Another evening goes by as the “nice guy” trudges his ass home.
Alone, tired, and frustrated.
He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had HIS eyes on!
He talked to her but nothing came from it. He didn’t even get her number.
He failed to make her feel the oh-so-important thing called… attraction.
From this he concludes that she must only like jerks.
His thoughts center around why she would put up with HIS shit when HE would always be there for her.
HE could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would only give him a chance… but she or them, never do.
He goes home alone again feeling like a loser with women. Helpless, clueless, and even a little pissed off at ALL women.
He went out that night feeling good that this would be his lucky night. How finally he would meet that special women who actually does like nice guys.
He stood tall when he left but lost two inches and hunched over as he walked up the steps alone.
Staring at the floor where he hoped a woman would soon walk…
But the steps felt nothing but the weight of his own despair.
The steps heard nothing but his two feet and the echo rang through the hallway and through the ever silent walls.
No laughter from a woman.
No sweet conversations about what a good time she had.
No smacking of the lips in the dark night.
His imagination planned the entire evening like how he’d be rushing to get the keys in the door followed by a magical evening of sex.
The beautiful girl locked in his eyes as they begin to kiss….
Those sad events above may not be every nice guy’s typical night out but I know I have been there enough times myself.
I would go out with a false set of confidence tucked between my legs, the condom stuffed in my wallet, and hope.
Yes, all the hope gathered through every long day helped me leave the house but…
You know where hope gets you in the world….
Sometimes I HOPE my bills will disappear bit they never do until I get off my ass and pay them.
Sometimes I HOPE that hot girl will talk to me but she doesn’t, until I approach her and say something.
And sometimes I wonder and HOPE the future will turn out better than the past, but it doesn’t until I create the future I want for myself.
As Scot McKay claims in his Ebook Deserve What You Want:
“…END the game of “waiting for someone to come along” and or for the right woman to “fall into your lap”. Learn why this POISONOUS mindset is not only a TIME WASTER but DANGEROUS to your long-term HAPPINESS.”
Waiting for someone to come along and cure your happiness is no different than hoping and again, hope gets you… NOWHERE!
The cure to your loneliness is NOT going to be found unless you make a decision to go get what you deserve!
I know from years of experience and research women have a definite pattern to what they attracts them.
It’s not a secret kept from every nice guy and it’s not some stamped out copied version of what the experts will teach you.
It is what I personally have developed for myself related to my experiences in the lonely world of a nice guy and it is what I developed for myself after practicing what these experts have taught me.
It’s my own because I made it that way.
I believe that is what you have to do to cure or eliminate this pattern of hope and despair.
When you go through your very first Ebook or full out package of creating this new man who gets what he desires, you too must develop your own style which is very unique to you.
Your unique self will allow you stand out above every other stamped out version of men because women want to feel every man in their life, is a one of a kind and that he is hers and no other woman can have him.
In my two posts, Being Cool and Four Steps To Being Cool Starting with Confidence I outlined this theory:
Confidence –> Self Esteem –> Indifference –> Fearless = Being Cool.
It’s a road map to my success to cure my loneliness.
Nope, it did not happen overnight.
It’s not a quick fix.
It’s a long-term investment and when you learn to enjoy the process of discovering yourself through every step, your life WILL change.
Just like every road map the more detailed, the more clearer, the more intertwined each path meets with the others the easier it becomes to get where you’re going or get what you deserve.
As you work on your confidence connect it to your self esteem by understanding what triggers a woman attraction towards you.
As you work on being fearless join that path with indifference by learning how to talk to any woman, anytime… anywhere.
As you work towards being cool, calm, and unaffected to her subconscious tests that lonely “tired of being a loser nice guy” will be just a distant memory.
And I bet one day you’ll even be able to teach what you learned to a future son of yours what women are really all about and how you managed to meet that incredible woman he calls mom.
If you’re tired of being a loser with women, tired of considering yourself to be a loser let alone someone else saying it…
It’s a start in the right direction I’d say because now you know it’s time to start doing something, anything, different than before because I can assure you it’s possible to break this pattern once and for all.
Welcome to a nice guys approach to attraction…