How To Approach Woman
“It Just Doesn’t Matter – If you’re not interesting to other people embrace that “meatball” inside you and learn to love being different in your own interesting way.
I’m not talking about “being yourself” and screw them if they don’t like you. That’s different.
I’m saying stop thinking other’s have an advantage over you because of who they are or what they were born into. I’m saying create an identity that is all your own and embraces your strengths. Stop comparing other people strength against what you feel are your weaknesses. Compare yourself and your success to no one but you.”
I firmly believe any guy with the right attitude, mindset, and the desire to learn can approach women anytime and anywhere he desires.
You do not need a secret pickup line. You do not need to hypnotize her.
Trust me. The more you think about the problem of approaching women the more you will literally drive yourself crazy trying to come up with ideas and tactics you’ll probably never use anyways.
If approaching women scares the shit out of you, take the time to read through my many posts on the approach and you’ll soon gain the extra confidence you need to get yourself off the computer.
Now go out and practice your personal approach. It’s going to be different from mine but that’s a good thing.
Women want to be approached. They don’t want to approach you. They want a man who leads himself confidently and who is willing to risk rejection to get to know someone like her. And that can be you!
Read through my many posts on approaching women and starting conversations and you’ll soon believe in yourself and so will any woman too.
With that said you’re half way there to finally meet some incredible women…
Advice for a Reader – Is Your Approaching Women Technique Different?
Are you ready to really break down the approach from a real experience a good guy has gone through who wants to succeed so bad, he’s willing to put it all on the line?
This Four-Part series of for any guy who can not get enough advice on approaching women and the many aspects which are essential in starting the conversation, how to create attraction, how to tease her, knowing what to say and what to avoid, how congruence is important, and the nice guy dilemma we all face when learning how to meet women. I even get into what you should be doing to approach women without looking like some pain in the newbie pickup artist who fails most of the time anyways.
PART 2 - Avoid Being Seen As Creepy When You’re Approaching Women – Advice For A Reader Part 2
PART 3 - Approaching Women – Part 3 – Congruent, Conversations, and a Nice Guy Dilemma
PART 4 – Approaching Women – Part 4 – Developing Confidence in Conversations
Batter Up – Getting to the Real First Base When Meeting Women
Did you know when you first approach a woman who has been hit on a million times in her life she will almost instinctively give you YOUR reason to disqualify yourself. That is what this post is about. If it feels like every failed approach you suffer from is reinforcing your negative beliefs about yourself then you must read this post.
Get her to qualify herself to you to avoid her giving you the excuse you unknowingly expect to hear. Getting to first base is not what you think it is and you’ll read how meeting women is.
Approaching Girls In A Mall – Tips On Two Videos with Real Approaches
Is there anything more frustrating than putting yourself out there and approaching women in an open public place such as the mall? Most guys I have taught fear this approach the most. It’s where the spotlight seems to be shining on you and everyone is going to see you succeed or fail. This post breaks down two short video approaches with lots of tips and advice on why they failed, and how to learn from those mistakes.
Learn how to approach girls in a mall, what to say, what not to say, how to lead into another meeting, and what you should do in a couple of real situations.
How Getting A Girl’s Number and Farming Are Like Each Other
This slightly unusual and mildly humorous post is for you when you’re having trouble sealing with deal with the women you are approaching. One goal of meeting her is to allow her to see you again and that is partly what this post is about. This is where you read a few flirting examples, how to lead her to exchange phone numbers, and the conditions you must create which will almost guarantee you will walk away with her number.
If your first goal of the approach is to get her number you will understand how when you’re done reading this one. (Plus a cool video is tagged on the bottom of the post.)
How to Meet 7 of 10 Women Who do NOT Want to be Approached
My most recent post is about teaching and learning. Because it’s true I’m learning at the same time teaching you and together we will find a way to succeed.
This post breaks down ten different reasons why a woman would not want to be approached and I suggest how to overcome these challenging women because I believe some of them are worth the extra effort. Read on as I tell you what you must do in order to break through a tough persona.
And as always approaching women requires:
