If you do not know what type of man you are looking for, than none of this advice will change your results. How you act around certain men will either create or destroy the attraction he may feel for you. It goes like this:
A strong challenging man wants a challenging woman.
A timid or shy guy wants a girl to take charge and lead him. (Which I do not condone in any way at all)
An outgoing man wants a woman by his side, to enhance him. She is willing to get off the couch and have fun with him, socially. Or else he will eventually stray and find someone willing to experience the social life he prefers.
So what is it then, what type of man are you looking for?
A real man definition off the top of my head.
“Real men with attractive personalities and who have direction in their life are rare. He is responsible. He has goals. He does not put up with bullshit from anyone, anywhere, at any time. He does not have to be rich or absolutely gorgeous but there is something about his charm and the way he handles himself socially, that makes him in demand. He understands women and he understands how to turn on a woman; and how to make her feel special. He knows what sex is (really) all about and yet he knows the proper skills to refuse it when it is not appropriate. He will not just sleep with any woman whose legs happen to open for him.
He also understands romance, flirting, and knows when to use them. He is funny yet he is not a joke. He is mysterious and only reveals information about himself slowly. He allows women into his mind only when an absolute closeness grows between them.
The real man has true confidence, high self-esteem, and strong passion for what he believes. But he does not force his knowledge on others. They must extract it from his cunning personality because he does not feel his opinions are absolute. They are in fact, his opinions. He understands there are times he is wrong, But he also knows, when proven wrong, that his knowledge can grow with it.“
Now…Is that the man you are looking for? You may have to let me know if you want more information about how to get the guy you seek. I know woman very well but I am a man, and know myself better than anyone else in the world.
Onto the questions….
“How to get out of the friend zone with a guy?”
“How do i get out of the friend zone with a boy?”
“How do you get out of the friend zone with a man?”
“How to get your guy out of the friend zone?”
“My best friend is a guy im a girl and we are in the friends zone but i want more.”
Women stuck in the friend’s zone. How ironic. I built this site to help nice guys out of the friend’s zone and I’m finding more and more women that feel they are in it also.
A girlfriend of mine chuckled at women being stuck in the friend’s zone and her response was, “Hahaha! Just spread you legs!” I know, not really good advice for any woman with low self-esteem and little confidence with regards to men, but there is some truth behind her words.
I’m going to reveal to you 3 reasons why I would put a single woman in the friend’s zone.
- I am committed to someone
- I don’t feel attracted to her.
- I don’t feel she is strong enough for me.
I’m going to also reveal to you exactly my attraction process so take some notes. I am not a typical man but I can not change how my attraction works. It is hard-wired into my nature so you will find it consistent with most men. I want you to forget about everything you may have learned from magazines and media about, “Is he really into me?”. Men, believe it or not, will do those numbers below if they are into you. It’s that simple. There’s no secret to our attraction. However, and this is a big however, when we feel attraction towards a woman, we may not act on it fully. The reasons are usually beyond you as a woman.
“1) I notice something attractive about her. For me it’s usually a pretty face, gorgeous hair, and a great ass.
2) I catch her eye and notice a genuine smile. Which hints to me that she has a healthy personality and is not just some pain in the ass that hates the world around her.
3) I approach her confidently and test her before she can do the same for me. I do not want the woman to lead me around. I have been there and it does not work. I am the man I will lead her where I want the interaction to go. And then, when it presents itself, I will act.
4) My personality will naturally break down her persona. I don’t give a shit about what she wants people to see in her. I break through the barriers by putting her on the edge of her seat.
(Pay close attention to those last few because when you begin to notice a man doing those things to you it is because he IS interested and not because he wants to make you jump through loops)
5) Shortly after I feel the interaction is going very well and I found her personality highly developed I walk away. Yes. I walk away. I give her space.
6) I will eventually re-enter her proximity showing her that I am interested.
7) I will, once I feel I want the interaction to continue, ask for her number, or offer a meeting at another time.
I will reward her for being slightly bad (in a good way) and I will punish (in a good way) her for being good.
(yes…. number eight seems strange but trust me, if I go that far to have fun with you, I am into you…plain and simple. I will not go that far for just any woman.
“Playing indifference to a guy.”
Now, now, now. Game playing is wrong. But if you must play your indifferent card, be weary about what type of man you are playing it on. Some men that are not strong enough will assume you do not want him and disappear quickly. Also the plan could backfire on you because being extremely indifferent is a great challenge to a man and he may just begin to treat it strictly as a conquest. Imagine this scenario…
You make yourself into a woman who is extremely indifferent. You end up with this boyfriend after his lengthy pursuit and then suddenly, like it came out of nowhere, you notice a change in his personality. It is because the challenge is gone.
