A ll preferences aside, what turns you on? Men, literally, what gets you hard? Women, what gets you the wettest? I’m not talking about sexual fantasies, I’m talking about those instant reactions you feel when you see someone you are extremely attracted to.
I want your shallowest thoughts. Don’t hold back at all.
(pick your shallowest thought and leave it below in the comment area)
For me. It’s a woman butt. The shape of her body. The way she walks. Her lips. Her hair. Her attitude.
Honestly, I never thought this question would be so difficult but when I say it out loud,
“What do I find attractive?”
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“Women must not think I’m attractive enough to even notice me. They are afraid to approach me for fear I would get the wrong impression. I don’t have what he has. I don’t drive a fancy car or have hot women draped all over me. Yeah that must be it.”
It was around dusk and me and two friends were walking the strip scoping out the chic of course. Nothing seemed to out of the ordinary until this woman screamed over at us,
“Nice Ass!!!”
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10. Always give in to her demands because of how she looks on the outside.
This is what used to go on inside my mind. Rotting it with the disease of needy thinking or approval seeking.
“Holy shit this chic is hot. I would love to fuck her. I would do anything for her. If I could just prove to her I’m not like any other guy she has met.”
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When the constant bombardment of our confidence and self-esteem are tied into each failure we endure, we can find ourselves relating these failures to our height. After all if a woman turns us down and the next man we find her kissing, is five inches taller, it becomes way too easy to blame it on our height. It satisfies the logic of what we see or believe our minds finds it to be true. We in turn train our minds to only notice what satisfies our logical reasoning. For example. If you are logically deducing women only want men who are slightly taller than them, you will only seem to take notice of those couples. And when you do see couple that goes against your beliefs, your brain tries to explain it another way. He must be rich. Or it’s his huge muscles. Or he must be a jerk.
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Alright guys you know what that means. This guy is teaching women and he’s giving an example of what a woman feels. It can show us the steps needed to really turn her on.
1.) Let her feel more attracted to you.
2.) Raise the attraction each time you see her just a little and she will develop a deep emotional attachment.
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Here is a quote I stole from an anonymous woman’s profile.
I always wondered how pretty girls end up with ugly boys
and pretty boys with ugly girls.
(Like how my cute boyfriend wants some fugly chick like me)
I think love is stupid. But im crazy about him.
What does she really mean or what do I think she means?
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I certainly know where you are coming from. I certainly feel what you are saying. I was there for so long I had given up on the what do I do part and just buried myself in seclusion with my hobbies and a few cl0se friends. Then as my knowledge and skill increased I felt my self suffering from a different dilemma. I don’t want the ones that are throwing themselves at me. I didn’t want them to be my girlfriend at all. So it wasn’t an easy journey but it’s certainly been worth it.
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Who would have known Bart Simspon could help men understand what women want. But he has. Thanks to the wonderfully intuitive writers on The Simpsons. In part one I explained ‘women tests’. Now that I’m back for part two what can the little cartoon boy teach us guys, about women what women want?
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by peter white on February 24, 2010
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If I am interested in more than friendship, I feel it is my responsibility to tease, flirt, and constantly keep her on her toes. Even when it may take several months for a particular women to become interested enough to casually date. I never give her myself on a platter expecting her to suddenly change her mind. If there is no sexual tension, I won’t waste my time. But if there is I will always increase it and never let it dissipate. That way, over time, a flirty friendship can develop into more.
Next quote…
“Ladies, I am officially removing the privilege you have of talking to a lovestruck “friend” complaining about how you’ll never find someone to care about you.”
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I have a strange post for everyone today. It’s a little off the path I have taken lately. I’m going to suggest you watch a movie clip to help you understand, and see first hand what it’s like to attract a woman. And I wanted you to see it done by someone you would not normally believe as a “ladies man.” Or for that fact, even an attractive man.
I was finishing up with my day last week and decided to pull up an old movie that Hulu had just posted. Ghostbusters. I wanted a break from my daily exploration of women but I guess it’s unavoidable. I have not seen it in so long I just had to watch it. The last time I saw it was more than ten years ago. Just before I began my journey into becoming the man I am today.
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She may not be ready for a relationship. Women who put their career ahead of everything else in their life often put men in the friend’s zone because they don’t have time for a relationship. She puts men in the friend’s zone that are strictly relationship type while enjoying casual sex with partners who may not be relationship material.
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Was I cool? Am I cool now? Am I one of those men that some most people just think, he’s such a cool person.
I’m really cracking myself up writing about this now. But who cares. What really matters to me is what I think is cool. Right? Sometimes I will stare at a gorgeous moon on a clear night and say to myself, that is so cool. Sometimes I will watch a friend screw something up and make a fool of herself. She will walk over to me and we both laugh, “That was so cool!”
Put in another context the word cool takes on a different meaning. There are groups of people in every generation that are deemed to not be cool. They can include parents, teachers, retired people, and yes, politicians. (remind me to never mention politicians on this site) We’re all most likely going to find ourselves not cool to another group at one point in our life. It’s inevitable.
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I was a prisoner doing a life sentence. The jury that handed me the verdict consisted of only women.
“Guilty,” They read aloud.
“On all counts.”
The judge peered at me with a disgusted look on his face. The reading glasses he wore were sliding off the tip of his nose reflecting a blinding light on me. I squinted back up at him hoping for compassion but I never got it. He demanded I make reparations and that I, Peter White, be deemed to live out my life as number 674893123. A prisoner of the friend’s zone.
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Think about this guys… You start talking or seeing this hot woman. You both share great conversations. You hit it off from the beginning. And there’s no doubt in your mind there is great sexual chemistry and a spark between you. But then out of nowhere it happens… She rarely returns your phone calls. She [...]
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I know when I was in the friend’s zone constantly I never felt attractive. Women called me cute, and nice. Far from attractive. The clear reason for them choosing these adjectives was the lack of deep feelings associated with me. Granted cute is emotional when you’re pinching a kid’s cheek, but calling a full-grown adult, cute or nice, is far from an attractive compliment.
It goes like this:
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MAN:
(leans in for a kiss and she pulls back)
What’s the matter? Don’t you find me attractive?
WOMAN:
(trying to be nice)
No that’s not it all. I think you’re cute, and so nice. But I just don’t like you that way.
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WOMAN:
(trying to figure out if he like her)
Do you think I’m good looking?
MAN:
(trying to be nice)
Of course I do. I’m just not ready to start a relationship with someone right now.
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