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insecurities

“I just don’t date shorter guys. They creep me out!”

Now what serious personality issues would a woman have to say that? If shorter men creep her out or make her uncomfortable then her insecurities might suggest she feels weak. Unable to defend herself from physical attacks. Yet the woman who said that is strong and fights back playfully. Or so it would seem. When I meet a woman like this I try to imagine what her persona is portraying and what her persona is trying to hide. Through this I am able to cold read her personality and break through those barriers she puts up. You see the fact the she does go out of her way to prove her physical strength tells me it’s strictly her persona and deep down she has fears of being physically attacked and needs to be protected.

What is on your mind?

Those fears often stem from our wants or needs to fulfill something in our lives that we are missing. Often I read how it is not good to be needy. Which is true but I rarely hear how our wanting something can be just as bad, or even worse….

What is on your mind?