Nice Guys escape the Friend's Zone.
Posts tagged inner game
38. Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
Dec 19th
This question is classic. You start thinking to yourself. I’m better than him. Or what does she have that I don’t. He kisses her ass and I can not see why. I don’t get it.
This sort of thinking often leads us down a road of negativity. It is very unhealthy and cause us to shut ourselves off from the rest of the world. It becomes obvious to those around us and will certainly land you in the friend’s zone frequently because no one enjoys dating someone whose confidence is false. True confident people don’t use others to boost themselves up. In fact they often do the opposite. They use their abilities to help others. They use their confidence to offer leadership. And good leaders rarely find it hard to attract someone sexually.
An Interview, transcribed, with Carlos Xuma by Peter White Part 1
Nov 27th
An approval seeking man. Haha! That’s not what we’re here for.
We’re here for, we create our own approval.
We go out and forge our own path. We cut our own trail through this life. And that’s what it is to be a man.
And that goes right against the grain of what it is to be a man, by seeking approval of all the other people out there. It’s just not good.
A Limited Belief of Men: Being Short
Nov 22nd
We all make them. Some fewer than others and they are LIMITED BELIEFS
My biggest one was, being short!
Let me tell you a quick story. I was at a bar once that always featured live bands. Being a musician I would always bring myself up close to see what chords they were playing. Check out their equipment and meet the players after.
The Fear of Attraction, Can You Smell It?
Nov 8th
Those fears often stem from our wants or needs to fulfill something in our lives that we are missing. Often I read how it is not good to be needy. Which is true but I rarely hear how our wanting something can be just as bad, or even worse….
Nice Guys Guide on How to Attract Women
Oct 23rd
It’s unfortunate the nice guy label given to men have them always stuck in the friend’s zone. Trying to escape or get out for good with any future interactions. They don’t typically have many girlfriends and struggle getting the women they really want, to be attracted to them.
This guide is meant for those men.