Making Your Own Luck With Women

by peter white on May 9, 2010

“Have you ever thought about how lucky, or unlucky you are with women?”

I was walking out of my favorite supermarket the other day, a place I frequent often. And because I’m there almost everyday I get stuck in the habit of taking the same door in, the same door out, and the relatively same path back to my car.

Well the other day I had to take a different path. There were people everywhere and instead of dodging the cars parked in the no-parking zone, I went straight across and then cut quickly to the left. My eyes and head turned to avoid any oncoming traffic and instead of seeing a ton of metal coming my way, I noticed this extremely hot blond with pink sweatpants and a white tank top. She looked incredible. A rare event showing for my supermarket to say the least. She was moving with the typical hot girl pace. You know the pace I’m sure. They tend to move a little quicker than most. Obviously to avoid the constant stares and to ultimately avoid making too much eye contact. After all it’s a time saver. One false move and suddenly every guy will attempt to slow her down.

And yes, I noticed all this from about 50 yards away. I noticed it particularly this time because she had walked the same path I normally would take. Except today, I decided to take a different route. And unless I felt like hopping over a few cars and pushing some old lady out the way to run up to this women and start a conversation, it just wasn’t going to happen. I wasn’t about to run up to her out of breath demanding a conversation. So I let the moment pass with a smile. Thinking to myself about being lucky.

Did my choice of having to take a different route cause me to miss a what if moment? Was it just plain bad luck?

Really now. Did I feel unlucky going to my car wondering how this kind of shit always happens to me?

Well I used to. That I know. I used to believe hooking up with women was primarily about being in the right place at the right time. And I always seemed to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I remember even meeting this incredible woman in college, and I was the typical horny college student, just wanting to get laid. We hung out all night and we even fooled around a little. Then like some magical force was out to get my sex life she explains how much of a slut she used to be. But recently decided to change her mind and has stuck to her new-found ways. Great! I thought. Just sex at that time would’ve been perfect but fooling around was all I got. How unlucky I thought! How unfair! If I had met her earlier that year I would’ve gotten laid for sure. After all she was highly attracted to me.

Do you feel this way often? Like there’s some getting laid fairy snickering at your misfortunes. Like you did something wrong growing up and now she has banned you from having sex, casual sex, or just finding a girlfriend.

Let me tell you a secret I figured out not too long ago about men and women and luck.

Sure there’s a little fortune involved. Sure there’s a little to say about being in the right place at the right time. And yes sir, being lucky doesn’t hurt your chances. That’s for sure.

But the secret I learned is how to make my own luck. And I know you can too. It’s no secret that Casino, Lotteries, Bazaars, and any gamblingvenue that controls the odds, makes money. Or else they wouldn’t be in business. You see I feel you can use that same tactic. I feel you can control the odds and in the end, the house, or you, will eventually come out ahead.

You may have heard me mention,

“Fuck the odds. Screw probability. I don’t want to go meet hundreds of women as quickly as possible in hopes an overused or failing tactic will work in the end.”

I say this because in my mind, I have no doubt, given a small window to display my own Venusian art, can seduce any women I desire. No luck involved in that at all.

Why is this?

Because women are not at all like playing Blackjack or spinning some roulette wheel. They are humans with emotions and inside their instinctual body lies this trigger. Pull the trigger or engage her attraction mechanism and she will respond favorably. Now don’t believe I’m saying I can get any women to have sex with me. That is different. Completely different and don’t let any quick seduction theory lead you to believe any other thing.

So how do us men control those odds and always keep them in our favor?

Simply put. Education.

Learning how to seduce or learning how to attract.
Learning how to tell an exciting story about nothing but for some reason leaves her wanting more.
Learning more about what women respond to.
Learning how to flirt sexually.
Learning how to please a women in bed like no other man before you has.
And most importantly, learning how to do it without being a manipulative bastard who treats women no better than some inanimate object.

Yes. That was the secret for me. Education and practice. If you’re reading this and have a willingness to learn then there is no doubt in my mind you too can succeed in this area. Whether you’re experiencing a lucky day, or you’ve just went through some bad luck, you’ll find a way to come out ahead.

If you’re feeling a little disappointed that my secret wasn’t just some quick fix to all your problems I can not apologize for that. Because it is a secret I shared with you I learned myself. I never went out looking for that quick lay, or that quick solution to all my woman problems, but at some point it did occur to me that,

“Shit. It’s work! “

For me it was a ton of work and I still work on certain things everyday. Yet I never really was willing to get out there and educate myself until I realized that by doing the work, I can get things done the way I wanted to. If I put in the time and the effort, eventually my “truths would become self-evident.”

The big switch finally came when I realized there were people out there who have done this kind of transformation. There were people out there who were willing to teach me. And let’s face it, teaching, books, audio, DVDs, are a business and there a some of us that want to make a living through it. We develop, what we perceive in our minds, to balance the sell-able with the means to teach as many people as possible. That way insure a profit. I don’t want to get off on a business tangent here. I just want to make the point that these people who inspired me and taught me, go through extensive work to guarantee what they are offering, does exactly what it says to the buyer, you.

