10. Always give in to her demands because of how she looks on the outside.
This is what used to go on inside my mind. Rotting it with the disease of needy thinking or approval seeking.
“Holy shit this chic is hot. I would love to fuck her. I would do anything for her. If I could just prove to her I’m not like any other guy she has met.”
Women, even the strongest women like myself, LOVES a take charge type of guy. Oh sure alot of us are capable of taking care of ourselves, but the one thing every women needs, wants, and desires is to feel secure. Yes we love you to fight for our honor and protect us from harms way and all that bullshit. But what’s more important and really makes our thighs moist, is when we know we have a take the bull by the horns type of man.
A man who can speak for himself.
A man who is always 10 steps ahead of the game.
A man who shouldn’t have to ask you shit, cause he already knows.
A man who knows when shit is about to hit the fan, he is an act first ask questions later type of guy.
A man who will do it with or with out you, it don’t matter to him. He just gets the job done.
A man who will always tell us the truth about ourselves, not what they think we want to hear.
You hear everyone talk about approaching women. How to do it. What you should say. How you should say it. But really guys, wouldn’t it be easier just to get women to notice you first, and allow them to approach you? Wouldn’t it be simpler to have them open up eager to make your conversation start with a spark? Wouldn’t it just be smarter to have those women feel your energy from across the room so when you walk by you can catch them checking you out?
Of course!
On top of all his concerns, good looking women kind of scare them. He just does not seem to feel good enough for them. He calls them perfect. He says what if she has a boyfriend. He worries about what to say to them, and how to act around them. Honestly though…I’m not sure if he even cares how attractive she is. He wasn’t clear on that at all.
But I did “not so casually” mention to him one word. One word that can changes your entire dating life. One word that without you will never have consistent success with a beautiful women. In fact you will probably not have much long term success with any woman, no matter how attractive you or I might find her.
A friend of mine just texted me telling me she had been baking in the sun all day. Stuck in the middle of nowhere in a broken down truck. She also didn’t fail to mention how great of a person she is, yeah she’s a bit cocky, but this time it was because she hasn’t bitched at all. All day!
She explains to me it was because she really likes this guy and doesn’t care whether the truck gets fixed or not. It’s allowing them to spend all this time together and she can’t get enough of him.
Who would have known Bart Simspon could help men understand what women want. But he has. Thanks to the wonderfully intuitive writers on The Simpsons. In part one I explained ‘women tests’. Now that I’m back for part two what can the little cartoon boy teach us guys, about women what women want?
That means about 29% of all searches made to my page are from curious women, asking, what in essence the title of this post. “So… You Like This Guy…and He’s Just Your Friend.”
I recently wrote an article for women, Ten Secrets to Break a Guys Heart, and I feel you will find, contained with the absurdity of the list, is a stripped down version of what men are attracted to.
Ten Secrets on How to Break a Guy’s Heart.
1.) Shower him with attention and then suddenly take it away.
2.) Let him know how much you enjoy listening to him speak about his life, and then stop asking about it.
3.) Be his lover. Be his friend. Pull back sexually and then… just be his friend.
4.) Agree to being in a committed relationship with him but then get scared and act fearfully.
5.) Shower him with affection and gifts the last day you plan on seeing him as a lover.
6.) Tell him you don’t believe that he will miss you or you can not understand why he even would.
7.) Always widen your eyes and give him a big smile when it has been some time since you last saw each other. Then turn that smile to a frown and a look of being unsure about where the relationship is going.
8.) Tell him how much you care about him but that you don’t believe in love.
9.) Enjoy wild nights of sexual gratification and be open in bed to exploration of each others desires. But then let him believe you are not good enough for him.
10.) Be sweet. Be fun. Be caring. Be sexy…
Be loving. Be supportive. Be daring. Be “sexty”….
And then one day, just stop being there.
Because bad boy is not bad. What’s bad, is the jerk. The jerk is not the same thing as the bad boy. Okay, There’s a very big difference here. Bad boy’s got that mischievous smirk on his face. He’s the one that has got a little bit of that clever look in his eye like, I’m having fun on my own terms. I’m not hurting anyone but I’m getting my fun. And I’m making sure other people enjoy themselves too.
Blame is absolutely useless and it doesn’t nothing for our growth as humans. The whole “cause and it’s effect on the outcome” is merely just an event leading up to another event.
You can’t blame yourself for just acting accordingly to who YOU ARE.
It’s unfortunate the nice guy label given to men have them always stuck in the friend’s zone. Trying to escape or get out for good with any future interactions. They don’t typically have many girlfriends and struggle getting the women they really want, to be attracted to them.
This guide is meant for those men.
In my Nice Guy Friends Law number two I will explore the true nature of how a women feels attraction with the help of Joseph Matthews profound writings.
S o you’re a nice guy and you know you have attractive traits, but women still find a way to put you in the friend’s zone. What can you do about it? Is there a simple piece of advice or tip I can give you which will propel you in the right direction with women? [...]
Nice guys make a lot of mistakes when they first meet a woman. Here is one example of a good guy with honorable intentions, failing one woman’s test.
If you’re tired of hearing the dreaded words, “You’re nice, but I just want to be friends.”, and all the many different ways it can be said; read on. I have some simple, yet intuitive advice that can get you started in the right direction of being a sexually attractive man, who also happens to be a nice guy.
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