Friend Zone Test
“This friend’s zone survey or test is about me. It’s about you. It’s about discovering what it is that puts you in the friend’s zone…
And it’s also about how to escape it.”
UPDATE: With upwards to 800 responses to my survey/test I feel it has been a major success. However due to the strain and the numbers involved in keeping it live, (it was making DiaLteG™ run a little slow.) I’ve decided to NOT TALLY THE RESULTS anymore. Don’t be sad. You can still ask yourself the questions and compare your answers with everyone who has participated. I still feel it is the most comprehensive and detailed test out there and I’ve researched many of them.
OCTOBER 22, 2011 UPDATE: I have great news! It’s going to take me some time but I’m expanding on every question in my Friend Zone Test. Under each response you can click on your answer to reveal the correct response. (Along with a few helpful tips on getting out whether you’re a man or woman.)
NOVEMBER 30, 2011 UPDATE: Every question is done and all with tip on escaping too. All that is left is to add helpful reading links and a few extras.
Please Enjoy!
Click on your answer and each page reveals whether the answer was right or wrong. Click on all the answers and you’ll get friend zone tips for men and women. No grading just quick informative reads. I feel by the time I’m finished with it and you’ve gone through them all, (I’m trying to keep them short and to the point)
You’ll know exactly if you’re in the friends zone, some of the reasons why, and more on how to escape it forever.
~ Browse All Friend Zone Test Questions ~
1. Do You Feel When You Are Attracted to Another, They Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
2. Do You Try to Get Others to Like You Making Sure You Do Nothing Wrong to Offend Them?
3. Do you feel love is beyond you?
4. Have You Ever Made a Move, or Tried to Kiss Someone Who Refused or Rejected You?
5. Have You Ever Tried to Kiss Someone Who You Felt Was More Attractive Than You?
6. Have You Ever Turned Down Someone From Kissing You, Because You Felt Nothing Physically For Them?
7. How Long Does it Take to Ask for a Date When You Meet Someone You Are Interested In?
8. Do You Feel Becoming Friends Before Dating is the Best Way to Start A Relationship?
9. Do You Take Risks In Your Everyday Life?
10. How Big Is Your Social Circle?
11. Do You Travel For Pleasure?
12. How Often Do You Go Out?
13. Where Do You Go Out to be Social?
14. When You Are NOT Around Close Friends, Do You Hold Back Your Opinions or Actions because You Worry People Will Not Like You?
15. Do You Feel You Are Better than Most People You Meet Who are Always In a Relationship?
16. Do You Lead Your Social Group or Follow?
17. Are You Decisive On Dates and/or When You’re Around Someone You Are Highly Attracted To?
18. Do You Feel Sexy?
19. Do You Workout or Exercise Regularly?
20. Do You Find Yourself Dreaming (running scenarios) of You Winning Over Someone Else, But You Never Act Out On Those Desire?
21. Do You Feel Everyday Which Passes, and You Are Still Alone, It Gets Even Harder To Get Out of Your Current Non-Relationship or Dating Status?
22. Do You Find Yourself Often Relating to Sad Songs When You Are Attracted to Someone But You Are Just Friends With Them?
23. Do You Enjoy Meeting New People?
24. Have You Attempted or Continually Try to Use Romance to Create Attraction?
25. Do You Believe There’s NOT have Enough Time or Money in Your Life to Pursue an Active Dating Life?
26. Are You A Jealous Person?
I was stuck in the friend’s zone for at the least twenty years of my life!
And yeah it sucked big time.
I came up with this test by first approaching the friend’s zone with my new knowledge and skills in attraction.
I then wrote down all the reasons why I always ended up there and trust me there were hundreds of them.
I then weeded out the duplicates and turned each one into the test/survey you see before you today.
I feel just by taking this test/survey you can learn a lot about yourself, why and how you end up in the friend zone or are in it now.
Answering honestly with yourself will allow subconscious thoughts to surface to your conscious mind.
I understand how large of an issue this topic is for so many men and women everywhere. In fact I gave some detailed test results for the individuals listed below. Please read them for more great information.
Individual Responses for:
Matthew
Sarah
Cory
JP
DND
Meela
Woman? (free)
Sade - With over a Year since your passing I still find myself smiling when I think of you, but then I grow terribly sad. I miss you. Please take the time to read her page if you’re a woman stuck in the friends zone. Read how Sade responded, and you’ll learn valuable advice and gain incredible inspiration. She was a smart woman who survived through in the worst of it. And she still managed to live her life in the end, the way she wanted…I hope she knows she’s still affecting new people to this day in a positive way including. (Yes Sade I still hear you saying Peter…What did you do???!! )
If You’re A Man:
Here are some great extra reading on escaping the friends zone. They are by some reputable people in the fields of dating/relationships and of course attraction. I believe you’ll find them highly useful on escaping the friend zone.
The Secret To Turning Your Friend…Into A Girlfriend
Are You Doing What It Takes, To Turn Your Woman Friend, Into A Girlfriend?
