Nice Guys escape the Friend's Zone.
Friend Zone Test
This friend’s zone survey or test is about me. It’s about you. It’s about discovering what it is that puts you in the friend’s zone…
And it’s also about how to escape it.
Table of Contents
Friend’s Zone Test
Test or Survey Results
Scores
Posts Explaining Questions
I have developed this from all my experiences and it is also based on what I have learned through the years about how to escape, or avoid it most of the time.
I sat around thinking and writing down all the reasons I was always in the nice guy friend’s zone. Then I came up with questions that could explain how that happened. At first I was a little skeptical about if it would work but after reading through it, I was pleasantly surprised and I feel you will be also.
You can take it anonymously but only as a survey. If you want to see your score you must sign a name at the end and include your email (which will not be shown). Please choose a name unique to you and if you like, use a nickname if you do not wish others to see who you really are. The results will posted several times a week so please bookmark the page to see your results or how you compared to others.
Have fun with it and remember to be as honest as you can with your answers.
One more thing, you do not need a detailed description if you carefully read the questions and how they relate to your friend’s zone status. I will give you an example:
Do you feel when you are attracted to someone, they are more attractive than you?
Many of these yes or no questions are designed in a way that if you choose yes, you are that closer to being in the friend’s zone. If you want to know about a person you are currently friend’s with just insert their name and it will look like this:
Do you feel. Lisa or John (your friend), is more attractive than you?
From this example it’s clear that if you feel Lisa or John is more attractive than you, you are putting them on a higher status than you. Which is bad for attraction. You should feel at least equal, if you’re a woman, or slightly above, as a man.
This is a feeling that reflects your self-esteem and is not meant to be used in an arrogant way.
Friend’s Zone Test
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Test or Survey Results
1) Do you feel when you are attracted to someone, they are more attractive than you?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 10 Votes(55%) | |
| No. | 8 Votes(44%) |
Total Votes: 18
2) Do you often find yourself trying to get others you to like you, by making sure you do nothing wrong to offend them with your words actions?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| No. | 9 Votes(50%) |
Total Votes: 18
3) Do you feel that love is beyond you? Meaning you become overwhelmed with thoughts of marriage, relationships, and what you would give to another romantically, because you find them so attractive?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| No. | 13 Votes(72%) |
Total Votes: 18
4) Have you ever made a move, or tried to kiss someone who refused it?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| No. | 15 Votes(83%) |
Total Votes: 18
5) Have you ever tried to kiss someone who you felt was more attractive than you?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 7 Votes(38%) | |
| No. | 11 Votes(61%) |
Total Votes: 18
6) Have you ever turned down someone about to kiss you, because you felt nothing physically towards them?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| No. | 12 Votes(66%) |
Total Votes: 18
7) How long does it take you to ask for a date, when you meet someone you are interested in?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Same day you meet. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| A week. | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| A month. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| A few months or more. | 10 Votes(55%) |
Total Votes: 18
Do you feel that becoming friends first, is a must for you to enter a relationship?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 12 Votes(66%) | |
| No. | 6 Votes(33%) |
Total Votes: 18
9) Do you feel that becoming friends first, is a must before you are willing to kiss someone?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| No. | 12 Votes(66%) |
Total Votes: 18
10) Are you a passionate person?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 17 Votes(94%) | |
| No. | 1 Votes(5%) |
Total Votes: 18
11) Do you take risks?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 14 Votes(77%) | |
| No. | 4 Votes(22%) |
Total Votes: 18
12) How big is your social circle?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| 1 to 2 people. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| 3 to 5 people. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| 6 to 10 people. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| More then 10. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
13) Do you travel often for pleasure?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| No. | 12 Votes(66%) |
Total Votes: 18
