English model Jasmine Sinclair.
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Aright guys. It’s time to role play. No I’m not talking about acting or pretending as you did when you were child. I’m talking about putting yourself in the mind of a woman. Role playing can help you see the truth when it is right in front of you, yet because of  our mind’s blind spots, we fail to see them. I have come up with nine relatively simple questions. Take the time to go through each and every one of them. Pretend you are a woman and write down your answers. Once you get started it’s  really not that hard at all and can make a huge difference with your relationships with women.  Go ahead and laugh at yourself if you hear the words in your mind speaking in a woman’s tone of voice. It just means you are on the right track.

If you struggle with this exercise let me know or comment on one question and we can discuss it. The point of this exercise is to figure out if you do know the answers first of all and secondly, it will give you an idea on what areas your relationship with women, are failing. I’m going to supply the answers that pop in my head and write a little about each of them.

Any woman reading this you should comment on at least one of them. It will only take a minute or two. I’m sure plenty of good men out there would benefit from seeing your answer.

1.)What is the one thing a nice guy does, that instantly puts him in the friend’s zone with you?

Shows a lack of confidence in how he presents himself.

A woman can even sense it from across a room. Since so much of what you say will be read through your body language it is important to make sure you are not telegraphing insecurity before you even meet a woman.


2.)Can a man that you feel no attraction for, ever change your mind and begin to see him in a more sexual role?

There is always a small possibility of something happening.

This is not a tough one if she does not find you physically attractive but since your personality will matter more in the end it’s always possible to have her see you in a more sexual role. If she is not attracted to your personality there is a good chance she never will be unless you two a few things first.

1) Stop seeing her immediately.

2) Go directly to learning the skills of attraction and applying them in your everyday life.

3) Introduce your new self again.


3.)Have you ever entered a relationship or became romantically involved with a close friend?

No.

Women don’t like to give up friendships for sex. If you are on these pages to learn about women you probably already knew that. But a good point to remember is that just like the feelings you get when you see a woman you are attracted to are beyond your control, the same goes for her. There is also the case, although more rare,  in which the timing of your meeting did not coincide with one of you being ready, or able to start a relationship. For example you meet this woman and you both hit it off with some sexual tension, but you are getting over a tough breakup.


4.)In the least amount of words, what is the most important thing a nice guy can do to increase his chances of staying out of  the friend’s zone?

Be confident and show a lack of insecurities.

Two traits of a sexually attractive man. He’s confident and his life does not revolve around what others think of him. Let’s assume for a minute that you’re a nice guy. You’re into sports and typical guy stuff. You also feel that you haven’t a clue about fashion and you don’t care to learn about it. So your style is, shall we say, a little outdated or plain.  I won’t guarantee anything but if you learn how to be more confident and rid yourself of jealousy and insecurities you will find women checking you out more and more. They can’t resist. When you are confident you become in demand. When you are secure in who you are you easily pass an average woman’s test. If you are in demand, pass her tests and have  more woman become attracted to you to will be seen as a more of a challenge as a side effect. It’s obvious a woman will find herself more attracted to a man surrounded by women trying to get his attention.


5.)Do you think it is difficult for beautiful woman to find an exceptional man who completely understands himself and the social world around him?

Yes.

Real men are rare. Nice women are not. Broken down to the law of supply and demand…become a real man and you become part of a limited supply with high demand. Your price goes up and you, and only you dictate the pricing. You become the selector and she becomes YOUR choice.


6.)Which is more rare, a hot woman, or a great man?

A great man.

Let’s face it guys, women are beautiful and each one of us has our own views and experiences our own attraction in a unique way. What I find attractive you might not. Great men are not born, men become great through who they are and how they affect the people around them.



7.)Have you ever felt strong attraction to a man who wasn’t physically appealing, or in other words, was just average looking but maintained himself meticulously?

Yes.

Where as a woman does have feelings of physical attraction. She also has her own unique views of attraction. An average looking guy that understands that a woman is more interested in how you make them feel and learns to be the man that gives her strong emotions will be seen as attractive. Her feelings will overcome your “physically average” traits and see you as a strong sexual man.



I would say the best cold approach a man can do to get a woman’s woman phone number should start like this,
A) Make good eye contact and let her look away first.
B) Give her just a hint of a smile.
C) Approach confidently.
D) Engage in a conversion that is charming, sexually humorous, slightly cocky, and different from the usual.

8.)Would you Agree?

Definitely.

There may be so much more when a man is approaching different women,. but using that blueprint above can lead to great success. Which part of it do you seem to lack in? If it’s the eye contact go out and practice. Just keep in mind to be subtle and not creepy. No wide eyed stares. Just look at her softly and your hint of a smile should relax her. She may even begin to smile back. Work on that confidence and learn to communicate sexually. Some of the men listed on the right as helping nice guys get out of the friends can teach you all you want to know about woman and attraction. Each has their own style and perspective but they all do really want you to succeed. Most of them, like I, have been the nice guy stuck in the friend’s zone and was able to learn to be a man that finishes first with women.


9.)Have you found it difficult in your life to find a man that is nice, you find attractive, and knows what women want?

Yes.

Again. The rare man . Nice, attractive, and knows what women want. .. and understands how to get things done in his life. He understands so much about himself and where he is at most give moments that he can offer that much more to a relationship. Don’t set yourself up thinking there is an end to being the perfect man. Always try and reach a new level of manhood and never settle for anything less.


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