Another evening goes by, The nice guy trudges his ass home, alone, tired, and frustrated. He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had his eyes on. He talked to her for a little while but nothing came from it. He failed to ask her for her number. He failed to make her eel attracted towards him. He thought she must only like jerks. His thoughts centered around why she would put up with this guy’s shit when he could be there for her. He could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would have only give him a chance, but she didn’t!
He goes home alone again. feeling like a loser with women, feeling helpless, and clueless. He went out again feeling strong that this would be the night. This would be the night he would meet that special women that actually liked nice guys. He stood tall when he left but lost two inches and hunched over as he walked up the steps alone. Staring at the floor where he hoped a woman would soon walk. But the steps felt nothing but the weight of his despair. The steps heard nothing but his two feet and the echo rang through the hallway due to the silence. No laughter from a woman. No sweet conversation about what a good time she had. No smacking of the lips as he had hoped.
His imagination before he left had the evening finishing just the way he planned. He imagined rushing to get the keys in the door and have that magical evening of sex with a woman that finally fell for a nice guy. The beautiful girl locked in his eyes as they begin to kiss….
The sad events above may not be every nice guy’s typical night out but I know I have been there before. I would go out with this false set of confidence tucked between my legs, the condom stuffed in my wallet, and hope. Yes, oh the hope. I had lots of it.
But you know where hope gets you in the world….
Sometimes I hope my bills will disappear. But they don’t until I get off my ass and pay them.
Sometimes I hope that hot girl will talk to me but she doesn’t, until I approach her and lead the conversation.
And sometimes I wonder and hope the future will turn out better than the past, but it doesn’t until I create the future I want for myself.
As Scot McKay claims in his wonderful program, Deserve What You Want,
“…END the game of “waiting for someone to come along” and or for the right woman to “fall into your lap”. Learn why this POISONOUS mindset is not only a TIME WASTER but DANGEROUS to your long-term HAPPINESS.”
Waiting for someone to come along and cure your happiness is no different than hoping and again, hope gets you…
The cure to your loneliness that seems to be in most nice guys lives is not going to be found unless you make the decision right now, this very minute, to get what you deserve!
I know from years of experience and research that women have a definite pattern what they are attracted towards and how to get them to respond to you.
It’s not a secret I hold close to myself that I want keep from every nice guy; and it’s not some stamped out copied version of what the experts will teach you. It is what I personally have developed for myself related to my experiences in the lonely world of a nice guy. And it is what I developed for myself after practicing what these experts have taught me.
But it’s my own because I made it that way.
And that is what you have to do to cure or eliminate this pattern of hope and despair.
When you go through your very first ebook or full out package of creating this new man that gets what he desires, you too will develop your own style unique to you. And it is that unique self that will make you stand out next to any jerk, or nice guy, because women want to feel that special man in their life is a one of a kind. And he is hers and no other woman can have him.
In my two posts,
I outline this,
Confidence, Self Esteem, Indifference, Fearless, Being Cool.
It’s a road map to my success to cure the loneliness I had to live with. It didn’t happen overnight. It’s not a quick fix. It’s a long term investment and when you learn to enjoy the process of discovering yourself through every step, your life will change. And just like every road map the more detailed, the more clearer, the more intertwined each path meets with another, the easier it becomes get where you’re going.
As you work on your confidence connect it to your self esteem by understanding what triggers a woman attraction towards you.
As your work on being fearless join that path with indifference by learning how to talk to any woman, anytime, any place.
And as you work towards being cool, calm, and unaffected to a woman’s subconscious tests that lonely tired of being a loser nice guy will be just a memory. And who knows, maybe someday you’ll be able to teach a future son of yours what women are all about and how you managed to meet that incredible woman he calls his mom.