And it is you who I intend to inspire, guide, and direct based on the reasons why you may have come my site…

You’re tired of not experiencing women the way a man was meant to. You’re tired of not dating who you want. You’re tired of being nice and getting stepped on for it. You feel that you just don’t understand women enough to have your choice of the highest quality ones. Your luck with women has been non-existent and when luck shows up, it’s usually in the form of terrible. You’re tired of being thrown in the friend’s zone. You’re tired of being the second, third, or no choice over the guys, all women seem to complain about.

I recently watched a program on “Fuck Dolls“. It was not a typical late night infomercial. It was an in-depth study into men who find themselves only relating to these dolls. They are so realistically looking that some men can not resist them. They actually marry them, place them around the house and pretend they are in a relationship. I was listening to one of the men explain why he does this. And the scary part was I could relate from my past the exact feelings behind his words, paraphrased of course,

“I just don’t know how to get a woman in bed. I want to learn but it’s like (no one wants to show me.) It’s like I was born to not procreate. “

You see, to me, that is where the bad luck came into play. No I didn’t go out and buy a Fuck Doll but I did go out and buy products to educate myself. But for so long it felt exactly like he described. I believed I was one of the unlucky men that was born live life alone. It was a curse. I was so deeply immersed in this curse I recall even thinking it was life long test to determine my strength. It was a life long test of making me stronger, as I am now, or weaker, like that poor gentlemen and his fuck dolls. His lack of knowledge, or education, on how to get women in bed became his excuse.

And it was just an excuse.

To go this deep into your limited beliefs I feel is usually sign of some other deep emotional misfiring. Unable to relate to those around you. He, I’m assuming since I am no doctor, needs professional help first. Then someone needs to walk up to him and put it blatantly,

“There are people who want to show you how. And no it isn’t the girl you’ve had your eye on. No woman who would sleep with you really wants to tell you how to get her in bed. It just isn’t going to happen. But there are people who are extremely good at doing it. And then there are people who are incredible good at teaching you. And then there are even people who know how to present it to you in a manner which you can learn the quickest and most efficient way. And yes, then there are people who know how to do each part extremely well. They do want to educate you and give you the tool necessary to practice your skills.”

And that is where this whole making your own luck comes into play. That is where those secrets are hiding from your view. The luck is there. It’s always there. You just have to make it your own. Literally you have to “own that shit”.

Think about something entirely different now. Think about nails. Yes nails. These nails are held firmly in place holding a wall to a two by four. Is it luck that nail got there? Did that nail just appear that out of thin air? Nope. Somebody put it there. Somebody gave a man or a woman a nail and said,

“Secure that wall using that nail.”

Suppose that someone was you and the person who demanded your task, was your instincts.

And now you’re standing there with this impossible task because your instinct has let you down. You feel abandoned and you were not given the right tool or even the skill, to get the job done.

Now imagine this. You felt, without a doubt that if you didn’t figure out this mystery you would not be allowed to leave. You would forever be stuck there pushing and perhaps getting bloody trying to jam this nail, assuming you even noticed one side was much thinner that the other side, to hold the wall into place.

How unlucky is that?

How much of a waste of time is it to just sit there staring at it.So, you look around and you see a rock and a hammer. You decide the rock would do just fine. It seems like it is heavy enough and it has a relatively flat area to smack the nail in. After all, no one has showed you how to use a hammer. It’s looks strange to you. You don’t even know which end to use. So you bash the nail with the rock and fuck!!!! There’s that luck again. You see the odds of hitting it perfect with a round tool not designed specifically for the job, are against you. It’s more than likely the nail will buckle and bend from your force. Sure it may go in a little but once it is deformed all your energy is going to be spent removing the nail, and then straightening it for a another blow.

Worse yet, you grow impatient and snap with frustration. You angrily swipe at the strange object that is obviously causing the bad luck. After all why would someone just leave something there and not show you how to use it. Someone was out to piss you off. It was a cruel joke, a terrible burden; you’re stuck holding the wall up with your hands and then trying to bash it to stay. Angrily tossing the rock at the one object in the room you don’t understand but probably not breaking it. Which just fuels your anger even more. Suddenly the hammer personifies your luck. Your instincts left you this tool without showing you how to use it. The world gives you luck but never shows you how you can use it. Thus it becomes unusable force or skill beyond your means.

Therefore you consider it bad luck.

Is all this talk about hammering and nails getting you turned on a little like me, Haha!

Did you know that since you were so preoccupied with holding up that wall your neck hasn’t been able to turn completely around?

Did you know that your instinct put it there without telling you because it had no choice? Your conscious mind grew after the blueprints were already in place.

Did you know if you let down that wall and freed up your full ability to turn, you would notice the stack of manuals which have been hidden by your own action of holding up the wall?

What if your arm got real tired and accidentally let the wall fall. Is it bad luck or good luck?

So get out there and make your own luck. Make your beliefs and goals “self-evident” as I struggled with, but eventually overcame. I know you’re intelligent enough to do it no matter how far you have to go. Whether it’s just right around the corner or a year or two ago, educate yourself how attraction works, how that knowledge can be you in right place, at almost any time.

Don’t bash the hammer with the rock out of your frustration. Let go of some of those walls you are holding up around you and see the big picture.

I’m not going to suggest to you tonight a list of programs and manuals to allow you to start making your own luck, just look around. Go to my quick links and review page and stop back there often as I continually update it. Look around and decide for yourself where you want to go. If you’re ready then I know you will choose the most appropriate manual.