The Alpha Male Survey – 12 Questions with Detailed Answers

How would you describe your relationship with many of your ex-girlfriends?

Perfect. I would say we are still close friends. We hang out once in a while and I even fool around with some sexually.
Good. We still talk and may not always have broken up on equal terms but we are still friends because we shared a deep connection. We do not engage in any sexual activities.
I do not get along with my ex girlfriends. Most of my relationships have ended badly.
I have never had a girlfriend before so I do not know.
I do not keep in contact with ex girlfriends although we do not hate each other.

Do you notice women get excited when you are talking about your passions and goals in life?

I never pay attention to it so I would not know one way or another.
Yes. They love listening to me talk.
No. They seem to lose interest in me quickly. It is like I have to try to keep the conversation going.
I really do not get many chances for women to listen to me talk, let alone want to listing to me talk.
I am not passionate about many things so it is hard for me to talk about them.
I do not have any goals I am currently pursuing so it is hard for me to talk about them.
I have no passion or goals in my life at the moment.

How do you feel about other attractive people in general?

They get special treatment because of their looks and I think it is not fair.
I would not kick them out of bed.
We all have issues, even the good looking. Attractive people have their own pressures and problems to deal with.
They never like me sexually. I want them but they do not want me.
Maybe if I was good looking I could date them.
I am one of them and I am tired of others thinking we get special treatment.
I am one of them and I feel pretty good about myself.

When an attractive woman teases you for what you perceive to be your weakness, how do you react?

I get hurt but try to laugh it off.
I get angry and defensive.
I have a clever comeback which may not always be funny.
I go along with it and bust more on myself.
Women never bust my balls. It seems like they are afraid to hurt my feelings.
I have no weaknesses so a woman can not find anything to bust on me about.

Are you decsive and take the lead when you are out on a date?

Yes. Leading is not a problem with me.
No. I never know what she really wants and where she wants to go out.
Yes, but I worry about every decision.
I try but I am not good at it so I avoid going out on dates.

When your dating and or your relationships with women are not what you want, are women the problem or do you blame yourself

I am the problem. Women don not like me.
We all have issues so I focus on my own.
All women are the same and want what they can not have.
Dating is not a problem for me but my relationships with women never work out or they refuse to enter one with me.
Women always see me as a relationship guy but I do not get many chances to date around. I feel my choices are limited in this area. I often settle quickly because of it.

What is your reaction after a woman flakes out on you?

You get angry with her but keep it to yourself.
You blow it off as nothing more than typical. It is not a big deal.
You instantly put her in the No Date category.
You tell her she is rude and that you never want to see her again.
I would not know. Women never flake out on me but it is because I never or rarely ask them out on a date.
I get depressed because women always flake out on me. One minute they are into me and the next time I see them, they barely even remember my name.
Women never flake out on me.

How does your body language appear in pictures and or how would you rate your body language?

Relaxed and comfortable. I would also say I look pretty cool in most photographs. I am a pretty smooth guy.
Rigid and stiff. I just do not feel comfortable when someone is taking my picture. I am always thinking about how others see me so it makes me uncomfortable.
I take terrible pictures so I avoid them at all costs. I just never feel natural. I have to fake it and I do not like faking.
I do not look good in photos so I fake my enjoyment but no one seems to notice. I try to fake a confident body language but it is not relaxing. When no one is looking it is my chance to finally relax.
It is obvious my body language is weak and not confident. But how am I supposed to have strong body language when I am always failing with women.

When you are in a crowd of people you do not know, how do you feel?

Nervous. Anxious. Uncomfortable. Something about it just does not feel right.
Alone and I worry people are staring at me. It makes me feel so worried I often have internal conversations to calm me down.
Scared or frightened. I feel a little threatened and uneasy because I feel very vulnerable.
Comfortably challenged. I do not mind it all. I love people watching.
I avoid it being alone in a crowd completely.

How do you feel, or what do you do when you are interested in a woman and you know she is dating lots of other guys?

I try harder.
I get jealous.
I get angry but try to hide it.
I find it challenging or do not care much at all.
I do not date often enough.

Please SELECT ALL of your character or personality traits below in which you feel best describes you:

Intelligent.
Self-Confident or high self-worth.
Positive Attitude.
Calm or generally cool. Do not take things too seriously.
A True Leader.
Humble.
Ambitious.
Honorable.
Passionate or excited about life.
Balanced lifestyle.
Fit or in good physical shape.
Curious about life.
Courageous.
Conviction on achieving your goals.
Persistent.
Proactive.
Integrity.
Goal Orientated.
A high social competence.
Shy or introverted.
Detached.
Lack of social know how.
Lonely.
Depressed.
Constantly worrying.
Numb.
Always bored.

I want to become an Alpha Male because...(select all that apply)

I am tired of being alone.
I want more sex.
I want a girlfriend.
I want to make more money.
I want to finally be the life of the party.
I want more options out of life.
I want to be happier and live a more complete and productive life.
I want to finally grow up and just be a man.
Alpha Males are cool and get lots of women. I want my share of the pie.
You did not list my reason here.