14) How often do you go out?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Never socially. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| Once a week. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| Couple times a week. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| Once a month. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| Very rarely. | 1 Votes(5%) |
Total Votes: 18
15) Where do you go out mostly?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Bars, clubs, or any place to meet others where alcohol is served. | 15 Votes(55%) | |
| Bookstores, libraries, coffee shops, or any place to meet others where alcohol is NOT served. | 8 Votes(29%) | |
| Meetings, clubs, or any place where membership may be required. | 1 Votes(3%) | |
| I do not go out. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| Not listed here. I want to add my own. | 3 Votes(11%) |
Total Votes: 27
16) Do you constantly worry about saying the wrong thing?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| No. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| Sometimes. | 8 Votes(44%) | |
| Only if I like to person I am talking to. | 2 Votes(11%) |
Total Votes: 18
17) Do you generally not like to stir things up?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 11 Votes(61%) | |
| No. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
18) Are you constantly afraid you will offend someone?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| No. | 13 Votes(72%) |
Total Votes: 18
19) Do you lead your social group, or just go with the flow?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| I lead. | 7 Votes(38%) | |
| I go with the flow or follow. | 11 Votes(61%) | |
| I do not have a social circle. | 0 Votes(0%) |
Total Votes: 18
20) Are you decisive?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 11 Votes(61%) | |
| No. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| I am not sure! | 5 Votes(27%) |
Total Votes: 18
21) Do you feel attractive?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| No. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| Sometimes. | 11 Votes(61%) |
Total Votes: 18
22) Do you dress, or purchase certain clothes because you feel you do not give a shit about what others think of you?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| No. | 9 Votes(50%) |
Total Votes: 18
23) How many times in your life have you changed your appearance?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Never. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| Once. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| Twice. | 4 Votes(22%) | |
| Three times or more. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
24) Do you workout or exercise regularly?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 8 Votes(44%) | |
| No. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| Do not have time, no. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| I try but can not stick to it. | 8 Votes(44%) |
Total Votes: 18
25) Are you optimistic or pessimistic?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Optimistic. | 7 Votes(38%) | |
| Pessimistic. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| A little of both. It depends on the situation. | 11 Votes(61%) |
Total Votes: 18
26) Do you ask your partner if she came, or if he enjoyed himself, after sex?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| No. | 12 Votes(66%) | |
| Sometimes. | 5 Votes(27%) |
Total Votes: 18
27) Do you feel you understand the opposite sex?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| No. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| Sometimes. | 8 Votes(44%) |
Total Votes: 18
28) Do you avoid verbal arguments, or upsetting someone you are attracted to, but are not sleeping with?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 12 Votes(66%) | |
| No. | 6 Votes(33%) |
Total Votes: 18
29) Are you constantly running scenarios in your head ending with bad results of what is about to happen?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| No. | 8 Votes(44%) | |
| Only when I am close to someone I am attracted to. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
30) Are you constantly running scenarios in your head of you being the victor over someone else, but then you never really act out on those desires?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 11 Votes(61%) | |
| No. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
31) What percentage of people, everywhere, do you think that would want to have sex with you?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| 0% | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| 10% | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| 25% | 8 Votes(44%) | |
| 50% | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| 75% | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| 100% | 0 Votes(0%) |
Total Votes: 18
32) What percentage of people, everywhere, do you feel would enter a relationship with you?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| 0% | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| 10% | 7 Votes(38%) | |
| 25% | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| 50% | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| 75% | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| 100% | 0 Votes(0%) |
