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Good evening,
There seems to be a fair share of visitors here that are women so I have created this page especially for you. You can thank me later.
If you have any questions leave a comment below. I’m always happy to share my experiences with you. The truth is everything I write here for men comes directly from my experiences in dating and relationships. but I have found more women outside the internet get incredibly exciting by what I teach them. You always seem to have more questions and an eagerness to learn how men think and why we act the way we do.
Peter White
How Can You Tell If a Nice Guy Likes You?
Being a nice guy that has fallen for many women. I know exactly what men do when they’re interested in a woman; and I have two perspectives. The nice guy that failed with women and the man I am today.I am going to tease you with one example.
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Is Your Status Essential for Staying Out of the Friend’s Zone?
How you see yourself, the confidence you possess, and the status those around you sense, is essential for learning to stay out of the friend’s zone.
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Would You Cheat on Your Boyfriend?
I have a unique problem. I attract women that are dating someone. I have thought about this for some time now and it still remains a mystery to me.
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Attracting Higher Quality Men, Rule 1
Four types of energy and how others feel them will attract different men. Read more about what they are, what they create, and how you can use them to attract real quality men.
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If You’re a Woman, that Wants Choices in Men, It’s Time to Take Out the Trash
What does a playground game have to do with relationships and how taking out the trash can give you more choices in the men you date.
Is How You Dress Hurting Your Chances with Men?
Attracting us “man-imals” is tricky when you think like a woman so you have to put yourself in the mind of us. We are hunters. We have tunnel vision. We focus on broad details that enable us to, for lack of a better phrase, attack our prey.
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Authors at Attraction Transformation Just for Women
How to deal with messages on your online dating site.
Once you’ve registered on your local dating or matchmaking site you’ll soon start sparking the interest of other members – yippee, somebody out there likes you! But it’s important to resist the temptation to reply in a gush of gratitude and relief. You need to be cool and reel in your fish carefully. Being too enthusiastic just looks Full Article
How to create a great online dating profile.
When you join a dating or matchmaking website, you have three main chances to create a fabulous impression on other members. These are your photo; the headline of your profile; and the profile itself. (There’s actually one more, but we’ll get to that soon). Full Article
10 Simple Tricks to Make You Look Thinner.
We’ve all been there. The sudden loss of confidence when we look in the mirror and decide we’re fat. And it’s worse if that moment comes just a few short hours before you’re due out on your first date with someone great. However rescue is in sight. From our new book on first dates and finding true love ‘First Date Magic’, here are 10 Full Article
When you’re out there in the dating jungle, sooner or later you’re going to encounter the scariest creature of all – rejection. But it doesn’t have to be so scary, and you’re about to find out how. First let’s consider the lucky people don’t seem to worry about rejection. It’s all about their attitude. They realize that not all Full Article
Dating for single parents. How to make it easy on yourself.
Sooner or later, months or even years after separation, breakup or divorce, most single parents eventually decide that they want to have the warm of adult love back in their life. However despite what you might think your children can actually give you a major advantage when looking for love. It sounds crazy, but it’s true. In our new book on Full Article
To find true love first take a good look at your Dating Criteria.
The idea of there being one special person in the whole wide world created just for you is incredibly romantic. We imagine the wordless communication, the limitless understanding, the unconditional acceptance, and undying support, and know in our very core that somewhere out there, that person is waiting. What’s more, for confirmation we only Full Article
True love at first sight. Is it really possible?
Love at first sight is the stuff of a million romance novels and countless Hollywood movies. But is it really possible to fall in love within milli-seconds of seeing someone for the first time, or is it just a true love fantasy that’s so magical that we are desperate to believe it is real? Full Article
The difference between love and lust.
Lust generally steals away like a thief in the night after sex and might, or might not, return sometime later. What’s more you can lust after several people at the same time. But when you’re in love, you are completely focused on just one person, and your feelings for them don’t evaporate after sex. They often become even stronger. Full Article
Courting Like Insects: Helen Fisher’s Anatomy of Love
I’m always suspicious of scientists who try to generalize from animal behavior to human behavior. Animals lack the enormously complex social structures that condition our behaviors and cultural expressions. Whether it is true, as Kant believed, that we are a step above animals because we can project ourselves into the future and envision the Full Article
Dating Is Not Just For Beautiful People
Dating Is Not Just For Beautiful People You would think it was obvious. But how many women justify their single status by saying, “I’m not good-looking enough to attract men”? Personal appearance is the first excuse on the dateless woman’s book. It is easy to justify your lack of a boyfriend by pointing to your lack of Full Article
Why You Should Ditch the Rules
If you keep yourself from doing certain things around men and make yourself do others based on FEAR that you’ll make a mistake or FEAR that he’ll reject you, then you’re setting the foundation for a relationship based on insecurity. It’s the same error our grandmothers and great-grandmothers made so many years ago: they looked to the Full Article
When Do You Know If He’s Right?
