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That means about 29% of all searches made to my page are from curious women, asking, what in essence the title of this post. “So… You Like This Guy…and He’s Just Your Friend.”

I recently wrote an article for women, Ten Secrets to Break a Guys Heart, and I feel you will find, contained with the absurdity of the list, is a stripped down version of what men are attracted to.

Ten Secrets on How to Break a Guy’s Heart.

1.) Shower him with attention and then suddenly take it away.

2.) Let him know how much you enjoy listening to him speak about his life, and then stop asking about it.

3.) Be his lover. Be his friend. Pull back sexually and then… just be his friend.

4.) Agree to being in a committed relationship with him but then get scared and act fearfully.

5.) Shower him with affection and gifts the last day you plan on seeing him as a lover.

6.) Tell him you don’t believe that he will miss you or you can not understand why he even would.

7.) Always widen your eyes and give him a big smile when it has been some time since you last saw each other. Then turn that smile to a frown and a look of being unsure about where the relationship is going.

8.) Tell him how much you care about him but that you don’t believe in love.

9.) Enjoy wild nights of sexual gratification and be open in bed to exploration of each others desires. But then let him believe you are not good enough for him.

10.) Be sweet. Be fun. Be caring. Be sexy…

Be loving. Be supportive. Be daring. Be “sexty”….

And then one day, just stop being there.

What is on your mind?

A passionate couple embracing each other.

I was at college majoring in music. And yet, music was my passion. I met this girl. A cute blond. She represented my most sought out physical features in a woman. Blond. Full lips. Blue eyes. Perfect ass. Sounds wonderful huh? But her personality wasn’t all that good. Sure she was a little fun being around. Sure we shared a love of music, she also majored in music; yet when I think about it now…

That was it.

Everything else just didn’t match up. I was a hippie and into the artistic social scenes. She was a “Jockette” and into basketball players.

What is on your mind?