“When a guy avoids you. ” or “Why would a guy avoid you?”
The truth. There are several ways this can go. When a guy avoids you he is either playing hard to get, is actually a busy person and it only appears he is avoiding you, or he does not feel attracted towards you. Those are the three main reasons I would avoid a woman consistently.
If he is playing hard to get don’t give him the opportunity to do so.
If he is not attracted to you and avoids you constantly it is probably because you come on too strong. You appear too needy and most guys can’t stand a needy woman. They will call them high maintenance or a lot of work, but the reasons behind it are the same.
“What do you say when a guy asks how bad do you want me?”
I believe when it comes to women and men and how they interact sexually it is best for both to continue to tease and escalate the attraction.
I respond best when a woman answers this question in a very coy and sexual way. In the moment where I would smirk at her and ask her how bad she wants me she should reply with sentences like this:
“Depends, do you clean windows, I need a maid.”
“Oh yes, I want you SO badly you’re making my dick hard.” (remember to use a sarcastic tone, and yes, pretend you’re a man)
“Want is such a strong word. It’s more like I tolerate your rudeness.”
I think you get the picture. Don’t give in and keep escalating the fun and flirty banter. It works great with exceptional men and we love it. It’s challenging, exciting, intelligent, humorous and it proves to him you just might be a pretty cool chic. I can guarantee that,
…a cool chic is the most popular type of women most men seek out.
“Why can’ t I find a nice guy?”
There are several different reasons for not being able to find him. It could be you are looking in the wrong places. I’m going to bet though it’s not that you can’t find a nice guy, it’s you can’t find a nice guy that turns you on …
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“Like a guy friend after a while.”
Awww! How sweet! Chances are though the moment passed long ago when he saw you as a potential dating option. I don’t usually advocate a woman making a first move on a man but this might be the exception that proves the rule. Go for it. But be tactful or you will lose his friendship by making him uncomfortable. Whatever you do don’t try to prod him with questions in trying to reveal his interest. Men work best with direct approaches.
Most men do not read signals from women very well. I am the rare exception but I also study how men and women interact daily. Don’t expect him to. Your actions will mean much more to him.
I would want her to turn me on and let me see her in a more sexual role. In other words don’t just bring up sex in casual conversations but tell him a story about you masturbating or how you watched this movie the other night that really turned you on. Another way would be to call him over and whisper in his ear that you are feeling very horny tonight and you don’t know why. Then walk away quickly and let him watch. That would send my mind racing as I checked your ass out.
“Does a single man want to be friends with a woman he finds attractive?”
There are several types of men you will run into. One is the type that is perfectly fine being friends with attractive women. He enjoys being around beautiful women because in a way, he can relate to them. He just happens to find the conversations a little more intuitive and enjoyable and he probably isn’t into typical guy stuff.
The other is a guy that feels he can benefit from being friends with you. I teach men to have women in their lives as just friends which are very close to the type of women they would want to date.
Then there is the man who will have her around only when, she is single. Because he feels it can increase his chance of casual sex. I do not find anything wrong with that if he is upfront about it. But if he is not upfront I’m going to suggest he is not a very nice person at all. He hopes, in the back of his mind, or the insides of his pants, that something is going to happen sooner or later. So he will NOT be friends with an attractive woman who has a boyfriend.
“Communication when guys are flirting.”
Most guys don’t know how to flirt successfully but as I tell men, just because she is flirting doesn’t mean she wants you. Sometimes it is just plain fun. I enjoy doing it and men that are good at it also enjoy it.
“The guy avoid looking at me.”
The guy that is avoiding looking at you can mean several things. One being he is shy and not very confident. I feel that is the most common. The other is because he does not want to lead you on. I made the mistake many times when I started learning how to “pick up a woman” of making too much eye contact with women I was not interested in meeting But I was just practicing. The next thing I know she was standing next to me. Trying to start a conversation and I just was not interested. I put myself in positions in which I had to turn her down. I learned slowly to make the eye contact but to also have something else in my look that either says, “You’re cute. Come talk to me.” or “I’m a confident man but I’m just not interested at this moment.” As a woman you need to recognize the difference. I know you can. It just takes a little practice.
Now as for the shy guys you know again I will emphasize this…
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“Want a guy badly what do I do?”