Twenty years ago, I loved all boys. I played with them innocently and full-heartedly. Boys were my playmates, my cohorts in crime, and my teammates for games. I could think no evil of boys. Their strange preferences for dirt, body odor, cars, and constrictive underpants were simply idiosyncrasies of fascinating playmates. Full Article
He’s Just Not That Into You revolutionized my perspective on dating. Friends who read it suddenly “got” why previous relationships had dissolved. Greg explains that the simple reason why some relationships stuck together and others didn’t was because the guys who are really into you want to be with you … no matter WHAT. Full Article
Many women have come to this realization when they say these things, “The more I try to please him, the more distant he seems to become.” “When I ask him what’s wrong, he says nothing.”
Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?
Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very
If Only I Could Understand Men
Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?
Astrology And Love Advice for Women: Is Your Love Meant To Be?
Astrology And Love Advice for Women: Chemistry And Finding The “Right Man”
How To Be Happy Together Even If You’re Incompatible
How To Know If He’s All Right Or All Wrong
Dear Christian, I’m sorry but I need to ask you a question. I need advice and help. Me and my ex have been together off and on many times, recently we just broke up and now he’s dating someone else. (he doesn’t know what he wants) But I know he still has very big feelings for me and I want advice and help on getting him back. Even though Full Article
Why Successful Women Fail With Men
When a woman uses or leads her interactions with a man with their more “masculine” energy, what happens? Most men aren’t able to open up or attach and connect with a woman who’s meeting them with their “masculine energy”. It doesn’t make a man FEEL close, comfortable, trusting and it doesn’t draw him in to connect with her. In Full Article
The Secret Cause Of “Distance” In Relationships
Using The “Magic” of Intuition With Men
Have you ever felt “magic” with a man? Like when the connection you and a guy share is so strong that something inside you just tells you’ve got something real and special. That connection and chemistry is almost impossible to describe to someone who doesn’t have it, but it’s even more impossible to ignore when you’ve got it. Even if Full Article
Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys – Who Do You Love?
I need you to think about one of the first things I recognized about women way back in junior high – it’s something I still see it today in our “grown-up” dating world. Why don’t women pick the right guys? Or even more to the point – why do women pick all the wrong guys? If you’ve had your heart broken, been cheated on, or find Full Article
What If He’s Afraid Of A Relationship?
>>Question From A Reader: I purchased your e-book last night and have been reading it. Wow! But I admit I skipped to some parts to get to others that I thought I needed to read first…and now I’m going back to read the entire thing. I wanted to share something with you first that struck me. I have made the mistake of admitting to a friend Full Article
How To Communicate With “Emotionally Distant” Men
I realized something important this week about how men think and act. It’s that men who pay attention and think about the feelings they have, why they have them, what they mean and how to talk about them are RARE. And it’s even more unique and special for a man to pay attention to his feelings in relationships with women and to be able to Full Article
Why Men Withdraw, And What To Do About It
I just couldn’t help myself… In here, I’m going to share with you my response to an email I received from a reader. It highlights one of the most prevalent MINDSET PROBLEMS that keep women from having the successful relationships they want. Full Article
Why You Need To Start Thinking Like A Man
I want to share with you one of the BIGGEST secrets to understanding men… It’s the solution to perhaps the most frequent complaint I hear from women: “David, I DON’T GET MEN! I just don’t understand them…” Full Article
Get Total Control Of Your Dating Life
WOMEN, YOU ARE ESPECIALLY GUILTY OF THIS…in terms of your mindset and your willingness to take action in your dating life! If you spent the last seven Friday nights in the same bar not meeting anyone, why do you think it’s going to ever be different? I mean, that is the very definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over Full Article
Break New Relationship Man Code
Here are KEY INSIGHTS INTO “MAN TALK” that you’ll hear from a guy you’re newly dating. Now let’s tackle some of these new guy words and actions and reveal what they REALLY mean: Full Article
If you’ve struck up a “conversation” with a guy online and he gives you his number, should you ever be the first one to call? Or … do you reciprocate, give him your number and tell him to call you? Are dating rules different when you’re online dating? DO YOU EVER FEEL A LITTLE LOST WHEN YOU’RE DATING ONLINE ABOUT WHO SHOULD CALL Full Article
The #1 Reason Men Won’t Approach You
Just remember that men are just giant Scooby Doos on steroids. We’re goofy, we’re hairy, and the only thing missing is the dog collar with an “S” on it. I promise that if you spend thirty days saying hello to random men wherever you went, that a good percentage of those men will stop and think “Wow, a woman is actually making it easier Full Article
