When a man decides to explore how attraction works and then blends the right skills to create a charming masculine man, he will attract. He effectively can become:
- The Nice Guy with high self-esteem and strong confidence.
- The Mature Masculine Man who knows how to flirt sexually with any woman he desires.
- The Cool Dude who knows how to handle a woman’s tests. And he does it with poise, control, humor, and an understanding of what really turns them.
- The rare sought out man who understands a woman’s attraction is never a conscious decision in which she can arbitrarily decide.
- He knows what to say when approaching a woman, regardless of the situation, because he enters all circumstance without fear of rejection. His confident self and magnetic body language drives his outer game to the point where it no controlled and becomes part of who he is.
Nice guys Finish First when women begin to notice every detail of his appearance and life are within his control. He meticulously refines who he is with persistence regardless of his style, occupation, or social following of the latest trends.
He understands how social dynamics and status are an integral part of what women find attractive …and not his looks or money.
Nice Guys Will Finish Last When…
- He does not have the skills, and/or the drive to acquire them or understand attraction.
- He makes no effort to change his situation.
- He applies the wrong effort countless times and then attempts to explain his failures with complaints which only waste his energy.
- He constantly blames a woman’s choices as his reason for finishing last. Otherwise known as part of his long list of Limited Beliefs
This man feels it is his destiny or curse of being nice, that causes him only develop friendship to those women in which he feels the most attracted to. He will also then settle with any girlfriend because he feels, it is all he can get.
He effectively turns that once feared hunter human animal, into an unfortunate prey to the results of his actions. That nice guy victim mentality he carries around with him only guarantees he will finish last.
Are You A Nice Guy Who Wants to Finish First With Women?
Attracting single, beautiful women is within your grasp as a man. Think about it. You are a man, right? Well then inside you, exists the ability or instinctive traits needed to attract single women or the human species would’ve went the way with the dinosaurs long ago…extinct.
And believe me SINGLE WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE!
They are in supermarkets, bars, clubs, coffee shops, libraries, your school, malls, they walk down the streets you walk, they live in houses like you, and apartment too. They struggle with life occasionally. Experience bad times, good times, great times, sadness and sometimes despair, just like you.
And guess what?
Most of them are waiting for that one nice guy just who understands them. And I don’t mean understanding in the same sense you are accustomed to. They want you to understand how to attract them and they want you to make them feel a spark which can ignites their passion.
And they want you to learn how.
They have literally told me! It’s true. Women come to DiaLteG™. And do you want to know how they find my site so easily?
Because they are constantly typing NICE, GUY, FRIEND, LIKE ME, into their hopeful search bar!
They have also told me they should not have to teach you how to attract them.
Is that fair? Probably not. But learning this for yourself is far more attractive anyways, and they know it. Maturing into a functional adult alpha man is your responsibility and not theirs.
A man who wants women to lead him by the hand is not attractive.
They are not your mothers.
They are strong emotional sexual people with minds all their own. And they have their problems too.
If you discover these skills and learn how to attract women, study them, and practice them continually you will find women are drawn towards you. They can’t resist. Find your inner strength and develop these skills today, and you will start attracting immediately.
I have learned to be that nice guy who can finish first with women and I was a complete failure for more years than anyone could imagine.
But I did not learn it over night. It took years of practice, effort, work, and yes, I suffered through rejection and loneliness at each step. Sure I enjoyed a few accidental successes along the way. But these accidents I found were only temporary moments of happiness which were soon replaced by depression and a sick feeling in my stomach.
I actually felt and believed I was not meant to enjoy some of the finer things in life.
I’m more than happy to admit I was wrong.
I’m also more than happy to show the world who I was, where I’ve gone, and where I plan to be in this next stage of my life.
(Take the time to read a little more about me here: Peter White)
I will show you just how I have learned to achieve so much in my what I now call my attractive sexy life, and I offer to you my opinions hoping you too, can gain the same successes in your life. Whether this success is getting a girlfriend, finding the mature man inside you, or living your own attractive sexy life, I feel you can benefit from reading many of my posts and pages dedicated to My Nice Guy Approach To Attraction.
The one fact I must make clear to you… I did not learn what I know through complete trial and error.
I found respectable people whose opinions and advice I felt were highly ethical, motivational, inspirational, and who have gone the journey themselves.
They may have taken a different path but they have learned to teach others what they know. I would not have come so far, so quickly, if I didn’t take the time to invest my time and money and integrate their knowledge into my everyday life.
You don’t have to do what too many men do…learn how to attract through trial and error and constant failure after failure. The men and women I mention on my pages have taught me to be successful with women and I know you’ll find one who can also teach you.
This is my Nice Guys Finish First page. You’ll find many pages here designed to teach you what it takes to attract women here. My main page, DiaLteG™ is designed to be a much broader teaching and growing experience for both men and women. I believe you’ll find it all and my blog beneficial no matter where you are in the dating scene.
Thanks for stopping by I do hope you learn a little by visiting my corner of the Nice Guy’s Finish First world,
Choose a topic below to learn more about a great way to become more attractive and still be one of the good guys:
- Confidence – Gain the confidence ALL women attracted to.
- Esteem – Build your esteem and manage your life.
- Body Language – Develop calm and sexy body language.
- Women Tests – Learn how to pass her feminine tests.
- Approach – Approach more women, meet more dates.
- Flirt – Flirt and tease her. Developing sexual chemistry.
- Strength – Gain the strength to endure and make better choices for yourself.
- Belief – Eliminate your limited belief structure. Free your mind.
- Cool – The ultimate calmness and become a man women WANT to know and be around.