How My Short Internet Story Can Change Your Dating Life Online – Plus A Lesson in Flirting

by peter white on November 18, 2011

in My Attractive Sexy Life, Online

I’ve taught you exactly what I know so you can succeed dating online. I’ve also shown you how to avoid common mistakes too many men make on the internet.

(You can click here on my last post for a review of all my online advice with quick links)

With a little pleading on her part and my reassurance she wanted to hear my voice, because it was extremely sexy, I threw her my number - one - digit - at - a - time. Oh yes I was having lots of fun with her.

I’ve tried to teach you more than just the basics and my goal was to give it to you in an easy to read format.

For this lesson I want to tell you a story which will open your eyes and prove to you
my advice does work.

Yes in part because I worked on myself outside the internet but also because I’ve watched so many guys fail and so little of them succeed.

And I was one of those losers who believed I could use techniques and in a way a “broad pen” to every woman I wrote. Otherwise known as tactics and simple tricks to get women to respond without looking like some creep.

(I’ve just finished a review page of those ‘tricks‘ and although I don’t fully support what I’ve read so far, I’ll let you make the call. It’s located at Attraction Transformation. Not surprisingly it’s called The Online Game - Internet Attraction System.)

Now on to my short internet story which I hope every guy can benefit from.

I was finally at a point in my life where I was gaining confidence with women. Particularly in creating attractive conversations.

I noticed this awesome looking girl on a social site and luckily I knew exactly what I wanted to do. I checked out her profile. Glanced through her pictures and quickly, as if I was some internet seducer, (which up until this girl, I was far from being successful with any women online) I noticed she was living in Canada.

She lived about seven hours away so I wasn’t too eager to meet her. That was a little too far for me to travel. I thought she would be cool anyways to get to know and hey… you never know.

I decided against commenting on any of her pictures and thought a quick private message would work better.

I’m not entirely sure, word for word that is, what I wrote to her but it was very close to,

“If our countries ever decide to go to war, what do you say we move to Mexico and open a Taco Stand? You can be the brains of the operation and I’ll be the handsome model. Together we’ll make enough money to do whatever we want. We’ll own the rest of the world.”

To my surprise when I logged in the next day she had eagerly responded with a great laugh and a continuing story line to go along with my flirting.

We spent the next few weeks writing each other. There was intense flirting and a ton of attraction between us. She was just what I was looking for. I finally found chemistry with a woman online. She was my first. It’s true. I was an online virgin up until then. She was almost half my age – just what I was looking for. She had physical beauty and a cool personality I could easily get along with.

After all, a woman was going to have to be really cool to get along with the attitude I had back then. But that was part of my plan. Develop myself into someone who would naturally meet the exact type of women I wanted to date. And it worked, dare I say it, like a charm.

I kept doing what worked with her in my first message.

I stayed myself. I was a little cocky. I was a little sexual. I was getting genuine laughs and it was very obvious she had fallen hard for me.

We may have made the mistake of getting too close over the next few months. She did live a little too far and considering where we were in our lives, there was little chance we were going to “hook up.”

But we ran with it anyways.

I told her to call me one night while we were chatting on Hotmail and she agreed.

But of course I never gave her my number and kept demanding how my phone is not ringing yet. She was getting frustrated and a little turned on because I was teasing the hell out of her. Claiming I gave her the number and she was just chickening out.

I told her what a “wussy” she was and if I knew she was this worried about her voice, and now when our countries go to war I’m taking sides. All jokingly of course.

With a little pleading on her part and my reassurance she wanted to hear my voice, because it was extremely sexy, I threw her my number – one – digit – at – a – time. Oh yes I was having lots of fun with her.

It’s probably needless to say but we ended up having phone sex that evening. We played around on our web cams. We called more and more at least until I realized my phone bill was over five hundred dollars.

(No worries though because I actually used my sexy voice that I had worked so much to talk the phone company into lowering my bill substantially. Like over three hundred dollars! You would be surprised what a sexy guy’s voice and a lot of smart clever flirting can get you. I urge you to learn it yourself. It’s a skill no man should be without.)

Yes. The relationship finally ended when we both agreed the distance was too far. She was a “partier” but she wanted to settle down with someone very close to her. She was broke. I was broke. We decided to call it quits after a few months of great conversations, incredible phone sex, lots of stories about who we were and how we lived our lives.

We ended our internet relationship with a digital kiss and hug but remained friends who would catch up on our lives occasionally. Mostly through Facebook.

Sure it hurt to let her go. Just as much as it hurt her.

But I had finally proved to myself what I was capable of. All the work I was doing was working. Everything I learned was useful in so many more ways than just picking up girls.

I do hope you’ve been paying attention because there’s a ton of tips I’ve given you. It may not be all too clear but I’m happy to quickly break it down for you.

“Broad pen” (treating every woman you see with the same message) tactics may get your message responded to, but unless you learn to create attractive conversations and flirt, you’re less likely to attract the women you do want.
What you learn outside the internet is just as important online when used correctly.
Often a clever funny message which centers on her profile works best.
Be a fun challenge to ALL women online. Don’t give out your number that easily. Don’t be so eager to reveal everything about yourself. Let things happen naturally and it will be much more exciting for the both of you.
Not all interactions online are going to give you a relationship that lasts forever but when you enjoy them for what they are, you’re building confidence and esteem which you can take with you everywhere. Succeeding online gave me the confidence to even increase my success outside the internet.
When you learn to enjoy those moments with women for what they are, fun for both of you, you’re certain to attract more women online, and in your everyday life.
The skills you learn to attract which centers around your unique personality will create more attraction in the women you really want.

And that last tip is a big one here guys.

I have seen way too many men fail with women online because they tried to be something they were not. They tried almost desperately to create an image in her mind that they were her ultimate catch. When all a potential date is looking for, is someone to share a connection with first.

All these tips I give you, all these skills and flirting techniques you plan on using must first and foremost come from who you are.

Not only will they help you immeasurably attract more women, but they will help you to attract the women you want the most. You know the ones where it feels like you were almost meant to be together. And that’s important for women…

They want to feel the guy who’s turning them on the most just feels right. Like it was meant to be.

I do sincerely hope you took away more from my little internet story than I care to point out for you. It’s meant to be inspiring. I wanted to encourage you to keep learning. I wanted you to understand how the internet and how your offline life are connected. in such a way, ignoring one of them is never good when becoming a more attractive man.

Sure my internet relationship did not work out the way both of us might have hoped but it was more than that. It was a marker in my life that clearly showed me how the past was behind me, how if I stayed in the present and enjoyed every single moment, the future was always brighter.