How To Overcome Dating Shyness Today
Do you consider yourself shy? Or more specifically… …are you shy when it comes to dating and being able to comfortably approach men? Do you walk around and say to yourself “I wish I weren’t shy so I could approach men.” Has this ever happened to you — You see a man you’re attracted to and so badly want to walk over to him and Full Article
5 Ways To Become Instantly More Attractive Through Lifestyle
Do you ever feel like it’s a lot of “work” to meet men? And you wonder why it has to be so hard? (Here’s a hint – it DOESN’T HAVE TO BE!) Most of the women I’ve coached over the last 11 years are women who are sincere and really try to learn the best way to meet men, but still struggle… Full Article
Why You Should Ditch the Rules
If you keep yourself from doing certain things around men and make yourself do others based on FEAR that you’ll make a mistake or FEAR that he’ll reject you, then you’re setting the foundation for a relationship based on insecurity. It’s the same error our grandmothers and great-grandmothers made so many years ago: they looked to the Full Article
Flirting With Men Takes You From Nice to Charming
Anyone can have a conversation – but flirting shows that you really care about him, not just as a person, but as a man! The art of flirting can take you from nice to charming. Flirting is not just for romance. A true flirt uses almost every encounter with a man to make him feel more like a man – making him feel charmed and wanted and Full Article
A Simple Exercise For Eliminating Fear Of Rejection By The Opposite Sex
Based on what you understand to be your own flaws and weaknesses, you look around you and habitually consider those whom you find most attractive “out of your league”. Learn to consider things from the perspective of any among the six billion other people out there…and brace yourself for MASSIVE life change. Scot McKay of X & Y Communications Full Article
If He’s “Friends” With Another Woman – Do This…
Once a man falls for you, if you know how to keep the attraction and the intimacy going strong, your relationship will be foolproof. No other woman can ever capture more than a quick glance from him – his heart is yours. If your man has a really good friend who just happens to be a woman, and it drives you crazy and makes you feel jealous and Full Article
So, what if the Highway of Love is truly a super-highway leading to… who knows where? And, what if it’s really not all that hard to navigate? What if the only problem with it is it’s just not a dead-end wash? What if the only hard thing about it is it’s not “familiar”? Full Article
Relationship Advice for Women: Compassion And Love
Literally, verbally express compassion to each part, each voice. As you do this, your Resistance to feeling will soften. Just a little softening is enough to get you in the soup. And from there, you can sail your ship anywhere. Love, here we come! Full Article
Women: 5 Ways To Save Your Marriage
Is your marriage in trouble? No matter how bad, there’s always hope and ways to turn your situation around. Here are five common ways to help create a better, more loving and harmonious relationship with your husband. 1. Handle arguments differently Every marriage and relationship has arguments, but it’s how you handle them that’s Full Article
7 Ways To Rekindle His Interest In You and Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared this may affect or eventually end your relationship? You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship so Full Article
5 Dating Mistakes That Women Make With Men
Men love their freedom and independence – no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual. Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s Full Article
SKILLS for Women
- Choosing Men
- Comminication
- Control
- Determining Love
- Fear
- How Attraction Wokrs
- Jealousy
- Online Dating
- Overcome Rejection
- Understanding Men
- Understanding Yourself
Christian Carter
Rori Raye
Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”
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Understanding Why Nice Guys Fail With Women?
about 1 week ago - No comments
The nice guy that learns how to attract is far more successful than the typical jerk that does not understand why he gets laid.
Go ahead and ask any woman you see and she will agree with me. If she doesn’t, I want to hear about it and I want to hear the reasons why. If she does not agree and acts stubborn about it then you also have one less woman to concern yourself over building an attraction towards you. So stay away from her. her life probably centers around jealousy and mind games in a childish attempt to control men anyways.
Nice Guys Lie to Themselves, in Their Just Friends Relationships
about 2 weeks ago - No comments
Here is the feelings of a guy I once knew in his mid twenties. He was considered a man, but he really was just a boy. A good part of him was a nice guy but the other part, a liar. The part of him, who was nice was good friends with women he More >
A Woman Reveals Her Inability to Explain an Unusual Attraction Towards a Man
about 3 weeks ago - No comments
If you want to attract a woman, you must understand what women want from men. Learning how she feels and why she feels it, is one attracting tip you should hear.
