How watching Ghostbusters can help us guys attract women.

I have a strange post for everyone today. It’s a little off the path I have taken lately. I’m going to suggest you watch a movie clip to help you understand, and see first hand what it’s like to attract a woman. And I wanted you to see it done by someone you would not normally believe as a “ladies man.” Or for that fact, even an attractive man.

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I was finishing up with my day last week and decided to pull up an old movie that Hulu had just posted. Ghostbusters. I wanted a break from my daily exploration of women but I guess it’s unavoidable. I have not seen it in so long I just had to watch it. The last time I saw it was more than ten years ago. Just before I began my journey into becoming the man I am today.

It never occurred to me then how Bill Murray‘s cocky attitude can attract a woman. I assumed it’s just a movie and it’s not real. He’s a comedian and of course during certain roles, he was going to get the girl. But after watching this scene it literally blew me away. I could now see all the details I was missing before.

Watch Bill Murray in the scene in which he begins courting Sigourney Weaver‘s character. I never really would have believed Bill Murray could attract women. After all, he is kind of a goof ball in his movies. I know experiences writers write those popular movies but I also know for a fact that Bill is not a typical actor. For example, in his most unattractive character in Caddyshack he was not scripted at all. They just let him do his own thing,  took lots of takes, and then edited it correctly. So I’m going to assume that in the movies he has been in, the character he portrays is mostly him and not some scripted out guy trying to play the role.

Back to Ghostbusters. I’m sure you are quite curious by now how this can help you attract women.

At 24 minutes and 5 seconds into Bill enters Sigourney’s apartment. The scene will last to 28 minutes 4 seconds. So we’re literally going to learn how to attract a women in 4 minutes flat. Impressive huh?

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First he “play acts” a James Bond kind of role. And we all know how good Bond, James Bond, is with women.

Watch closely his facial expressions. Fairly slow, confident, and calculated.

I like it when he doesn’t just ask if she is single or living alone. Instead he says,

“It’s a lot of space. Just you?”

Next when she asks him a direct question and he doesn’t even bother answering it directly. He answers with,

“It’s technical. Just one of our toys.”

Then he has the balls to go right to her bedroom! I love it. She of course mentions how nothing happens in there and he, straight-faced, comes back with his bust ass comment,

“What a crime.”

Now what does she do to combat his cockiness, she plays with him a little and tells him he’s more like a game show host. Notice closely he doesn’t even acknowledge the rude comment. Still stays straight-faced and does not allow her to get to him. He must know if he lets her get to him, especially with a comment like that. he loses instantly.

Onto the kitchen. Pay very close attention to how she tries to get him to look in the fridge but he takes his sweet ass time getting there. It’s because she is on his time, not the other way around. Obviously he is going to look in the fridge but again, when he’s ready, on his own terms. And this is a very attractive trait.

When he finally opens the door to the fridge, slowly, he immediately begins to bust her balls about eating junk food. He really just does not care, or worry about pissing her off. He sticks firmly to his cocky attitude. Yeah, I just said that, “firmly to his cock…”

At this point she realizes there is nothing special inside and what she had experienced before was long gone. She begins to freak out a little and how does he handle her emotional state?

Very calm and unaffected! So he looks right in her eyes and says,

“I don’t think you’re crazy.”

I can not emphasize how important this is because even though he is actually complimenting her, his cocky bust ass attitude up until then, leads her to believe he is joking. But he’s not! Yet he lets her believe it.

After they leave the kitchen he gives a little emotion through his voice tonality with a short story. He shows a genuine interest in her. But he does it in a way that is creative and passionate. He doesn’t just say, “Hey I like you, let’s go out.” He tells her this is my life and it seems we are very similar. We have a similar problem. Of course she fights him a little. It’s a classic woman response to feeling something for a guy when she can’t explain it herself.

How does he handle her obvious objection. By saying something, in a funny way, it’s not meant to be at all serious, because it’s just too absurd.

He slowly gets up, looks down, then slowly looks up to her eyes, for that big dramatic effect,

“I am going to go for broke.” (another big pause) ” I am madly in love with you.”

She fights him of course.

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In the next few seconds pay very close attention to his cocky attitude and how it turns towards him joking about himself. But at the same time he is being cocky, slightly amusing, and busting on himself all at once. It’s classic. And how does he end those last few seconds,

“I bet you’re going to be thinking about me after I’m gone.”, wrinkles his eyebrow and finishes it with,

“No Kiss?”

Here are a few other little attraction cues I noticed, yeah you caught me, I fell for him in this scene. Haha!

• Watch closely when he is joking around he doesn’t even laugh at his own jokes. Sure he may smirk occasionally but that’s all you get from him.

• Notice he doesn’t waver when she puts him down. In fact, he doesn’t even acknowledge it.

• Examine the way he pisses her off and she fights him off calling him odd.

I bet you never thought Ghostbusters would teach you a little about attraction. But I believe I just proved it can. So continue to look for these hints in other movies. They really can teach you when you view them from the right perspective. Remember I told you earlier that when I first watched this movie, and I’m old enough to see its first release I had no clue what it was that made Bill Murray attractive. Now I can see it clearly and use this information to attract more women. And so can you.

Enjoy your week guys and keep checking back,

Pete

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