Top 10 List of What Women Prefer In A Man if He is to be a Good Lover

Last post I asked all you guys to do an assignment for me. I asked you to write a few examples of what women have told you that they found attractive. Then I asked you to figure what feelings might be associated with that. The post was called Nice Guy Friend’s Zone Law Number 2.

Maintaining a good-looking appearance directly relates to paying attention to her wants and needs in a relationship.

Here is an example:

Women are attracted to Humor because laughing makes everyone feel good. A woman is attracted to humor because it makes her feel good.

I want to turn this around for this post to a more sexual topic.In Graham Masterton’s book How to Drive A Woman Wild in Bed¹ he did a survey asking what traits woman look for in a man who makes him seem he would be great in bed. They were listed in order. One being the top.

1. Attractive and interesting looking eyes.

Women look for this trait because it makes them want to know more about you. If your eyes create mystery in them with a hint of sexuality it will drive her wild. More often than not this is the first thing women will notice about you. Obviously you can’t change your eyes and I don’t suggest getting colored contacts. But you can look at yourself in the mirror and practice that mysterious smirking in your eyes.

Women are attracted to your eyes because it makes them feel curious, anxious to learn about you, and it can also make them feel what it is like for you to be on top of her and looking deeply in her eyes during some great sex.

2. A good-looking appearance.  Clean and unscuffed shoes.

Women are attracted to this trait because it shows them that you can pay attention to the details of your life. Maintaining a good-looking appearance directly relates to paying attention to her wants and needs in a relationship. It can backfire in a narcissistic way because some men pay so much attention to themselves they forget they are in a relationship. But done in moderation is extremely effective in getting women to notice you.

Women are attracted to a good-looking appearance because it makes them feel if you are sexually aware and if you can pay attention to her emotions in the same way you can make her feel like she is the most sexual person you have ever slept with. It makes her feel special!

Granted this survey is a little old because of all the sneakers and sandals people where these days. But it still holds true. Remember entering a dating sequence with a woman or a relationship you are going to be in situations where sneakers just won’t cut it. It also say to her that you understand your entire body and tend to it meticulously. I’m going to bet that a man who doesn’t understand how to take care of his shoe will not take care of his nails, hair, etc… And there’s nothing worse than foreplay that involves broken nails going inside her. OUCH!

Women are attracted to clean and unscuffed shoes because it makes them feel you are a man who understands details are important. Again, it makes them feel special!

3. Warm affectionate personality.

Women are attracted to a warm affectionate personality because he is a man that can not only be that way in bed, but essential will treat her and their future children the same way. Warm people are nice and nice people don’t belittle others for their own ego boosts.

Women are attracted to a warm affectionate personality  because it makes her feel warm and affectionate also.

4. Tenderness and courtesy.

Women are attracted to tenderness and courtesy for many of the reasons listed in the previous example. Yes guys, believe it or not, being nice is an attractive trait. It all depends how you use it and not abuse the niceness. Being courteous and sharing tender moments with a woman makes her feel good. It makes her feel loved. It makes her feel a connection with you that you don’t share with everyone. It does NOT mean being needy, bending at her every command, or revolving your life around hers.

Women are attracted to tenderness and courtesy because it can make them feel good, loved, and respected. What women that has her shit together wouldn’t enjoy that.

5. The ability to kiss excitedly.

Women are attracted to a man that can kiss excitedly because good sex starts with number 6, arousing foreplay. The lips are extremely sensitive and hence can create amazing sexual moments. Believe it or not I talk to women constantly about the horror stories of how their ex partner just didn’t know how to kiss. So learning how to kiss and excite a woman through passionate kisses and she just may push you into a great lovemaking experience. You can read all about kissing in the wonderful post I wrote called, How I kiss With Passion.

6. The ability to make arousing foreplay.

The anticipation of great sex is enough to “Drive Women Wild in Bed”. Good sex never, yes NEVER starts with just sticking it in her. Some argue that the occasional quick fuck is satisfying, and I do believe this. But one important fact to always keep in mind that foreplay can sometimes include exciting conversations that turn her on enough for that quick “slam”. No woman will ever just accept it if she has any self respect.

Foreplay is a broad term which includes everything from playful banter, flirty touches, teasing conversations, and anything that can creates the anticipation of a mind blowing orgasm!

7. A good-looking rounded backside.

8. Plenty of Stamina.

9. Good afterplay.

10. Muscles.

Now you try it yourself with the rest of them. I will finish them in a later post so keep looking out for them. Feel free to leave your responses the readers here will greatly appreciate it.  And remember this is a top ten list. So notice where the physical attribute come into play. At the bottom of the list.

Books Written by Graham Masterton located at Amazon:

• ¹How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed (Signet)
• The Secrets of Sexual Play
• Wild Sex for New Lovers
• Wild in Bed Together (Signet)
• The Seven Secrets of Really Great Sex

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