Nice Guys Have Attractive Traits, but Staying Out of the Friend’s Zone Requires More

S o you’re a nice guy and you know you have attractive traits, but women still find a way to put you in the friend’s zone. What can you do about it? Is there a simple piece of advice or tip I can give you which will propel you in the right direction with women?

Yes there is! And you are in luck tonight I feel like sharing with you my 4 simple steps to enhance and add to those nice guy traits which are attractive, thus keeping you out of the friend’s zone.

(Let me make sure this point is clear. There may not be a quick fix for everyone. For some people, it can take months, for others, it may take several years of hard work to guarantee that most women you meet, will instantly see you as more than just a friend.)

But understand that great men, as great women, are rare.  If you approach from the perspective that you are now a commodity and not just background noise, you will enjoy much more rewarding and quicker results. Which leads us to…

4 Steps To Staying Out Of The Friend’s Zone as a Nice Guy.

Step One:

Acknowledge that you are rare just be visiting this page and reading my tips. Give yourself credit for being here, you deserve it. Step one is understanding by learning the skills, living your life passionately, and completing your attractive self you are a step ahead of any man who refuses to learn.

In a woman’s eyes you are more than just another dude out to get in her pants. And you can do this without being a manipulative person.

Step Two:

Women have always understood that I was a nice guy. I also believed my nice guys ways were what always put me in the friend’s zone. These days, I’m enjoying that I was wrong.

How far are you in the friend’s zone?

Step two is writing down which parts of your personality would be considered attractive, or sexually appealing, and which parts of you were friends zone material.  This is the list I wrote for myself years ago.

Step Three:

Think about all the traits women find attractive. Which ones are you missing?

Step three is about being honest with yourself and writing down those attraction areas where you are failing in. Here is the list I wrote in my journal years ago.

Step Four:

This is the hardest part but I know you can get it.

Let’s  quickly go over a few more items from my list as examples.

I put my feelings right out there. I offered no challenge to a woman sexually. I was an easy lay to any woman I found highly attractive. I can use step one to begin to overcome this and blend my skills of leadership, creativity, and humor into a commodity. Or A rare individual and unique man.

I noticed my body language was not consistent with who I was. I was a strong passionate leader who knew how to make people laugh, but my body language said, I’m a shy guy that needs to find a woman. So I acted out of fear I would lose a woman I just met and didn’t even know yet.

I also took time out of each day in my life to explore, practice, learn, and evaluate where I was from my fluid list.

• I learned to enhance my humor with a cocky attitude.
• I learned how to talk to women confidently with the sexual communication I derived from my passionate personality.
• I learned to apply my ability to notice details about myself and become more attractive consistently.
• I learned how to control my mannerisms, speech, and body language to present a challenge to any woman’s advances.

I was able to do all this through my intelligence and my willingness to improve upon my perfect self. I became more afraid of not learning something from a failure, than I was of fearing failure itself.

As a nice guy you do have attractive traits. Even me, when I was a complete loser with women had attractive traits. They just were not enough to stay out of the friend’s zone. Writing down my list enabled me to piece together what exactly I was missing. It also enabled me to see which traits I could enhance which I already possessed.

I feel having specific goals and using concretNine Questions A Nice Guy Should Ask Himself about the Friend's Zonee yet fluid steps to achieve them guarantees success in every aspect of your life. It is not restricted to your dating life and finding a girlfriend. Use my four steps and you will be well on your way to staying out of the friend’s zone, and yet still be a nice guy.

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