I’m sorry, but I’m taken at the moment. 
I want to answer this but the question is too generalized. I feel I could not answer it successfully in this short post. I can tell you quickly that turning on a man, or making him feel attracted towards you enough for him to get off his ass and do something about it, is very similar to what I teach men. You would be better off reading some of Christian or Rori’s work. They have a well constructed plan or strategies for getting the man you seek.
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“What questions can you ask a guy about himself?”
“Can a guy think you’re beautiful but not want to date you?”
Of course . Believe it or not there are many real men that refuse to act solely on how physically attracted they are to a woman. There are men in which casual sex is really not that important. If he does not want to date but thinks you are beautiful, it can mean he has low self-esteem and is afraid of making some sort of move on you, or he feels there are too many flaws in your personality. Just remember that is just how he feels. Don’t take it personal. Keep working on yourself and you will notice a big change in how guys react to you.
“Why would a guy care if another guy was hitting on u?”
One word. Insecurity.
“Dating a really nice guy but no attraction.”
It’s unfortunate that you feel no attraction for this man. It’s also unfair to keep dating someone when you have no sexual feelings towards him. Maybe in time this will change but I highly doubt it. Send him to my pages and let him know gently that he needs to work on how to turn a woman on or the relationship will fail.
“He flirts and banters with all women.”
When you hook yourself up with a man who already does this, you can not expect him to just stop flirting. It is probably what drew you to him in the first place. It’s a big part of his personality to flirt. Whether or not he does it to make himself feel wanted I can not tell, because I do not know him personally. But I do know how you react is crucial to where your relationship will go.
If you get angry or jealous and it seems he is acting that way just to illicit that kind of response from you, you may just have to leave him. Do not allow another person to manipulate you it any way. Learn to rise above it. The men that create jealously with a purpose in mind are very insecure. He actually believes he is not good enough for you. He’s afraid you will eventually cheat on him. Having a little jealousy is perfectly natural but how one acts on the jealousy separates the real men from the wussies.
Weak and insecure men feel that eventually a woman will leave or cheat on them so he creates, consciously or unconsciously, the situation for it to happen. He must work through his self-proclaimed prophecy.
“Can a guy give you goosebumps flirt?”
Not my words. They are the exact phrase typed into google that brought her or him for that matter, to my site. And the answer is a definite yes. When I can give a woman goosebumps just by words alone it means I have found emotions deep inside her where her attraction lies. Does this phrase give you goosebumps?
I lean in for a soft wet kiss. You feel a small glancing of our lips as my hand runs up the side of your neck to your ears. I look deeply into your eyes and slowly shut them as you feel my warm breath close to you. You patiently await me but your mind begins to race with anxious thoughts. You can’t help but to wonder if this moment will last forever. Your body grows warmer and warmer with each passing second. The expectation of our first real kiss begins to feel like an eternity. “When it will happen? Kiss me already….PLEASE!” You scream inside to yourself…
“What are 10 questions I should ask a guy?”
“Just met someone and want to ask him questions about his self and life.”
“Questions to ask a guy.”
“Important things to ask a guy about himself.”
“What questions can you ask a guy about himself?”
If you are too concerned about to what to ask a guy you are heading in the wrong direction. Most men are not effective speakers.We don’t work that way. It is our actions that we want you to look at and not our words. Many women get so upset worrying about what to ask a man they fail to notice that his reactions are more important. Think of it this way.
You are in a relationship with a man who refuses to say that he loves you. GET OVER IT. Stop asking him if he likes or loves you and pay very close attention to what he does for you. Men are all about action. We act. Orally most men are terrible at describing how they feel because they do not have a clear definition of what love actually is. If you don’t believe me ask a woman friend of yours to describe what love is. Then find a man and ask him the same question.
You may find similar responses but I can guarantee you the man will stumble or fumble around his words. Not only does it make most men nervous when asked to described their emotions but they, because of the way their brains are wired, are not sure how to fully relate their feelings to words. Some are afraid revealing these secrets also makes them look weak. Some men will even get angry at having to answer this questions.
A man shows he has feelings for you when he treats you a certain way. Those are his actions.
I have chosen not to answer the questions below at this time.
“Questions to ask a guy that you might have feelings for.”
“What does it mean when a man is verbally sexually flirtatious but says he is just your friend?”
“Guy treats you like you re not a friend.”
“Sexy sensual flirty suggestions to turn on a man.”
“Questions to ask a guy that you might have feelings for.”
“How he can be attracted towards me.”
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