Bangme

Let’s be honest here. Bangme.net is not a site where you are going to meet tons of local singles unless you live in a very large city.

Yet the site does have it’s upside. It’s free to sign up, free to send and receive messages, and it’s free to comment on photos and the profile. Unlike the so called more popular social sites there is no great overhead. The pages are simple and it’s quick to browse. It’s basically a site where you can get your picture rated or just talk to people.

(if you don’t care to read my plug of this site scroll down now to the tips section or click here and I will do it for you)

The premium membership is $5 a month and will allow you to see every picture posted by other members. Otherwise you’re limited to your viewing . It will allow you see who voted no on you or your profile, and the five dollars will also all you to see who voted for you, and view up to fifty comments on your main page compared to eight comments that are visible without the membership.

You will often hear me talk about practicing and using online social sites to practice flirting and interacting with women. This site is perfect for it. Sure you going to run into a lot of the same faces once you’ve been on it for a while but that also gives it a more personal touch. It’s more like a community and like most communities has it’s share of good people, and bad people too. You’ll run into both on this site. But mostly the men and women on the site are decent people looking to past their time and entertain each other. Often you will read how a certain woman is only there to cure the occasional boredom.

I have met some incredible women on the site myself online and in person. Some of which have become long term friends. I remember when I was first introduced to it by a woman I knew I was very skeptical. But after getting used to it and learning how to get women to respond to my emails and my photo comments began to really have a lot of fun. Too much in fact. I remember a couple nights even being late getting out of my house because I started a conversation five minutes before I was ready to leave.

And yes I failed on many interactions and even managed to burn a few bridges but it really didn’t matter too much to me. The good outweighed the bad consistently because of my unique approach on starting conversations. I’m not going to lie to you. My profile rarely gets visited and my voting goes up when I put up half naked pictures of me but unlike in life, my strong body language and my voice inflection don’t have much effect when written. And yes I’m a little past the average age on the site. It runs from about 18 to 29 years old. My optimistic attitude on life, my fun personality, and knowing how to flirt with my words have been a great asset to me.

Since it is a rather small community there are certain guidelines the owners have put in place along with the great benefit of allowing anyone to prove they are who they say they are. Visit the site for more detailed information on that. Now the internal policing of the site through it’s existing members offers a great way to almost guarantee you don’t get stuck in a porn bot conversation with a spammer. Sure you might fall for a few but if you’re careful about who you talk to and know what questions to ask them, you can usually figure it out on your own.

The Online Dating Tips Section

I can guarantee you though if you are constantly stuck in the friend’s zone in your everyday life, you are most likely going to be stuck there also. But there are ways to improve your chances and Bangme is just one opportunity to start some wonderful flirty conversations from your home without the hassle of being shot down in public.I will list some pointers on how to get the most beautiful women on the site to talk to you, and possibly feel slightly attracted to you.

First of all don’t spend days and days writing your profile but make sure it makes a statement about who you are and do it in a way that tells a story. Do not just blatantly list what you think makes you a great man or all that special. It’s boring and women will usually glaze over it anyways.
Secondly read my pages on online dating. These two have been typically popular:

Make Online Social Sites Worth Your Time And Money

Online Dating and the Nice Guy

Experiment with your approach.

Don’t be afraid to experiment with your approaches just make sure you are coming from a place where you’re not being a sleeze. Women on that site get that shit all the time and they don’t need to hear from you too.

Think about who the person is before you comment on her picture or profile.

When you are commenting on a picture or profile try and think about who you are commenting on. Highly attractive women will rarely respond with interest if you compliment them. Average looking women will respond with interest with those same compliments. Just make sure they are genuine if your are going to do it at all. Personally I don’t like to compliment any of them. It’s a waste of my time and it makes me uncomfortable to compliment someone I don’t even know. It feels fake and most likely it is. Think about how many hot girls you are going to see on that site. Do you honestly feel like you can come up with an original compliment to each and every one. I highly doubt it and they will sense you’re being an ass about it.

Be creative and don’t try to be original.

Be creative. It is a must for you to separate yourself from the rest. If you don’t think of anything creative, remember I didn’t say original, there is a difference. Creative implies a hint of unpredictability mixed with spontaneity. Original implies you’re are trying too hard and will end up most likely sounding like everyone else.

Own your words and say them confidently.

Don’t message a woman telling her you couldn’t think of anything that could possibly be good enough to match her beauty or anything along those lines. Live by your words. Say it and be confident about it, then let it go. If she gets back to you. That’s great. If she don’t, who cares. Maybe you can run a follow message up to her later or click next. One little note about the follow up message it’s important that it stay in line with your message and doesn’t get rude or annoying. Don’t complain to her for her not answering. Assume. She did not get back to you because your mail got lost or she hasn’t had the time yet.

Speak through your own words.

Write full complete sentences if she does. But don’t talk like her if you actually don’t in the “outter” world. In other words I don’t talk with much slang and it comes across in my writing. But I do swear like a pig occasionally and again this shows in my writing. I’m imagining having a real conversation with someone and then I try to write it down. If she uses a lot of text speaking or funny faces I won’t, because it is not me.

The comments you leave should be similar to text flirting.

Treat the profile and photo comments as if you were text flirting with a woman. Create unique circumstances and assume she wants you in a funny way, and keep it short. The shorter the better.

Read this short article by Steve Scott and Flirt Mastery for a few tips on text flirting.

How to Text Flirt

Don’t rush it.

Don’t rush responding back if she answers you email. Take your time. Especially if you don’t remember what you said to her. I often had to click back on their profile to see why I said why I did at that time. Works better that way to create better connections.

If you have the money invest in a quality program

If you have the money. Invest in some step by step detailed instructions on the ‘how to of’ online dating. I did and it was worth every penny. I learned things it would’ve taken me years to figure out by trial and error. Assuming that I would have figured it out on my own anyways. If you don’t have the money keep checking back here and I’ll will give you some tips every now and then. Better yet leave a comment and I will do my best to respond to any question. Keep in mind though if you do write me and want to keep it private. Just let me know and I will.

David DeAngelo offers a great program. I went through the CD version myself and preferred to take the easy payment plan. It seems like a lot but I spread it out over several months and paid it off well before I stopped using it. A great binder to hold everything and 10 CD’s full of great quality information. You can tell he put a lot of effort in presenting it an easy to read format. Just click to his site and look for “Meeting Women Online”

David Wygant’s Learn How To Online Date . I wish I could tell you I’ve gone through it, I haven’t. I like David’s mindset on dating and attraction and have studied from his material and I don’t see why any product of his is not worth the money.
Scot McKay’s 80-page e-book on how to meet women on Twitter.
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