Nice Guys escape the Friend's Zone.
Posts tagged self esteem
How Bad Do You Want To Get Laid?
Feb 20th
Oh that dry feeling between my legs seeped into every part of my life. It made me angry. It made me short tempered. It made me put so much emphasis on just getting some, I found it difficult just looking at a woman without undressing her and imagining doing it with her.
I couldn’t rationalize away my sexual desires. No matter how times we masturbate it just can never feel as good as it is when you are with a partner who’s wants to share that experience with you,
And the huge mistake on my part was exactly this,
My Thoughts on How Being Cool Makes you More Attractive
Feb 14th
Was I cool? Am I cool now? Am I one of those men that some most people just think, he’s such a cool person.
I’m really cracking myself up writing about this now. But who cares. What really matters to me is what I think is cool. Right? Sometimes I will stare at a gorgeous moon on a clear night and say to myself, that is so cool. Sometimes I will watch a friend screw something up and make a fool of herself. She will walk over to me and we both laugh, “That was so cool!”
Put in another context the word cool takes on a different meaning. There are groups of people in every generation that are deemed to not be cool. They can include parents, teachers, retired people, and yes, politicians. (remind me to never mention politicians on this site) We’re all most likely going to find ourselves not cool to another group at one point in our life. It’s inevitable.
38. Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
Dec 19th
This question is classic. You start thinking to yourself. I’m better than him. Or what does she have that I don’t. He kisses her ass and I can not see why. I don’t get it.
This sort of thinking often leads us down a road of negativity. It is very unhealthy and cause us to shut ourselves off from the rest of the world. It becomes obvious to those around us and will certainly land you in the friend’s zone frequently because no one enjoys dating someone whose confidence is false. True confident people don’t use others to boost themselves up. In fact they often do the opposite. They use their abilities to help others. They use their confidence to offer leadership. And good leaders rarely find it hard to attract someone sexually.
When The Relationsip is Over, Do We Turn Off The Lights?
Dec 10th
Being single again is always tough.
Our relationships often encompass our lives and intertwine themselves into our everyday existence.
We begin to rely on that comfort.
We rely on that feelings of special phone calls and special moments. The ones we share with our partner that only are known to us.
Women Are Not Perfect
Nov 30th
I use to see women as perfect. At least I use to see those particular women where my attraction controlled me, as perfect.
And as the old saying goes “I would put them up on a pedestal”, and attempt to climb into their hearts by, being so nice it was sickening.