Six Steps To Get Out Of The Friend Zone
Simon Says – How To Turn A Friend Into A Lover
Turn a Female Friend into Your Girlfriend in 9 Easy Steps
If you’re looking to buy a program or two in an attempt to escape being just friends I would recommend you pick one of these up:
Friend To Girlfriend Secrets – The Ultimate Guide To Turning A Friend Into A Lover
(you can find a cheap alternative but I won’t guarantee anything about this one…Escape The Friend’s Zone)
Turn Her On – This is literally a kick ass program dealing with your body language and how to turn yourself into a sexual man with your body movements. I support everything Rob Brinded offers fully.
Friend’s Zone Test
1. Do you feel when you are attracted to someone, they are more attractive than you?
2. Do you often find yourself trying to get others to like you, by making sure you do nothing wrong to offend them?
3. Do you feel that love is beyond you? Meaning you become overwhelmed with thoughts of marriage, relationships, and what you would give to another romantically, because you find them so attractive?
4. Have you ever made a move, or tried to kiss someone who refused it?
5. Have you ever tried to kiss someone who you felt was more attractive than you?
6. Have you ever turned down someone about to kiss you, because you felt nothing physically towards them?
7. How long does it take you to ask for a date, when you meet someone you are interested in?
8. Do you feel that becoming friends first, is a must for you to enter a relationship?
9. Do you feel that becoming friends first, is a must before you are willing to kiss someone or have a sexual encounter with?
10. Do you take risks?
11. How big is your social circle?
12. Do you travel often for pleasure?
13. How often do you go out?
14. Where do you go out mostly?
(You can select more than one answer.)
16. Do you constantly worry about saying the wrong thing?
15. In social situations when you are not with people you are close friends with, do you generally not like to stir things up with your opinions or actions?
17. Are you constantly afraid you will offend someone?
18. Do you lead your social group, or just go with the flow?
19. Are you decisive?
20. Do you feel attractive?
21. Do you feel sexy?
22. Do you dress, or purchase certain clothes because you feel you do not give a shit about what others think of you?
23. How many times in your life have you changed your appearance to make yourself more attractive?
24. Do you workout or exercise regularly?
25. Are you optimistic or pessimistic?
26. Do you ask your partner if she came, or if he enjoyed himself, after sex?
27. Do you feel you understand the opposite sex?
28. Do you avoid verbal arguments, or upsetting someone you are attracted to, but are not sleeping with?
29. Are you constantly running scenarios in your head ending with bad results of what is about to happen?
(Mostly before an approach or if a guy approaches you)
30. Are you constantly running scenarios in your head of you being the victor over someone else, but then you never really act out on those desires?
(Mostly when someone challenges you or gets the girl or guy that you wanted.)
31. What percentage of people, everywhere, do you think that would want to have sex with you?
32. What percentage of people, everywhere, do you feel would enter a relationship with you?
33. Do you feel that everyday that passes and you are still alone, it gets harder and harder to get out of your current position?
(With your current dating and relationship situation.)
34. Are you drawn towards romantic comedies or sad songs?
35. Do you find yourself often relating to sad songs at every particular time in your life, when you were attracted to someone but were just friends with?
36. Do you feel that romance, or being romantic, can win another persons heart?
37. Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
(Jealousy)
38. Do you enjoy meeting new people?
39. How many hobbies or projects do you always have going on?
40. Do you feel there is not enough time or money in your life, to pursue an active dating life?
41. Are you nice to people you want, or are attracted to, but when they turn you down, develop negative feelings for?
(More Jealousy)
42. Are you easily upset?
43. Would you say the world is better off now, than it was half your lifetime ago?
44. Can you explain, exactly, the human mating process from meeting to sex or commitment, or both sex and commitment?
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You can not get results from this survey anymore.
Posts Explaining Questions:
1. Do You Feel When You Are Attracted To Someone, They Are More Attractive Than You?
2. Do You Often Find Yourself Trying To Get Others To Like You, By Making Sure You Do Nothing Wrong To Offend Them?
3. Do You Feel Love Is Beyond You?
4. Have You Ever Made a Move or Tried To Kiss Someone Who Refused It?
8. Do you feel that becoming friends first is a must for you to enter a relationship?
10. Are You A Passionate Person?
21. Do You Feel Attractive?
22. Do you dress, or purchase certain clothes because you feel you do not give a shit about what others think of you?
33. Do you feel that everyday that passes and you are still alone, it gets harder and harder to get out of your current position?
34. Are you drawn towards romantic comedies or sad songs?
38. Do you feel that you are better than most attractive people you encounter, that are constantly in some sort of a relationship?
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interesting set of questions. i hope i’ll be able to learn a little bit more about myself.
I think you can luc and I wouldn’t mind hearing what you take away from it. Even just you just read the questions and note to yourself how you would answer. I’m very curious as to what people are thinking about after going through it. That could give me a different perspective into the world of the friend’s zone. I’m always open to learning.
Interesting Quiz
Thanks for sharing Matthew. Keep your eyes out for more interesting things coming on how to get out of the friends zone.
If you have been in the friends zone, or are stuck there, what would you say has been your biggest challenge in dealing with it, or on how to get out of it?
different
Wow .
@Caty – I was thinking the same thing.