Total Votes: 18
33) Do you feel that everyday that passes and you are still alone, it gets harder and harder to get out of your current position?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 15 Votes(83%) | |
| No. | 3 Votes(16%) |
Total Votes: 18
34) Are you drawn towards romantic comedies or sad songs?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| No. | 9 Votes(50%) |
Total Votes: 18
35) Do you find yourself often relating to sad songs at every particular time in your life, when you were attracted to someone but were just friends with?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| No. | 9 Votes(50%) |
Total Votes: 18
36) Do you feel that romance, or being romantic, can win another persons heart?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 11 Votes(61%) | |
| No. | 7 Votes(38%) |
Total Votes: 18
37) How sexy do you feel?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Not at all. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| A little. | 12 Votes(66%) | |
| A lot. | 5 Votes(27%) |
Total Votes: 18
38) Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| No. | 8 Votes(44%) | |
| I feel mostly bitter. | 1 Votes(5%) |
Total Votes: 18
39) Do you enjoy meeting new people?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 10 Votes(55%) | |
| No. | 0 Votes(0%) | |
| Sometimes. | 8 Votes(44%) |
Total Votes: 18
40) How many hobbies or projects do you always have going on?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| None. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| One. | 3 Votes(16%) | |
| Two. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| Three. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| Four or More. | 2 Votes(11%) |
Total Votes: 18
41) Do you feel there is not enough time or money in your life, to pursue an active dating life?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| I would agree. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| No. | 9 Votes(50%) | |
| Time, yes. Money, no. | 4 Votes(22%) | |
| Money, yes. Time, no. | 3 Votes(16%) |
Total Votes: 18
42) Are you nice to people you want, or are attracted to, but when they turn you down, develop negative feelings for?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 1 Votes(5%) | |
| No. | 14 Votes(82%) | |
| Most of the time. | 2 Votes(11%) |
Total Votes: 17
43) Are you easily upset?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 2 Votes(11%) | |
| No. | 7 Votes(38%) | |
| Depends on the situation. | 9 Votes(50%) |
Total Votes: 18
44) Would you say the world is better off now, than it was half your lifetime ago?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 5 Votes(27%) | |
| No. | 13 Votes(72%) |
Total Votes: 18
45) Can you explain, exactly, the human mating process from meeting to sex or commitment, or both sex and commitment?
| Answer | Votes | Vote Count/Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Yes. | 6 Votes(33%) | |
| No. | 4 Votes(22%) | |
| Not entirely. | 8 Votes(44%) |
Total Votes: 18
Scores
How do I calculate your score?
It’s simple. There are 45 questions and each is weighed accordingly up to 2.2. Getting the full value of each question will yield 99%. So what I’ve done is given one question, which only I know, the extra percentage point. I’ve chosen this question because I feel it has more importance than any other question. Questions that contain more than two responses are weighted accordingly on how you answer. One answer may give you a lower value, and one answer may not give you a point at all.
The lower the aggregate score, the more likely you are to be in the friend’s zone with the person you had in mind when taking the test, or the more likely you are to be constantly in the friend’s zone.
The higher the aggregate score, it’s a good bet you can get out of the friend’s zone with the person you had in mind when you took the test, or it is unlikely you find yourself constantly in the friend’s zone.
Now for an easy to read I just subtract from 100% your aggregate score and that’s give the percentage of how deep you are in it.
INDIVIDUAL SCORES
(remember the higher the score the less likely you are in the friend’s zone)
45.43% December 12, 2009 11:32 pm
56.55% December 27, 2009 2:06 am
35.65% January 19, 2010 2:35 am
Joe - 30.8% January 21, 2010 9:01 pm
58.75% January 23, 2010 10:45 pm
35.2% January 28, 2010 10:26 am
40.7% January 28, 2010 8:33 pm
43.45% January 31, 2010 8:43 pm
60.4% February 9, 2010 10:16 am
51.7% February 12, 2010 7:48 pm
70.85% February 12, 2010 9:28 pm
59.4% February 13, 2010 1:25 pm
30.7% February 21, 2010 1:18 pm
44.56% February 23, 2010 2:56 pm
NOT YET GRADED February 23, 2010 8:32 pm
NOT YET GRADED February 25, 2010 1:35 pm
NOT YET GRADED February 28, 2010 5:38 pm
NOT YET GRADED March 2, 2010 8:31 pm
Please be patient with the grading.
AVERAGE SCORE OF EVERYONE
47.43%
Posts Explaining Questions
8. Do you feel that becoming friends first is a must for you to enter a relationship?
27. Do you feel you understand the opposite sex?
34. Are you drawn towards romantic comedies or sad songs?
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