6 Tips to Getting a Woman’s Phone Number

Women give their number out quite often. I have even read about one girl giving it out ten times a day. (That’s a lot of unanswered calls) So it’s not hard to get a woman’s phone number, most of the time all you have to do is ask. The difficult part for most men is following this sequence of events:

1.) Getting the number.
2). Her answering it, and then
3.) Setting up a date.

I once sat myself down in a bar and made sure the area was well visited by many people. I remained there the entire evening and when a potential woman who interested me came by, I would simply say,

“Hey. What’s up? I’m Pete.”

Most of the time she would tell me her name and then I would ask for her number. Granted it wasn’t the most brilliant technique or at all creative, but it worked! The problem with this technique was getting her to answer the phone, and then if by a small chance she would answer, setting up a date.

This is where my plan failed miserably because I made no effort to gain rapport with her. 

My first goal was to get over the fear in my mind, that getting a woman’s phone number was impossible. I taught myself that all I really had to do, was ask, or tell. For a solid routine of getting her number read this classic letter by David DeAngelo,

How To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her. Practice it because it does work. Just remember, as he states also there is much more to it if you actually want to set up a real date and not a love affair with voice mail.

Here are my six tips that will increase your chances of not only getting her number but that she will answer too. I came up with them with the help of the experts listed here, my own experiences throughout my dating life, and from the responses of a survey I released not too long ago.

1.) Being sincere is usually not enough alone and in fact, it is not even required.

2.) Being different in a charming way which is nice is almost guaranteed a number and a response later.

3.) Being gorgeous won’t hurt your chances but learn to progress all the way through the process of:

Creating attraction, Hinting interest in her. Building comfort and rapport.

4.) You should be able to build a comfortable bond between you in a short time, so do it. Otherwise you will be wasting your valuable time. She may not feel comfortable answering her phone later or worse yet, she will hand you any number off the top of her head. And fake numbers suck!

5) Don’t ask. Tell her confidently to give it to you. Your tone of voice should hint that she will be missing out on something if she doesn’t. But never say that directly. Also remember your tone of voice should not be, “Oh please…can I have your number? …please….”. That wreaks of insecurity and even if she may be interested she might not feel comfortable answering it later.

6) Always remember, and your body language will reflect these feelings, that getting numbers is not a game. If you plan on getting her number. Call it! Even if you’re not up to setting up a date or a meeting. Talk to her for a couple of minutes and tell her it was great meeting her but you’re busy for a while. She will understand and who knows, when your schedule frees up over the next few weeks, you can then call her and there’s a good chance she will remember you.

Personally I don’t care much anymore about getting a woman’s number. Sure it’s a way to set up a ton of dates quickly, maybe even back to back, but my view are simply this,

If I create the right kind of attraction with a woman she will either ask me mine, give me hers willingly, or I walk away without it. I just don’t care. It’s not my initiative in most interactions. If I meet her online and we’ve talked a lot I’ll usually say,

“Hey, here’s my number call me. “, or

“You should hear my voice. You’ll love it. Call me.”

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And I do this without ever leaving her my number. Then wait for her to ask. I do this because I don’t like to predict outcomes of situations with women. It feels needy to me so I’ve built myself up to live quite indifferently to it all, and this is actually a very attractive thing to do.

The most important tip to take away from this post is..

When you approach a woman confidently and are charming, different (in a good way), and create attraction then comfort with her, she will gladly give you her number. And there’s a good bet she will answer it too. At my resource site (dialteg.org) I would suggest checking out these two categories Mens dating skills – The Approach, and, Men dating skills – The Pickup. It’s free and you will find some great advice related to this post.

If you’re looking for a few products related to getting her number please check out my  reviews and descriptions  listed below:

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• Telecom Game–Attract And Seduce Using Phone, Text And Voice Mail

http://www.dialteg.com/experts/products-quick-links/#phone-seduce-telecom

• Phone Sex Revealed

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• The Natural Art of the Pick Up

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• Or check out my pages Love Systems, or  What to Say When Approaching Women.

Later guys,

Pete

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