Can a Woman Secretly Love a Man They Put in the Friend Zone?
about 3 weeks ago - No comments
I used to think that a woman’s mind could be changed. I used to think maybe there’s a chance she likes me. Maybe there’s a chance that if I stay with her as a friend she will finally see me in a sexual role.
But that only made things worse.
I focused so much on her that I failed to see the truth of our relationship. I thought she was my one and only and I felt if I could do just one more thing for her, she would finally be attracted to me enough and feel compelled to kiss me.
No. We’re not Dating. I’m just her Friend.
about 3 weeks ago - No comments
“Wow. (slight pause) You are beautiful. (pause) Listen… I don’t want to be your friend. I don’t want to be the guy you call up at three o’clock in the morning, complaining about all the jerks in your life. I don’t want to be the man who listens to you whine about all the creepy guys that hit on you that day. And I definitely don’t want to be the man who you blow off for some great sex with a loser. I just don’t want to be him. (big pause) I want to be the guy who lights up your eyes when I enter a room. I want to be the man who you wake up in the morning thinking about, and the last person on your mind before you go to sleep. I want to be the man who will hold your hand one minute, and wrestle you to the ground the next. I want to be the man who you’ll come up with every excuse to be next to. The man that makes your mind wonder, and your heart beat just a little quicker. That’s the man I want to be and if there is even a slightest doubt in your mind that I might not be that man, tell me now, and I’ll walk away.”
Nice Guy: I’m Tired of Being a Loser With Women
about 1 month ago - No comments
Another evening goes by, The nice guy trudges his ass home, alone, tired, and frustrated. He watched yet another jerk steal the girl he had his eyes on. He talked to her for a little while but nothing came from it. He failed to ask her for her number. He failed to make her feel attracted towards him. He thought she must only like jerks. His thoughts centered around why she would put up with this guy’s shit when he could be there for her. He could show her what it felt like to be treated like a princess if she would have only give him a chance, but she didn’t!
He goes home alone again. feeling like a loser with women, feeling helpless, and clueless. He went out again feeling strong that this would be the night. This would be the night he would meet that special women that actually liked nice guys. He stood tall when he left but lost two inches and hunched over as he walked up the steps alone. Staring at the floor where he hoped a woman would soon walk. But the steps felt nothing but the weight of his despair. The steps heard nothing but his two feet and the echo rang through the hallway due to the silence. No laughter from a woman. No sweet conversation about what a good time she had. No smacking of the lips as he had hoped.
His imagination before he left had the evening finishing just the way he planned. He imagined rushing to get the keys in the door and have that magical evening of sex with a woman that finally fell for a nice guy. The beautiful girl locked in his eyes as they begin to kiss….
Women In The Friend’s Zone!
about 1 month ago - 1 comment
I still can not believe how many women come to my pages being stuck in the friend’s zone. But then again when I think back to all the women that were obviously interested in me and yet I felt nothing for them, I suppose it’s possible.
Top Ten Ways to Challenge Women to be Attracted to You
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Let’s take two guys and one woman. And no I’m not talking about a threesome. The first guy is nice, accommodating, and generally lacks any real potential girlfriends in his life. The second guy is also nice, but very busy, and has many potential girlfriends in his life. Who’s more of a challenge?
Obviously the second guy is. I’m sure it doesn’t take a genius to realize this. Look around and you see it all over but…
How can you be that challenge when you don’t have a black book filled of girlfriends to compete over you?
How can you be a challenge when you really like a girl and want to let her know, but everyone tells you that when a woman knows you like her too early on, she will lose interest?
When is it safe to let a woman know you like her without scaring her away?
When should you let a woman know you like her before she loses interest?
and finally…
How can you be that challenge without playing games?
What is Dialteg™ and Where are the Comments?
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Good afternoon everyone!
I just wanted to get the word out there about my site and to encourage more comments from my readers.
So what is Dialteg™ and how did I come up with the name?
Believe it or not I was sitting around trying to think of a wonderful domain name to start my blog. I had written Get Laid on a page of my journal/notebook and it just happened to be upside down.
And then it hit me….
Enough of Nice Guys and Bad Boys, What about Bad Girls?
about 1 month ago - 1 comment
Okay so here’s the deal. You’re this nice guy who feels you don’t have many choices with women in your life. Then by chance you meet this girl you are heavily attracted to and she is into you. You can’t explain why but you go with it. Mainly she’s in control. She calls you. You follow her everywhere and she shows you a life you’ve never seen before. Thensuddenly it hits you. You begin to realize some things about her you just don’t care for. She drinks way too much. She always causes drama where ever you two go. She uses you to do things for even a simple as getting her a drink in the middle of the night.

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