quickly and skillfully use this information to insure she sees you as having higher status, you can create an attraction that will overcome any insecurity she may have against dating you. In the worst case making sure you have at least equal status which is better than none at all.

Yes this is a tactic. This can be used badly. I’ll ask you to only use it to higher your status and be a stronger masculine man and not to use it to lower her status. There’s a difference. I’m going to reluctantly assume that since these pages are designed for nice guys, you have morals and will stick to them. For the rest of you, NEVER USE ANY DECEITFUL TACTIC TO LOWER ANOTHER WOMAN’S STATUS!

Never wrestle, play fight, be too physical with a woman who exhibits this kind of insecurity. You play right into her qualifying you. Remember in dating it’s much better to have her qualifying herself to you. When you play into her game she, in a way, is demanding you prove her strength of protection. She wants to know if you’re strong enough to protect her. The holes her insecurities are looking to be filled by you. And I can almost guarantee a long-lasting relationship built on that premise is either doomed to fail, or not be fulfilling enough. If you also do this and find yourself without a woman who thrives on creating drama, you are giving her the right to use you to feed this drama and constantly prove yourself, or prove you love her, by being overly protected of her.

You want to fight?

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This type of woman, “the extremely physical I only date taller guys” needs to be shown that your mental strength is strong enough to step back and let her take care of herself, regardless of the outcome. Quickly assessing a woman or figuring her out can easily separate you from other men. Because you won’t fall into the trap all the others have fallen into. When a woman wants you to act a certain way and uses tests to see if you will, and you do, you lose! It’s as simple as that. But when your notions about her are correct her tests become much more clearer. This is high level skill and will not come overnight but it’s benefits are worth the extra effort and spending the time to learn it.

So it is important. And it’s breakdown goes like this.

  • Break through her persona.
  • Quickly assess her tests.
  • Use this information to separate you from other men.
  • Maintain higher status by passing her tests.

Below I’ve included a slightly different perspective on cold reads.

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Cold reads are observations you can make about a woman that don’t necessarily require that you know anything about her. They can be incredibly useful and fun, both allowing you to learn about a woman and giving her information about you. Don’t get stuck asking “interview questions” when you can escalate emotionally and physically with a good cold read.

In this groundbreaking volume Love Systems veterans Savoy and The Don define cold reads…

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Now you know how important figuring a woman out quickly can be for attraction so get out there and practice! It’s well worth all your time and effort. Have a great day nice guys!

Pete

Have a great day guys. Any questions or comments, you know what to do.

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