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I Choose to Date Younger Women!
Feb 27th
Let me tell you about my personal experiences with dating younger women and how I feel you can date them. Perhaps you can gain some insight through that. Bear in mind these are from my own experiences and I will admit I do not rank as high as many of the men who seem to master getting that younger woman to date. But this is true. Ten years ago I was constantly told by every woman I wanted between the ages of 18 and 25, that they just don’t date men over thirty, and now that I’m pushing forty, rarely, if at any time, do I hear those same words. So it’s either women are beginning to date even older men, or I have learned to develop that part of me that knows how to attract them. You can make your own mind up on that one.
Can a Woman Secretly Love a Man They Put in the Friend Zone?
Feb 15th
I used to think that a woman’s mind could be changed. I used to think maybe there’s a chance she likes me. Maybe there’s a chance that if I stay with her as a friend she will finally see me in a sexual role.
But that only made things worse.
I focused so much on her that I failed to see the truth of our relationship. I thought she was my one and only and I felt if I could do just one more thing for her, she would finally be attracted to me enough and feel compelled to kiss me.
34. Are you drawn towards romantic comedies or sad songs?
Feb 4th
The reality of it all is that I was consoling myself. I was acting like a boy, not a man. I was wallowing in my self pity and I became addicted to the emotions associated it with it. And yes, I was acting like a small child because in a way, I was pouting. And pouting is what boys do to get his mother’s attention. Except the attention I was seeking was hoping, in a small way, that she would feel sorry for me enough to like me more as more than just a friend. Which is absolutely absurd and when you think about it, a nice guy’s manipulation tactic that always fails. It’s just plain unattractive.
Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women to be Attracted to You
Jan 18th
Let’s take two guys and one woman. And no I’m not talking about a threesome. The first guy is nice, accommodating, and generally lacks any real potential girlfriends in his life. The second guy is also nice, but very busy, and has many potential girlfriends in his life. Who’s more of a challenge?
Obviously the second guy is. I’m sure it doesn’t take a genius to realize this. Look around and you see it all over but…
How can you be that challenge when you don’t have a black book filled of girlfriends to compete over you?
How can you be a challenge when you really like a girl and want to let her know, but everyone tells you that when a woman knows you like her too early on, she will lose interest?
When is it safe to let a woman know you like her without scaring her away?
When should you let a woman know you like her before she loses interest?
and finally…
How can you be that challenge without playing games?
8. Do you feel that becoming friends first is a must for you to enter a relationship?
Dec 13th
I would meet her, become friends with her, and slowly over time try to win her affection through my nice guy ways. And it never worked!
It wasn’t a matter of me wanting to become friends first to enter a relationship or was more of an excuse I would use. The excuse rationalized my thinking I could get women to like me over time.